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Headphones Norm Barker RIP - crowdfunder info P20

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  • mattwils
    mattwils Posts: 221
    Rest in peace, he seemed like a lovely man and I remember chatting to him in the toilets at Accrington. He was taking a poster off the wall as a souvenir. It was a fond memory from an otherwise bad day of football, losing 2:1 against a team of giants!! But he was always there!! He must have been to a tonne of grounds watching the team we all love ❤️ 
  • _MrDick
    _MrDick Posts: 13,152
    Such devastating news. I’m still finding hard to take in. He was a lovely fella and a true Charlton legend. RIP old chap. 💔
  • ken_shabby
    ken_shabby Posts: 6,354
    Absolutely desperate news, especially at this time of the year.  RIP Norm.
  • My best mate cradled him in his arms before the emergency services got there, no words can describe my grief, still crying now.
    This has got me, big time, look after your mate, and yourself
  • mattwils said:
    Rest in peace, he seemed like a lovely man and I remember chatting to him in the toilets at Accrington. He was taking a poster off the wall as a souvenir. It was a fond memory from an otherwise bad day of football, losing 2:1 against a team of giants!! But he was always there!! He must have been to a tonne of grounds watching the team we all love ❤️ 
    Reckon there are many men who shared a pee and chat in an away toilet with Norm, I did at Southend in the cup, it’s when I introduced Headphones Norm to my son.🤷🏻‍♂️
  • RIP.
    Sounds like a top bloke. 
  • Brighton Addick
    Brighton Addick Posts: 208
    edited December 2025
    Shocking - a true club legend. We’ll miss you. 
  • se9addick
    se9addick Posts: 32,250
    Awful news, RIP Norm 🎧 

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  • Richard J
    Richard J Posts: 8,049
    First met him in the 80's when we normally only took a couple of hundred fans to away games.

    RIP old friend
  • Very sad news. RIP.
  • Sounds we’ve lost a real one here. What a character and what a huge loss for the Charlton family. RIP Norm
  • crookester
    crookester Posts: 1,378
    RIP Norman, true CAFC legend
  • Terribly sad. All I can manage right now. 
  • CheshireAddick
    CheshireAddick Posts: 1,328
    edited December 2025
    This has come as a real shock. I remember sitting next to headphones Norm away at Blackburn when we had Operation Ewood. 

    RIP. A true legend and for sure  'one of our own' 😪
  • CatAddick
    CatAddick Posts: 2,399
    cafckev said:
    I know the medics who attended him this afternoon, I would like to assure his family, friends and everyone that he was given the best chance possible. The medics are top rate, and I know that if I was ill, they are certainly some of the medics I would like to attend to me. 
    The speed in which they responded was outstanding and they would have gone above and beyond to given him every hope of survival. Sadly when it’s out time, nothing else can be done.
    100%. CatJnr was off duty but went to help when we realised the severity.  I was shocked when he got back and told me (in confidence) who it was.  Everyone there did the best they could in the circumstances but sometimes their best is not quite enough. 
  • greenwichred68
    greenwichred68 Posts: 281
    edited December 2025
    R.i.P fellow Addick.Such shocking news.Absolute gent of a guy and an absolute Charlton legend.Totally heartbroken💔
  • Valleysarr
    Valleysarr Posts: 1,121
    RIP - just echo what others have said. Devastating news . 
    Legend .. 
  • As my nickname might suggest, I'm very much a "Johnny Come Lately" with respect to committing to being an Addick, but I've lived in Woolwich for the best part of 30 years, having arrived not long after you all got the Valley back, and Steve Gritt and Alan Curbishley were in charge. I've always felt that this was a special club, and the responses in this thread really underline that. RIP Norman, you are obviously very well loved, and I suspect will not soon be forgotten.

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  • Very sad news. RIP
  • se9addick
    se9addick Posts: 32,250
    Gribbo said:
    Appreciate that social media can generally be a bit of a cesspit when it comes to most things, but I’ve got to say, the respect shown from the “football family” across the UK - on all the usual fan pages on Facebook and Instagram under His photo - is very humbling and genuinely impressive. It’s restored a little faith in humanity this evening. Well, it has for me at least.
    Spot on mate. 
  • I just went back through my old footage and found a couple of clips of Norm. 

    He spoke so elegantly, and you always got a certain warmness from him. A truly humble man.

    "I've laughed with them, & I've cried with them" 

    "You're gonna have lots of laughs, and you'll probably shed the odd tear, but, such is life, it's good fun" 

    That second quote feeling rather fitting today. 

    Proud of how our fans handled this to get attention to the incident, and well done to all those that helped him. 

    I genuinely feel we lost a huge part of our club today.

    https://x.com/i/status/1997366903908491646
    Lovely tribute mate, got me welling up ❤️
  • Not much I can add
    He was always there
    S true gent
    I don’t much about his family/friends
    I hope somebody can pass on the Love felt for him by his Charlton Family
    RiP Norm and say hello to Seb.x

  • ozaddick
    ozaddick Posts: 2,876
    RIP Norm.
    🙏🏻❤️🎧🤍🙏🏻
  • EastStand
    EastStand Posts: 4,111
    Not Norm, ffs. The kindest, most genial man you could meet. A perfect example of an Addick. We will all miss you.