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RIP my daughter Aphra - update p8

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  • Bailey
    Bailey Posts: 3,275
    So sorry to here this Benty, my deepest sympathies to you and your family. 
  • superclive
    superclive Posts: 1,809
    so sorry to hear this xxx lot of love 
  • Redvalleyeast
    Redvalleyeast Posts: 4,726
    Cannot even begin to imagine how you are feeling or even coping. So very,very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. RIP Aphra
  • Redmidland
    Redmidland Posts: 44,700
    So very very sorry to read this news, it must be devastating. RIP Aphra. 
  • Braziliance
    Braziliance Posts: 8,372
    I'm so sorry for your loss, truly a difficult read. 

    I hope you can find comfort, and that your daughter rests in peace. I hope you have family around to support you as well, I can't imagine what you're going through. 

    Sorry and sending all my best wishes. 
  • Rizzo
    Rizzo Posts: 6,435
    Just been having a shouting match with my two kids only to come downstairs, switch on the computer and read this. Puts things into perspective!

    So very, very sorry for your loss. It's something no parent should ever have to deal with, let alone twice. Very best wishes to you, and hope you can somehow move on from this. 
  • stop_shouting
    stop_shouting Posts: 3,680
    Sorry for your loss. RIP Aphra.
  • LargeAddick
    LargeAddick Posts: 32,614
    hoof_it_up_to_benty said:
    I'd just like to thank everyone for their messages - it means a lot.

    Went to the game yesterday and cried at various points. Still in a complete daze but I celebrate having had two such wonderful daughters.

    If you have kids give them a big hug from me and don't forget to tell them you love them.
    I wondered if you’d gone to the game yesterday. At one point, when I was particularly frustrated by the ref, for some reason my thoughts turned to you and your recent loss and everything else just became so insignificant.
  • JohnBoyUK
    JohnBoyUK Posts: 9,027
    I'm so sorry to read this

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  • cafc_se7
    cafc_se7 Posts: 2,282
    I’m so sorry for your losses! 

    May both of your beautiful girls rest in peace together! 
  • PrincessFiona
    PrincessFiona Posts: 5,476
    I read about this yesterday, but couldn't think of anything 'appropriate' to say. I still can't. I am rarely lost for words but his is so tragic, especially after you lost your other daughter not so long ago.
    Truly sincere condolences and hope you find the strength to deal with this
  • N01R4M
    N01R4M Posts: 2,577
    So sorry to read this Hoof_it, and struggling to find words to express the depth of my sympathy for you, your family, and first Georgie and now Aphra's friends for your tragic losses.

    I hope you all have close friends who will be able and willing to give you the ongoing support I am sure you will need in the coming weeks and months.

    Love to you all.
  • bigstemarra
    bigstemarra Posts: 5,098
    Sorry for your loss.

    RIP
  • jimmymelrose
    jimmymelrose Posts: 9,756
    Hell! Literally because I’d rather burn alive than go through that and I consider that the worst way to go.
    Not just one, but two children.
    Every parent’s hell.
    I don’t know how I’d cope but I hope to high heavens that you do.
    Love from me.


  • ct_addick
    ct_addick Posts: 4,338
    I can’t imagine what you are going thru losing 2 kids. Please god give you strength. I hope it comforts you to know you were a great father for those kids. RIP Aphra. 
  • Paddy7
    Paddy7 Posts: 1,663
    That's absolutely awful Benty; thankfully very few of us can put ourselves in your position. I hope it's helped you sharing it on here - just sometimes it can be a wonderful place among friends. All the very best going forward; taker her memories with you to SE7.
  • redman
    redman Posts: 5,286
    Sincere condolences to you and your family. Charlton Life will be thinking of you 
  • willieduff
    willieduff Posts: 986
    So sorry to hear of your loss, two sweet souls gone. I hope you can find the strength and fortitude you need. It is very hard to put into words what I truly feel.  Take care.
  • ken_shabby
    ken_shabby Posts: 6,268
    Truly terrible news HIUTB. Words are inadequate, but I wish you strength in the face of an awful loss.
    Big hug mate.

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  • NornIrishAddick
    NornIrishAddick Posts: 9,623
    So sorry to hear this news, and I apologise for my lateness.
    No parent should have to lose a child.
    I cannot imagine how it feels to lose two.
    I hope that the memories of their love and your family's happy times will help sustain you (at least a little bit).
    It is our loss not to have known Aphra and Georgie. 

  • Radostanradical
    Radostanradical Posts: 851
    Sorry for your loss, RIP.
  • Bangkokaddick
    Bangkokaddick Posts: 4,300
    Sad to read about this. To lose two children must be devastating. RIP to both of them,
  • Phil
    Phil Posts: 613
    So sorry to read about your loss. RIP
  • Redhenry
    Redhenry Posts: 5,361
    Sorry for your loss. RIP Aphra
  • jakecafc
    jakecafc Posts: 2,070
    Sorry for your loss.  RIP.
  • BDL
    BDL Posts: 6,001
    So sorry for your loss.
  • mattinfinland
    mattinfinland Posts: 1,096
    Really sorry to hear about your loss :( that’s devastating.

    RIP Aphra
  • Curbsgoldenera
    Curbsgoldenera Posts: 3,226
    Really sorry to hear this awful news Benty.
    Thank you for sharing those special pictures of Aphra.
    Your Charlton family here are all thinking of you and yours.
  • Leuth
    Leuth Posts: 23,352
    Yep. Hard to know what to say but I hope everyone's words and affirmations have acted as some sort of solace. RIP. 

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