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It all started here

T_C_E
T_C_E Posts: 16,507
edited January 10 in Not Sports Related

Although our first dog Bailey had qualified in early 2011 visits were few and far between, that was until 2013 when a group from this forum in its previous incarnation were invited to Sparrows lane to meet the Upbeats.

It escapes my memory but whatever reason we were asked to bring our dog to meet the guys, this we did and what stuck with me the most was how Bailey was with the guys, a big powerful 50+kg dog lapping up the attention and the fuss.

This drove me on , despite the knock backs consistent with working with German Shepherds we started to contact schools, organisations and groups asking if they would like to me him, some met with enthusiastic responses some no response at all, some had to be passed to the boss after asking us the supply a photo then sadly communication would cease.

We were invited to @3blokes school in bexleyheath and again watching the children develop a relationship with Bailey in such a short time was a joy to watch.

Moving home saw us having to start again building contacts when by chance I met a lady who had seen me exercise my dog and asked me to help her train hers, to which I did.

Unbeknown to me she was a school teacher locally and after a few weeks invited us to meet the school, we had gone a complete circle, after two maybe three visits we were asked about the Reading dog position and although I loved the thought I had no idea what was involved I studied what was involved and through the years got more experience and realised how the dogs helped the children, personally I grew more confidence and often speak to the whole school or parent groups even the local college invited me to speak to students studying child welfare.

Bailey , Valli and now Bowyer have helped me enjoy many an eye watering moment making breakthroughs with children, be it with reading achievements, dog fears, behavioural issues and even school attendance, by far our biggest achievement is a non verbal child saying his first word in my dogs company.

I’ve said for a long time Bowyer will be our last dog, he’s now six and like Valli before him has spent his life working with young children, losing Valli was a tough one but such is the relationship I have with our dogs breeder I wanted to let her know.

To cut a really long story short after discussions with our breeder along with the school, we’ve decided that retirement is for old people and end of February should hopefully see us bring home a new addition.

Currently only two weeks old, so in around 8 weeks we’ll be joined by our LAST puppy who hopefully will go on to become a Therapy dog and see me through to around 80 years of age by which time our dogs would have spent 25 years serving others.

It all started here……. Everything from encouraging words from you guys and girls, through to staff at the club itself.

I’ve burnt a few bridges with the club so I very much doubt our dogs will ever be seen at The Valley again but despite that I’ll never forget the part they played in this, and to you all if you ever feel our dogs can help you or your family, you know where to find us.

To everyone of you that has supported us with kind words and even financial support when it got really tough we thank you. 🙏

Here he is, no his eyes weren’t open then.
No names yet until 8 weeks, very superstitious 😉

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Comments

  • WHAddick
    WHAddick Posts: 1,234
    Love it Ray. A very inspiring story. Good luck for the future!
  • tangoflash
    tangoflash Posts: 10,809
    As you seem to like naming your dogs after Charlton players, may I suggest "Killer". I'm sure it would go down well at any school  :D
  • Fanny Fanackapan
    Fanny Fanackapan Posts: 18,911
    That's great, Ray ! He's a little stunner !

    Maybe some kind of fundraiser for your ongoing expenses for suggesting /voting on names for the little one? 

    Just a thought....
  • DaveMehmet
    DaveMehmet Posts: 21,863
    That’s great Ray, pleased for you mate. This must have been around 2013/14 at sparrows lane. Amazing how quickly time flies, she’ll be 18 later this year. 

  • T_C_E
    T_C_E Posts: 16,507
    That's great, Ray ! He's a little stunner !

    Maybe some kind of fundraiser for your ongoing expenses for suggesting /voting on names for the little one? 

    Just a thought....
    The names are sorted J , it’s purely a superstition about public naming them. X


  • T_C_E
    T_C_E Posts: 16,507
    That’s great Ray, pleased for you mate. This must have been around 2013/14 at sparrows lane. Amazing how quickly time flies, she’ll be 18 later this year. 

    That was the second visit I believe R, the first was in the dome when we (not me) played against the Upbeats. 

  • Pedro45
    Pedro45 Posts: 5,958
    You are continuing your great work Ray.  So pleased for you. Can't wait to find out the name of the new puppy - maybe Yann, Goddo, TC, Leaburn, Jacko, Nathan, Macca, Jones, Essie7, Nabby, or less likely Lyle?
  • Stuart_the_Red
    Stuart_the_Red Posts: 1,958
    I’ve followed your work from afar (ie here!) and I greatly admire what you do for these children and help them to progress.

    I’m really pleased you’ve decided to keep on helping and I wish there were more people like you out there to help!
  • KBslittlesis
    KBslittlesis Posts: 8,827
    Ahhh Ray look at that gawjus wee pup 😍🤩
    Never forget that day with the Upbeats, Bailey was a superstar with everyone.
    Delighted for you both ♥️
  • T_C_E
    T_C_E Posts: 16,507
    In other news, puppies eyes are now open. ❤️


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  • Curb_It
    Curb_It Posts: 21,299
    Puppy is gorgeous! Good luck with the new addition! 
  • T_C_E
    T_C_E Posts: 16,507
    Curb_It said:
    Puppy is gorgeous! Good luck with the new addition! 
    Thank you, I’m looking forward to training him without the handicap of a lockdown.

  • T_C_E
    T_C_E Posts: 16,507
    Morning, our new addition will come home on the 12th.
    Despite our best efforts to keep him busy Bowyer is missing the company of other dogs, brought up with our pack there was always another dog to play fight with or just annoy so it can’t come quick enough.
    When he’s working he’s all good but at home we keep him in the lounge with us rather than let him wander the house as is normal, he started chewing the hard skin on his elbows so we need to stop that before it becomes habitual.
    Puppy is already showing the character we need to become a Therapy dog, so the rest is up to me.
    Here are are some of his siblings here getting some love, our puppy is of out of picture but the very pretty female sure likes a camera. ❤️



  • T_C_E
    T_C_E Posts: 16,507
    edited February 5
    Just a week to go before puppy joins us at home, preparations for the new addition are mostly in place.
    A small breed crate to travel home in, a larger one with a divider which will be his den, until he’s old enough to roam the house at night.
    All stuff we had, but gave away after Bow no longer needed them.
    Today at school it’s all excitement about the new addition and that’s just the staff the children are unaware of the puppy.
    Also today in preparation for world book day on the 24th March we’ve been invited to talk to every class over the course of a whole day about what we do and how Bowyer’s presence encourages children to read, to make good choices and even want to attend school because it’s Reading dog day.
    All this in the presence of the school trust and the council.
    Wednesday while reading with some children one of those that reads with us on Thursday passed us by very upset, today he came out and read and told me what the issue was and while stroking Bow opened up and spoke about what was on his mind.
    On returning him to class I got the attention of a passing teacher and asked to speak about X immediately the teacher told me not to say any more so I knew this was serious. 
    We spoke to those with the authority and while it’s not for public disclosure, I was told the lad hadn’t told anyone but chose to tell us while sitting with Bow such is the comfort of being with him.
    Again this week, I returned to school without a dog to collect our Granddaughter, as chatted to some of the parents an autistic child I recognised approached and he had obviously recognised me which is quite unusual when I don’t have a dog with me, as is the protocol I held out my hand to do the little fist pump, my hand was brushed aside and I was hugged in view of watching parents, fortunately I looked up and saw a teacher from my granddaughters class smiling, such a sad state of affairs when the first thought that comes to your mind is how it’s interpreted.
    Even more so when one of the women chatting in our group introduced herself as his mum, she smiled as she told me how he talks about Bowyer at home and got very upset when she told him about the death of Valli. 
    I’m lucky enough to witness first hand the children’s relationship with my dogs, but there’s something very special when a parent tells you how they’ve had an effect on their child. 
    But as we say “it’s why we do what we do” 


  • KBslittlesis
    KBslittlesis Posts: 8,827
    Oh Ray that’s marvellous 🤩 
    I’m so excited for your new arrival 🥰