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Who needs to know?

iainment
iainment Posts: 8,039
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Just got married and not sure who to inform and if the list is different for bride or groom.

I know I need to tell pensions people and mortgage company. Who else?

Thanks in anticipation.
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  • WestStandNeil
    WestStandNeil Posts: 803
    Your wife??

    Congrats btw
  • Fortune 82nd Minute
    Fortune 82nd Minute Posts: 8,338
    I've got a funny feeling you are going to regret asking this :-) 
  • Elthamaddick
    Elthamaddick Posts: 15,810
    your bit on the side
  • JohnBoyUK
    JohnBoyUK Posts: 9,017
    just double check with your solicitor whether your pre-nup is in fact legal?!
  • iainment
    iainment Posts: 8,039
    I'm not fishing for congrats - but thank you. Genuinely worried I might have to inform people but know not who.
  • WSS
    WSS Posts: 25,070
    I never told anybody (well I obviously told some people but you know what I mean...) and the wife only told people when wanting to change her name on bank cards etc.

    Not sure there's an obligation to tell anyone unless you are applying for new policies etc. is there?
  • ShootersHillGuru
    ShootersHillGuru Posts: 50,619
    Tax man
  • bigman backstick
    bigman backstick Posts: 76
    Might need to make sure that your employer has your now wife as next of kin etc for pension insurance things.
  • ForeverAddickted
    ForeverAddickted Posts: 94,318
    Remember thinking this when I got married and had one over riding thought

    WHAT HAVE I DONE!!!!!!
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  • ForeverAddickted
    ForeverAddickted Posts: 94,318
    ForeverAddickted said:
    Remember thinking this when I got married and had one over riding thought

    WHAT HAVE I DONE!!!!!!
    Damnit... Seems my wife has hacked my CharltonLife account - Going to have to change my password AGAIN!!
  • grumpyaddick
    grumpyaddick Posts: 6,596
    Your boyfriend. 
  • iaitch
    iaitch Posts: 10,228
    You just didn't want to invite CL to your wedding.
  • smudge7946
    smudge7946 Posts: 4,131
    Your other wife 
  • iainment
    iainment Posts: 8,039
    I'm impressed with the wit.
  • LenGlover
    LenGlover Posts: 31,651
    It appears that you may own a property together if you've told the mortgage company.

    Land Registry might need to know if her name has changed too. Whether they do anything with the information is another issue but at least you are seen to have told them.

    DVLA if she drives.

    Any joint insurances, bank accounts and utlities.
  • Wheresmeticket
    Wheresmeticket Posts: 17,304
    iainment said:
    Just got married and not sure who to 
    Cheap laughs aplenty 
  • se9addick
    se9addick Posts: 32,034
    Is this the most click-baity thread title ever?
  • CafcWest
    CafcWest Posts: 6,167
    Congrats.  Pensions provider(s), Mortgage provider (if you have one), Life Assurance, House insurance (so she is on the policy), Car Insurance (if you want her covered on the policy), HMRC for tax, Employer (so they update emergency contact details), Facebook relationship status (keep her happy!).  Can't think of anything else or anything funny to add!!
  • Athletico Charlton
    Athletico Charlton Posts: 14,273
    edited February 2019
    I thought the point of getting married is that your wife does all of this kind of stuff for you.
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  • Macronate
    Macronate Posts: 12,892
    Your neighbours because the s** is going to be loud, rampant and plentiful for a brief period.
  • CAFCspooney
    CAFCspooney Posts: 562
    Passport office. Travel tickets and passport must be in the same name.
  • AFKABartram
    AFKABartram Posts: 57,825
    edited February 2019
    As I have collated a personal information dossier on our top 500 posters stemming from your digital footprints, I already knew. 
  • Raith_C_Chattonell
    Raith_C_Chattonell Posts: 5,678
    The council, to stop your 25% single persons discount for council tax ... if you ever had it.  :neutral:
  • RodneyCharltonTrotta
    RodneyCharltonTrotta Posts: 14,827
    iainment said:
    I'm impressed with the wit.
    Start a thread to announce you're married (congratulations) then within a few posts you're boasting about wedding night feedback...hopefully the length was equally admired.

  • Covered End
    Covered End Posts: 51,995
    iainment said:
    Just got married and not sure who to inform and if the list is different for bride or groom.

    I know I need to tell pensions people and mortgage company. Who else?

    Thanks in anticipation.
    I think it's only CL that need to know.
  • Covered End
    Covered End Posts: 51,995
    Covered End said:
    iainment said:
    Just got married and not sure who to inform and if the list is different for bride or groom.

    I know I need to tell pensions people and mortgage company. Who else?

    Thanks in anticipation.
    I think it's only CL that need to know.
    Hang on, what about Jeremy Corbyn ?
  • masicat
    masicat Posts: 5,008
    Boyfriend?
    sorry, everything else had gone.
  • LenGlover
    LenGlover Posts: 31,651
    The fans' forum.

    In fact I'm surprised they don't know already

    :wink:
  • WestStandNeil
    WestStandNeil Posts: 803
    grumpyaddick said:
    Your boyfriend. 
    masicat said:
    Boyfriend?
    sorry, everything else had gone.
    @masicat Boyfriend had already been done as well, think again

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