Some people have it, others do not, 'Gift of the Gab' or WSS predatory instincts. How do you fair when trying to talk to a female you may have just met in a bar/club?
Me, I have gotta say if I even get to that stage I am doing well, far to shy & never know what to really say. I'd rate myself a Generous 2 out of 10.
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"Have you met my mate ... Gay Steve, 33 ... from Southend "
that pisses all over me.
Morning love, have you ever your belly button licked, from the inside
or my other china,
Have you got any ginger in you, (if answer is yes) well do you want some more (if answer is no) do you want some!
Charming eh
Anyway seriosly, never had a problem chatting up the ladies, gift of the gab and all that!
Just get smashed have a look round if theres anyone worse off make your way over. Very little conversation required then!
Chatting people up is purely a game, nothing more than that. Take note of everything the other says and adapt your conversation and personality to try and appeal to them.
Make em giggle, seem friendly and non-threatening, and that you're not taking yourself too seriously. Be complimentary, without being over the top, too forward, or sleazy. Appear as if you're happy, you're doing nothing more than sharing a joke or conversation, and if you've had a drink, not pished.
I'm a firm believer that most people could virtually chat up anyone they wanted within reason if they go about it with the right approach.
Names, jobs, background, stories, make the whole lot up. See how far and outrageous your stories get before they twig, but make sure they realise your only having a giggle.
Obviously don't say your name is Fitz and a Dolphin Trainer if you're at a formal blind date dinner.....
;-)
Mx
Mrs B off line now??????
To be honest- just be yourself and just don't look like you'retrying too hard.
Oh and being a soap star works well! ;-)
Anywhose, before my current squeeze i was not that successful with chatting up - i would chat and chat and chat but it does not mean you necessarily get anywhere.
Try to find some common interests with the person you are talking to rather than the cheesy stuff i think.
I've lost count of the amount of times I've claimed I was a dolphin trainer, fighter pilot, brain surgeon etc and forgotten five minutes later.
DJ is boring it seems! Or too unbelievable!!
That said I've been in a relationship (with the same person) for the last 14 years and so maybe it's all in my head?
The book 'The Game' (is that what it's called?) is one man's diary of his journey into 'pulling' and makes a good read in places....
heard him interviewed on the radio once and it sounded a really good read
Same here, I'd give myself a rather big headed 8 out of 10 if I've had an introduction, 0 if not.
http://www.amazon.com/Game-Penetrating-Secret-Society-Artists/dp/0060554738
Charlton Charlie - ditto....
(large winky thing!)
Don't take this wrong way Kets, but you are top bloke who loves life - nowt wrong with you mate.
is there anything better / worse / funnier than being out in a group, seeing a mate pluck up the courage, approach a girl he likes, she seems to be a really nice girl and they're getting on really well, only for your fat sweaty mate to come over, bend her over, dry hump her from behind and try to get her lills out !!
LOL
Even went into great detail about how there was a local Gondaleer mafia and a strict pecking order as to who got the plum jobs.
It never worked mind you, but was fun!
Aside from that I am absolutely awful at that caper - always have been.