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Moral Question

brogib
brogib Posts: 2,128
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What would you say is worse;

Not contacting one of your oldest and closest mates after a life saving opperation.

or

Declining an invite to one of your oldest and closest mates wedding coz you live in another country?

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  • LouisMend
    LouisMend Posts: 5,448
    edited April 2015
    The 1st one is worse
  • WestCountryAddick
    WestCountryAddick Posts: 2,545
    First one. I got married in another country and invited my friends but I fully realised and understood that only some of them would actually be able to make it. Those that couldn't, I had no ill will towards them at all.
  • nth_london_addick
    nth_london_addick Posts: 35,919
    1 all day long
  • Covered End
    Covered End Posts: 52,013
    I'll say 2, because I know you want the answer to be 1 :smiley:
  • Lincsaddick
    Lincsaddick Posts: 32,357
    1) he may suspect that you died on the operating table .. or else were too weak after the op to answer the dog n bone or reply to a 'get well soon' card .. he was considering your best interests.

    2) he may consider you too ill to put yourself through the trauma of a good piss up and knees up before/after the wedding .. or .. he's a right fecking hooligan and has had his passport confiscated and is too embarrassed to tell you about it
  • Algarveaddick
    Algarveaddick Posts: 21,156
    WestCountryAddick said:

    First one. I got married in another country and invited my friends but I fully realised and understood that only some of them would actually be able to make it. Those that couldn't, I had no ill will towards them at all.

    Same here. 1st one is far worse.
  • Addickted
    Addickted Posts: 19,456
    Move on :wink:
  • brogib
    brogib Posts: 2,128
    Pmsl
  • nth_london_addick
    nth_london_addick Posts: 35,919
    Should have called you mate but I was hunting giraffes no service
  • To_Be_Franck
    To_Be_Franck Posts: 1,095
    edited April 2015
    "Jeremy Kyle, he's coming for you"
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  • Stig
    Stig Posts: 29,032
    Hang on, I haven't declined yet ;-)
  • CrayAddick
    CrayAddick Posts: 3,913
    1st one
  • seth plum
    seth plum Posts: 53,448
    First one.
  • iainment
    iainment Posts: 8,040
    First one, no contest.

    Was it you?
  • Valiantphil
    Valiantphil Posts: 6,410
    The 1st one is worse
  • bobmunro
    bobmunro Posts: 20,851
    First one - because a) life or death is far more important than a wedding and b) your spelling of operation!
  • tangoflash
    tangoflash Posts: 10,784
    Second one depends on locations. If you live in the UK and the wedding is in Australia, then it's understandable.

    However, if you were in Bristol and the wedding was in Newport............. :neutral:
  • brogib
    brogib Posts: 2,128
    tangoflash said:

    Second one depends on locations. If you live in the UK and the wedding is in Australia, then it's understandable.

    However, if you were in Bristol and the wedding was in Newport............. :neutral:

    I was in Gravesend and the wedding was in Tilbury
  • DaveMehmet
    DaveMehmet Posts: 21,602
    brogib said:

    What would you say is worse;

    Not contacting one of your oldest and closest mates after a life saving opperation.

    or

    Declining an invite to one of your oldest and closest mates wedding coz you live in another country?

    It's only a kidney ffs. ;)
  • Curb_It
    Curb_It Posts: 21,229
    Was the wedding invite the next time you heard from the friend?
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  • AddickUpNorth
    AddickUpNorth Posts: 8,325
    Not something that will ever come up in my life. I have no mates.
  • nth_london_addick
    nth_london_addick Posts: 35,919
    Stop killing the poor veg then you mean feck
  • AddickUpNorth
    AddickUpNorth Posts: 8,325
    STEP AWAY FROM THE GIRAFFE
  • nth_london_addick
    nth_london_addick Posts: 35,919
    I am just soaking the skin getting it in shape for the sofa

    Looks good, rob has plaqued the head the eyes still look alive
  • brogib
    brogib Posts: 2,128
    Curb_It said:

    Was the wedding invite the next time you heard from the friend?

    Well, bumped into him for the overnight I was last in UK
  • Cordoban Addick
    Cordoban Addick Posts: 5,448
    F*** him Rob brogib your true friends are on here.
  • se7oaks
    se7oaks Posts: 265
    1st one easy. As for the wedding though, a mate got married in the south of France a few years ago and he lost a few friends cos they thought he was just expecting them to be able to afford it with no problems. I was a bit skint as well but used some of the money I was saving up for a new car. It was a great do but 8 months later they split up. Gutted and still skint.

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