Sh*t week but...

maybe_baby

Already seropiusly underweight but lost more, got ill...my van revealed more rust than was initially evident, plus some brake issues...gf had two day autistic meltdown...gf's father died of heart attack!

But...our dog Rufus kept his cool, comforted us, loved us, understood why he wasn't getting much attention, forgave us, made us laugh, made us cry and reminded us of why we chose him. I once said I'd never have a dog...what was I thinking? I'm a better person because of the humanity he's taught me.

Edit: Admin please feel free to delete or transfer to Alsations whatever thread.

BIG_ROB

My dogs are all my best mates and I ain't afraid to say it (sorry to burst you bubble CAFCDave)

; )

cafcdave123

BIG_ROB said:

My dogs are all my best mates and I ain't afraid to say it (sorry to burst you bubble CAFCDave)

; )

Its ok mate, my mrs prefers your dogs to me and she has a)never met them and b) is allergic to animal fur……

nolly

keep your chin up maybe mate, hope it turns round for you.

TelMc32

Glad that you both feel you're getting comfort from Rufus maybe...horrible week, but look after each other and hope things get better for you both soon.

Algarveaddick

Keep battling away mate, you three keep looking after one and other and the good times will return!

Fanny Fanackapan

So sorry to hear of your terrible week. When things start to go wrong, they certainly know how to multiply.

Stay strong & keep cuddling those 2 most important "people" in your life.

maybe_baby

Thank you for your lovely comments. We do have some comfort as in gf dad was terminally ill with cancer (astbestos) and was lingering on for others, when it was evident he was tired of the pain and the waiting...it's almost a case of grieving early.

ps. I know I can appear a little soft in the head at times, but I'm pretty unbreakable and will look after everyone to the best of my ability...it's because of people like you that I can do this :-)

Davo55

maybe_baby said:

Thank you for your lovely comments. We do have some comfort as in gf dad was terminally ill with cancer (astbestos) and was lingering on for others, when it was evident he was tired of the pain and the waiting...it's almost a case of grieving early.

ps. I know I can appear a little soft in the head at times, but I'm pretty unbreakable and will look after everyone to the best of my ability...it's because of people like you that I can do this :-)

Actually. MB, I think you always come across as a very decent, grounded (but slightly eccentric) kind of guy. Your girlfriend is very lucky to have you there for her, and vice versa. I hope that things pick up for you both soon.

kentaddick

https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=L3n_zkMdewk

light one up maybe

maybe_baby

kentaddick said:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=L3n_zkMdewk

light one up maybe

I was doing just that when I got to your post...Hey man, we is well connected!

AddickUpNorth

Peace and love to you maybe, may the sun shine on you next week!

se9addick

Chin up mate, things'll get better

LenGlover

Sorry to read this maybe_baby.

Stay strong for your girlfriend at her time of loss.

Saga Lout

maybe_baby said:

Thank you for your lovely comments. We do have some comfort as in gf dad was terminally ill with cancer (astbestos) and was lingering on for others, when it was evident he was tired of the pain and the waiting...it's almost a case of grieving early.

ps. I know I can appear a little soft in the head at times, but I'm pretty unbreakable and will look after everyone to the best of my ability...it's because of people like you that I can do this :-)

One of my best friends died of cancer caused by asbestos - it was horrible to see him deteriorate. I was thinking about him only last night. I admire you for being strong and looking after your loved ones.