Hi all,
Looking for a bit of advice, as I know quite a few on here have made the jump to moving abroad. My company are speaking with me about moving to either Dublin, Boston or Austin (Texas). I know Boston relatively well, have been there four times already. Its a nice place, but I'm just curious to hear some experiences of other Londoners who have made similar jumps across to America and how they have got on in adjusting, how they made the decision, nightmares/pros/cons etc.
Another opportunity which is being heavily discussed is Dublin. I've been there once before, seemed a nice and vibrant place. Anyone made the same move before?
For those who don't know me that well outside of Charlton Life: I'm 27, no kids/mortgage to worry about. Most of my mates have gone on to settle down with partners or kids or simply have just become boring. So I'm thinking that a change of scenery might do me good, but its still not an easy decision whatsoever to move away from the country where my family and homely surroundings are.
Plus, there is Charlton. How on earth do you cope with not going to Charlton?!
Any tips or advice would be really appreciated.
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I wish I had.
Austin is a fantastic place by the way, the people are great and it really is a vibrant, buzzing city.
The climate thing wouldn't be a big draw for me as I'm not a fan of the heat whatsoever. I think it is still 37-38 degrees there right now. I also understand that it is a 'driving' town, as in there isn't a great deal of public transport options. I don't have a license unfortunately, which means that Austin is 3rd out of the 3 in my heart and mind at the moment. Still an option I have to consider though.
And as you already know Boston, you will know it is a massive sporting city (if you include the Patriots as well) so that would be my choice.
However Boston as you know is a great city and that would be my choice. Good location to go and do some weekend travelling up and down the east coast at weekends as well. Dublin will give you all the aggro of moving only to be somewhere very similar to the UK.
Out of interest what do you do for a living if you don't mind me asking? Always wanted to move to America myself one day.
Don't Know about Austin, but even as an Irishman, I think that Americans, on their own soil, are some of the nicest, friendliest bunch of people I've met. Just dont argue with them about Gun Control and always have an atlas handy so you can point to the general area of the world that you come from.
People in Dublin have had a rough few years after the economy collapsed, and there isnt that same friendliness around that I remember from 80s and 90s.. Saying that, if you create a good bunch of friends around you when you are there, its a massive Party town.
The cultural difference between the UK and southern Ireland is pretty much accent only, although obviously they have their own laws as an independent state.
Only an hour to fly back to London on a cheap Ryanair flight as well.
Dublin would be my last choice, not much happening there and surprisingly kind of small, for a european capital.
Boston has its issues but, particularly at this time of year, can be very beautiful along with the region of new england.
wish i had your dilemma and good luck with your move!
Boston would be my preference at this stage I think, as I know it quite well. Its just that I think the business' preference is for me to fill the role in Dublin.
What should be an exciting decision is proving to be quite stressful. However, I know that if I don't do something then I may regret it later in life when the chance is gone.
(And how do you get over not watching Charlton live each week?!)
I wouldn't suggest you do the same, but make the money and then move back if you have to/ want to. Love to you all x
Think of it as a working holiday. The point is, you can always come back, you are actually not committing that much.
I couldn't tell you how much you gain from living in a different country, living a different lifestyle, being surrounded by people with different views and attitudes. You will grow exponentially. You have to go. Go GOGOGOGOGOGO.
@Chunes Deep down I know you are 100% spot on. I think the biggest thing on my mind is the actual role I take. As I said they are all different from each other.
Whatever happens, I'll make sure I'm back to see us in the Playoff Final!
Although saying that, I visited Boston a couple of years ago and would do anything to get a job and settle there, superb city.
Stressful decision but i'm very envious!
Good luck and go for it!
I was 29 when I moved to Switzerland. It was a bit difficult and intimidating at first but I am glad I have experienced working somewhere else.
I have been on work assignments to both Austin and Boston. I think you would love Boston Tom, your acerbic wit is made for that City
Don't let the lack of a.driving licence put you off. It is something you could do in 2 weeks in England on an intensive course before you moved.
Go for it Tom
You wont ever regret it.
However, US wil change you forever - Dublin would just be like an extension of what you currently have.
If you can, go to US, and Austin as first choice.
Great opportunity for you. Austin is the way to go.
take a break from the reds and you'll be amazed at how young, people will say you look!