Sat here in bed with the wife worrying about the world going to ruin and just saw your post. What utter shite news. Wife is going through the wringer today as her nephew signed up to the Swedish forces yesterday and her dad is ill in hospital tonight. He collapsed twice yesterday and went home from A&E and was found collapsed on the floor again today. Me and the wife have been planning to move to Sweden for a while, to look after him in his older years, but were expecting it to be later in the year, or next year. Now looks like it'll be very soon. Life has a habit of making plans for us that we'd rather not have received.
I know it might sound inappropriate Beds but if there's anything on your bucket list that you'd like to do, get it done. If it's anything you might need some help organising post it here, somebody is bound to know a route to getting it arranged.
Most of all, as others have said, we're all by your side every step of this unwanted journey.
Life is what happens to you whilst you are busy making other plans. 😏
From someone that has just gone 5 years cancer clear, you have to stay and think positive, surround yourself with people that care, and keep looking at the future because you will fight to see it. Stay strong mate.
we all hope you get positive news next week Beds .. at the very worst, you can live without a pancreas, IF the diagnosis recommends removal .. remember modern medical science is fantastic in what it can achieve .. I know you'll insist on and get the best possible treatment .. above all stay positive and as fit as possible .. without being trite, worry and fretting will make you weaker, easy for me to say of course .. you know a lot of us are praying for you
Just seen this Mate and barely know what to say. My words will mean little by themselves but hopefully, coupled with all the good wishes on here, they might just help you pull through. These things are so horrible but more and more people seem to beat them now. All the very very best to you and your family, we're thinking of you.
Me and my two sons today . Trying to take our minds off of things . The football didn’t help much ! Might be the last time I get down The Valley before treatment, whatever that may consist of.
Thanks again for all your kind words - I’m gonna fight this bloody thing ✊🏻✊🏻✊🏻
Me and my two sons today . Trying to take our minds off of things . The football didn’t help much ! Might be the last time I get down The Valley before treatment, whatever that may consist of.
Thanks again for all your kind words - I’m gonna fight this bloody thing ✊🏻✊🏻✊🏻
Beds mate. It's horrible news. But there's hope - a mate of mine's mum got it three years ago. They operated fairly quickly and she's still going. Take heart, and be strong mate.
Hi Beds, so sorry to hear this. I had pancreatic cancer 7 years ago at age 45. I had a whipple operation and chemo for 6 months after. If I can be of any help please feel free to send me a message.
Hi Beds, so sorry to hear this. I had pancreatic cancer 7 years ago at age 45. I had a whipple operation and chemo for 6 months after. If I can be of any help please feel free to send me a message.
Thanks. I’m not sure I’m going to be offered a Whipple as the tumor is too large but I’ll know by Monday and I’ll get back to you if I’m having that procedure.
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From someone that has just gone 5 years cancer clear, you have to stay and think positive, surround yourself with people that care, and keep looking at the future because you will fight to see it. Stay strong mate.
Wags finger
Busted!
Wishing you all the best.
All the very best to you and your family, keep us posted, you got this mate!