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John Sullivan (the goalie) - now over in Las Vegas (p2)

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  • Uboat
    Uboat Posts: 12,195
    Sad for him. Just goes to show you can never tell, as he always seemed like an upbeat character.
  • WSS
    WSS Posts: 25,070
    Always seem to be the life and soul of the party. Just goes to show. Good luck in the future John.
  • LenGlover
    LenGlover Posts: 31,651
    Good luck to him indeed.

    He appeared to be a really good squad man when with us and never let us down when he did play.

    I hope he finds what he seeks.
  • Henry Irving
    Henry Irving Posts: 85,223
    "I would recommend any footballer going through a tough time to not be afraid of it. It doesn’t make you a bad person, it doesn’t make you a weak person, it just means you are human."

    Good Luck John and well done the PFA. They do a great job.
  • Viewfinder
    Viewfinder Posts: 4,911

    "I would recommend any footballer going through a tough time to not be afraid of it. It doesn’t make you a bad person, it doesn’t make you a weak person, it just means you are human."

    Good Luck John and well done the PFA. They do a great job.

    Hear hear, Henry. Best wishes to John. Much of my admiration for Chris Powell - apart from his playing and managing - was for his good work for his fellow men at the PFA.

    Wim Wenders made a particularly haunting film, a psychological thriller: 'The Goalkeeper's Fear of the Penalty', 1972.

  • HantsAddick
    HantsAddick Posts: 2,423
    So sad. Really liked John and wish him all the very best in whatever he does in the future.
  • Covered End
    Covered End Posts: 52,006
    He still "supports" Charlton. Spotted him on the train platform, last season, at Brighton.
  • paulie8290
    paulie8290 Posts: 23,344
    Good Luck John

    He always seemed so happy from stuff he said in interviews or on twitter
  • roseandcrown
    roseandcrown Posts: 7,587
    Good Luck John.

    Just goes to show this can happen to anyone.
  • LenGlover
    LenGlover Posts: 31,651
    edited June 2014

    He still "supports" Charlton. Spotted him on the train platform, last season, at Brighton.

    He's a Brighton boy and supports Brighton.

    http://www.tribalfootball.com/articles/charlton-keeper-sullivan-fulham-striker-zamora-my-hero-2609371#.U7FfKvldX9s
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  • Fanny Fanackapan
    Fanny Fanackapan Posts: 18,738
    Reading that brought a lump to my throat.

    How brave of Sully to come out & put this in the public domain. Takes a big man to do that IMHO.

    As someone who has had their "black dog moments" over the years, I can fully empathise with his words ....although mine were only visible to those close to me.

    I SO hope that he will always have the support of close family, friends, colleagues like Danny H - feeling alone & isolated is such a dark place.

    Keep smiling, John & stay positive. Follow your heart to the place where you will be successful again, and most of all, happy.
  • Weegie Addick
    Weegie Addick Posts: 16,521
    Really wish him all the best for the future - takes a lot of courage to go public like this.
  • cafctom
    cafctom Posts: 11,370
    edited June 2014
    Sad to read, good luck John.

    It really annoys me when people try to justify the stick they give players with nonsense like "they're footballers, they should just deal with it", as if it really is that simple.

    I know Sullivan hasn't referred to supporters in that article, but being a goalkeeper in the professional game must be such a lonely place at times. You rarely get the glory, but make one clanger and you feel entirely responsible for the feelings of your team-mates, fans etc.
  • Swisdom
    Swisdom Posts: 14,977
    Fair play for coming out with it and hopefully he re-evaluates the need to retire as he is still a young man.

    As a goalie I never thought he was the most amazing but he could do a job. It just goes to show that a spot of mental fragility can really tear you apart.

    As someone who has suffered depression in the past I kind of know where he is at and really hope he gets the support he needs and comes out the other side fighting
  • Rizzo
    Rizzo Posts: 6,435
    Bravo to him for opening up about this. I just hope he doesn't regret his decision to leave football behind at such an early age.
  • All the best John. Great work from the PFA in getting John the help he needed.
  • Swisdom
    Swisdom Posts: 14,977
    Uboat said:

    Sad for him. Just goes to show you can never tell, as he always seemed like an upbeat character.

    Perversely that's all part and parcel of depression - you act upbeat in an attempt to mask the real problems. If you feel people like you and want you around them it makes you feel better about things and offers a little escapism.

  • uie2
    uie2 Posts: 4,596
    best wishes john
  • Covered End
    Covered End Posts: 52,006
    edited June 2014
    LenGlover said:

    He still "supports" Charlton. Spotted him on the train platform, last season, at Brighton.

    He's a Brighton boy and supports Brighton.

    http://www.tribalfootball.com/articles/charlton-keeper-sullivan-fulham-striker-zamora-my-hero-2609371#.U7FfKvldX9s
    In which case, he can **** right off :-)

    Only joking. All the best to John and brave of him to speak out.

    He was mildy criticised at Charlton, by some fans, for a lack of concentration and perhaps that was correct, as he now says he was struggling with his concentration at Cambridge.
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  • Nug
    Nug Posts: 4,623
    Best of luck John in whatever path you decide to take.
  • kentaddick
    kentaddick Posts: 18,729
    Made me think even more of the man and a much better keeper than what he seems to have given himself credit for. You're a legend, John!
  • charliewright1
    charliewright1 Posts: 1,650
    What a nice man he seems. I was playing in a charity game at the valley for help for heroes and the "Rifles" a couple of seasons ago, I ask him via twitter firstly if he wanted to play?
    He replied almost straight away that he would be on holiday, I then asked if he had a "spare" pair of gloves for me to wear?
    Once again he replied and said "no problem" and if I was going to the game I was to call him over during his warm up!!
    I waited for him to finish and called him over and introduced myself, he shook my hand and said he would get me another pair out of the dressing room as the ones he had on were soaking wet!
    Off he run and a few minutes later he appeared with a nice dry pair!
    I thanked him and had a couple of photos with him , he apologized him couldn't make the game and wished me luck!
    He is definitely one of the good guys!

    All the very best John, I hope everything works out the way you want, whether it's in football or something different!
  • Good luck to him - hope he beats the depression.
  • Oggy Red
    Oggy Red Posts: 44,955


    Keep smiling, John & stay positive. Follow your heart to the place where you will be successful again, and most of all, happy.

    My thoughts too. Good luck, John.

  • Atletico Addick
    Atletico Addick Posts: 5,843
    Had him with me at POTY and the first thing he does was get the whole table a beer in. Very intellectual and down to earth, speaks very well and doesn't portray anything bar being a very nice chap. It's common amongst footballers, I remember Leon McKenzie, those that speak out are the strongest.
  • Davo55
    Davo55 Posts: 7,836
    If, by being open about his problems, John helps other players to deal with their own issues, he will have done them all a very great service. Well done, John Sullivan, and very best wishes for the future.
  • J BLOCK
    J BLOCK Posts: 8,311
    Must be horrible, best of luck to him
  • PeteF
    PeteF Posts: 1,698
    We need more people like John to make sure the stigma is removed, it affects so many, most with depression hide it very well.
  • All the best John...know what your going through