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  • Gillis said:
    sam3110 said:
    sam3110 said:
    Chunes said:
    The reason you tip in America is because the staff are paid $3 an hour and they live on gratuity. 

    In England they are paid a living wage and a tip should only be given for good service. 
    Most bartenders are paid minimum wage actually, which is below London Living Wage, and rely on tips and service charge to bump up the hourly rate.

    Unless you're serving yourself from a machine, you're still receiving a service, whether you've come to a bar or been served at a table. 

    Go to a restaurant or a proper cocktail bar and not paying the service when it's been perfectly fine is just being a tight bastard 
    what professions should you tip then? And it is dependent on the service surely. Isn't averyone paid to do their job?
    Anyone in the hospitality sector IMO, as that's generally people waiting on you, as opposed to a general service. 

    A bartender or a chef making you food and drinks and it being delivered to you for you to enjoy, with people at your beck and call, is vastly different to someone scanning a t-shirt through a till. 
    Would you tip at McDonald's?
    I worked at McDonald’s in Catford for 3 years while I was studying and in those three years I got one 20p tip.

    I know that working the tills at Marcy D’s is not a dream job, but the pay was relatively fair and we didn’t expect tips.
  • Off_it
    Off_it Posts: 29,541
    Gillis said:
    sam3110 said:
    sam3110 said:
    Chunes said:
    The reason you tip in America is because the staff are paid $3 an hour and they live on gratuity. 

    In England they are paid a living wage and a tip should only be given for good service. 
    Most bartenders are paid minimum wage actually, which is below London Living Wage, and rely on tips and service charge to bump up the hourly rate.

    Unless you're serving yourself from a machine, you're still receiving a service, whether you've come to a bar or been served at a table. 

    Go to a restaurant or a proper cocktail bar and not paying the service when it's been perfectly fine is just being a tight bastard 
    what professions should you tip then? And it is dependent on the service surely. Isn't averyone paid to do their job?
    Anyone in the hospitality sector IMO, as that's generally people waiting on you, as opposed to a general service. 

    A bartender or a chef making you food and drinks and it being delivered to you for you to enjoy, with people at your beck and call, is vastly different to someone scanning a t-shirt through a till. 
    Would you tip at McDonald's?
    Or Pret?
  • Chunes
    Chunes Posts: 19,166
    And I'd say making a good coffee involves a lot more steps and skill than pouring a beer. 
  • MrOneLung
    MrOneLung Posts: 28,213
    sam3110 said:
    sam3110 said:
    Chunes said:
    The reason you tip in America is because the staff are paid $3 an hour and they live on gratuity. 

    In England they are paid a living wage and a tip should only be given for good service. 
    Most bartenders are paid minimum wage actually, which is below London Living Wage, and rely on tips and service charge to bump up the hourly rate.

    Unless you're serving yourself from a machine, you're still receiving a service, whether you've come to a bar or been served at a table. 

    Go to a restaurant or a proper cocktail bar and not paying the service when it's been perfectly fine is just being a tight bastard 
    what professions should you tip then? And it is dependent on the service surely. Isn't averyone paid to do their job?
    Anyone in the hospitality sector IMO, as that's generally people waiting on you, as opposed to a general service. 

    A bartender or a chef making you food and drinks and it being delivered to you for you to enjoy, with people at your beck and call, is vastly different to someone scanning a t-shirt through a till. 
    That service is already included in the price. When I pay for a meal or a drink, I expect the price to already ensure I get
    the chef to cook it to a satisfactory standard and the same with having my drink poured. 
  • YTS1978
    YTS1978 Posts: 1,862
    edited September 20
    Off_it said:
    I love it when you go up to a bar to get your own drink and the surly person behind it barely makes eye contact, let alone speaks, and then they ask you - via the screen of course, they are mute - for a tip.

    Absolutely love it. It's one of my favourite things in life.

    My tip is, "you're not suited for the hospitality business sunshine".
    They introduced this at The Shipwright last season. I bought a pint one night. Served by a typically surly barmaid and slammed down on the bar. Went to pay by card and there were additional questions on the reader. Didn't have my glasses on so queried it. It was gratuity! I think my exact worst were "are you fucking high?" Ridiculous. But i guess a lot of tourists just roll with it!!!
  • Off_it
    Off_it Posts: 29,541
    YTS1978 said:
    Off_it said:
    I love it when you go up to a bar to get your own drink and the surly person behind it barely makes eye contact, let alone speaks, and then they ask you - via the screen of course, they are mute - for a tip.

    Absolutely love it. It's one of my favourite things in life.

    My tip is, "you're not suited for the hospitality business sunshine".
    They introduced this at The Shipwright last season. I bought a pint one night. Served by a typically surly barmaid and slammed down on the bar. Went to pay by card and there were additional questions on the reader. Didn't have my glasses on so queried it. It was gratuity! I think my exact worst were "are you fucking high?" Ridiculous. But i guess a lot of tourists just roll with it!!!
    To be fair, it takes a lot of hard work, effort and training to consistently treat your customers with such levels of contempt.
  • sam3110
    sam3110 Posts: 24,968
    sam3110 said:
    sam3110 said:
    Chunes said:
    The reason you tip in America is because the staff are paid $3 an hour and they live on gratuity. 

    In England they are paid a living wage and a tip should only be given for good service. 
    Most bartenders are paid minimum wage actually, which is below London Living Wage, and rely on tips and service charge to bump up the hourly rate.

    Unless you're serving yourself from a machine, you're still receiving a service, whether you've come to a bar or been served at a table. 

    Go to a restaurant or a proper cocktail bar and not paying the service when it's been perfectly fine is just being a tight bastard 
    what professions should you tip then? And it is dependent on the service surely. Isn't averyone paid to do their job?
    Anyone in the hospitality sector IMO, as that's generally people waiting on you, as opposed to a general service. 

    A bartender or a chef making you food and drinks and it being delivered to you for you to enjoy, with people at your beck and call, is vastly different to someone scanning a t-shirt through a till. 
    Why can’t the cost of that service just be on the menu to begin with. 
    Because then every restaurant would be charging even higher prices and the ones at the very top of the food chain in many restaurant groups will use that extra money to pad their own coffers and not filter it down to the people who actually serve you.

    It's a subject pretty close to my heart so I'm going to bail from the conversation from now on, but it's a shame to see people on here so hell bent against service charges and tipping in general, for anyone that hasn't worked in service role before, trust me, it's the difference for a lot of people on just scraping by and being able to save up and get on with life.

    I work in a decent restaurant where the pay is pretty good and the food is the higher end of the price scale, and of my 10 strong bar team 8 have degrees and 4 have masters, but work in hospitality because jobs in their sectors are notoriously hard to come by and every role has several hundred applicants, the stereotype of untrained, unskilled people working in these establishments is simply not true anymore. 
  • MrOneLung
    MrOneLung Posts: 28,213
    Ok. Tell me the difference in serving a £6 beer and a £80 bottle of fizz that makes a tip change from say a quid to 8 quid
  • R0TW
    R0TW Posts: 2,068
    Off_it said:
    Gillis said:
    sam3110 said:
    sam3110 said:
    Chunes said:
    The reason you tip in America is because the staff are paid $3 an hour and they live on gratuity. 

    In England they are paid a living wage and a tip should only be given for good service. 
    Most bartenders are paid minimum wage actually, which is below London Living Wage, and rely on tips and service charge to bump up the hourly rate.

    Unless you're serving yourself from a machine, you're still receiving a service, whether you've come to a bar or been served at a table. 

    Go to a restaurant or a proper cocktail bar and not paying the service when it's been perfectly fine is just being a tight bastard 
    what professions should you tip then? And it is dependent on the service surely. Isn't averyone paid to do their job?
    Anyone in the hospitality sector IMO, as that's generally people waiting on you, as opposed to a general service. 

    A bartender or a chef making you food and drinks and it being delivered to you for you to enjoy, with people at your beck and call, is vastly different to someone scanning a t-shirt through a till. 
    Would you tip at McDonald's?
    Or Pret?
    What about bengys for those of an 90s sandwich era
  • ME14addick
    ME14addick Posts: 10,307
    sam3110 said:
    sam3110 said:
    sam3110 said:
    Chunes said:
    The reason you tip in America is because the staff are paid $3 an hour and they live on gratuity. 

    In England they are paid a living wage and a tip should only be given for good service. 
    Most bartenders are paid minimum wage actually, which is below London Living Wage, and rely on tips and service charge to bump up the hourly rate.

    Unless you're serving yourself from a machine, you're still receiving a service, whether you've come to a bar or been served at a table. 

    Go to a restaurant or a proper cocktail bar and not paying the service when it's been perfectly fine is just being a tight bastard 
    what professions should you tip then? And it is dependent on the service surely. Isn't averyone paid to do their job?
    Anyone in the hospitality sector IMO, as that's generally people waiting on you, as opposed to a general service. 

    A bartender or a chef making you food and drinks and it being delivered to you for you to enjoy, with people at your beck and call, is vastly different to someone scanning a t-shirt through a till. 
    Why can’t the cost of that service just be on the menu to begin with. 
    Because then every restaurant would be charging even higher prices and the ones at the very top of the food chain in many restaurant groups will use that extra money to pad their own coffers and not filter it down to the people who actually serve you.

    It's a subject pretty close to my heart so I'm going to bail from the conversation from now on, but it's a shame to see people on here so hell bent against service charges and tipping in general, for anyone that hasn't worked in service role before, trust me, it's the difference for a lot of people on just scraping by and being able to save up and get on with life.

    I work in a decent restaurant where the pay is pretty good and the food is the higher end of the price scale, and of my 10 strong bar team 8 have degrees and 4 have masters, but work in hospitality because jobs in their sectors are notoriously hard to come by and every role has several hundred applicants, the stereotype of untrained, unskilled people working in these establishments is simply not true anymore. 
    Isn't that an argument for better pay in the first place. Just because someone works in hospitality, shouldn't mean they are any less worthy of a good salary, than someone sitting at a computer all day. 

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  • lordromford
    lordromford Posts: 8,808
    I understand your frustration Sam, but, (and I realise I can’t speak for everyone), I don’t think the general feeling is that people are against tipping per se, but the expectation that the punter is expected to top up the server’s inadequate wages, even if the service is shit.

    I have every sympathy with hard working service staff working for a pittance and, as mentioned earlier, I made sure when I lived in the US that I tipped like an American because service staff there are criminally underpaid and rely on tips.
    Even in the UK, I’m more than happy to tip service staff if they’ve done a good job, or even just an ok one, but if I’m served by someone who is miserable, curt, rude or just unpleasant, I reserve the right to withhold a tip. And I think I’m right to do that.

    If you work in the service industry, you should do your best to give good service. If you don’t, you don’t deserve the tip. If people are relying on tips to save up or get by, then they can’t expect to get good tips if they’re doing a bad job. I understand that some people are just tight, and that’s a shame, but those people will always exist. I do also understand that there’s sometimes a distrust of establishments and a suspicion that the tips don’t always go to the server. (ladyromford always insists we tip in cash because she suspects the tip on the card reader doesn’t go where it’s supposed to.)

    At the end of the day, my preference would be that restaurants etc paid their staff a decent wage and I should tip them a little bit on top of that if I’m happy with their service. I’d be happy with prices in restaurants being slightly higher to account for this. This was my only gripe really with the American system, because to be fair to American service staff, they’re often pleasant and the service is often decent. Far more so than in the UK. 
  • Chunes
    Chunes Posts: 19,166
    edited September 20
    I worked as a chef for a number of years and you made far less than the bar and waiting staff, despite being on the same base wage, because you didn't make tips. 

    Well, the FoH staff were supposed to give you 15% of their tips, but they rarely reported the real amounts that they were making. 

    At the last restaurant I worked at, we knew the waiting staff were killing it because we worked in an open kitchen and the customers were sat in front of us. We saw what they left the waiters. Every month our 'cut' of that killing was around £7-15. The Executive Chef went mental a few times, but ultimately nobody could stop it from happening. 

    I just have a problem with these weird rules about who gets the tip and who doesn't. Baristas don't, but bar staff do? Chefs don't, but waiters do? Personally I'd think the people sweating in the kitchen deserve the tip more than the people carrying the food or pouring the drinks. But maybe I'm biased. 
  • Bedsaddick
    Bedsaddick Posts: 25,910
    Off_it said:
    shirty5 said:
    When your bar staff are more like Dave from Minder and less like Arthur Pringle then you may see more tips coming their way 
    "Large VAT please Dave, and put it on the slate".

    "About your slate Arfur ....."
    Oh good gawd Terry.  
  • gringo
    gringo Posts: 1,637
    Wasn't it the usual custom to say "and have one for yourself"? - unlikely nowadays with current bar prices.
  • bobmunro
    bobmunro Posts: 22,133
    Chunes said:
    I worked as a chef for a number of years and you made far less than the bar and waiting staff, despite being on the same base wage, because you didn't make tips. 

    Well, the FoH staff were supposed to give you 15% of their tips, but they rarely reported the real amounts that they were making. 

    At the last restaurant I worked at, we knew the waiting staff were killing it because we worked in an open kitchen and the customers were sat in front of us. We saw what they left the waiters. Every month our 'cut' of that killing was around £7-15. The Executive Chef went mental a few times, but ultimately nobody could stop it from happening. 

    I just have a problem with these weird rules about who gets the tip and who doesn't. Baristas don't, but bar staff do? Chefs don't, but waiters do? Personally I'd think the people sweating in the kitchen deserve the tip more than the people carrying the food or pouring the drinks. But maybe I'm biased. 

    A lot of the practices you describe there are technically unlawful:
    Yes I know, owners will turn a blind eye to the law, especially if cash tips are allowed. I think it is much better to have any tip given taken by card with the main bill rather than cash - I know a lot of establishments do that.

  • ME14addick
    ME14addick Posts: 10,307
    bobmunro said:
    Chunes said:
    I worked as a chef for a number of years and you made far less than the bar and waiting staff, despite being on the same base wage, because you didn't make tips. 

    Well, the FoH staff were supposed to give you 15% of their tips, but they rarely reported the real amounts that they were making. 

    At the last restaurant I worked at, we knew the waiting staff were killing it because we worked in an open kitchen and the customers were sat in front of us. We saw what they left the waiters. Every month our 'cut' of that killing was around £7-15. The Executive Chef went mental a few times, but ultimately nobody could stop it from happening. 

    I just have a problem with these weird rules about who gets the tip and who doesn't. Baristas don't, but bar staff do? Chefs don't, but waiters do? Personally I'd think the people sweating in the kitchen deserve the tip more than the people carrying the food or pouring the drinks. But maybe I'm biased. 

    A lot of the practices you describe there are technically unlawful:
    Yes I know, owners will turn a blind eye to the law, especially if cash tips are allowed. I think it is much better to have any tip given taken by card with the main bill rather than cash - I know a lot of establishments do that.

    When my husband worked in hospitality they were taxed on tips paid by card, but not if tipped by cash. All tips were pooled so that kitchen staff also benefitted.
  • R0TW
    R0TW Posts: 2,068
    Coming back from Orlando airport recently, sat at bar with two bar staff.
    Had a few beers and used unused dollars to offset bar card payment.
    Bunged staff member number one 20 dollars.
    Paid remainder with card.
    About to leave and bar member number two complaining that I hadn’t left a tip.
    Fucking ponces. Said speak to your mate you ****.
     So glad to get on that flight home.
    Hate the whole tipping bollocks in a bar.
  • lordromford
    lordromford Posts: 8,808
    bobmunro said:
    Chunes said:
    I worked as a chef for a number of years and you made far less than the bar and waiting staff, despite being on the same base wage, because you didn't make tips. 

    Well, the FoH staff were supposed to give you 15% of their tips, but they rarely reported the real amounts that they were making. 

    At the last restaurant I worked at, we knew the waiting staff were killing it because we worked in an open kitchen and the customers were sat in front of us. We saw what they left the waiters. Every month our 'cut' of that killing was around £7-15. The Executive Chef went mental a few times, but ultimately nobody could stop it from happening. 

    I just have a problem with these weird rules about who gets the tip and who doesn't. Baristas don't, but bar staff do? Chefs don't, but waiters do? Personally I'd think the people sweating in the kitchen deserve the tip more than the people carrying the food or pouring the drinks. But maybe I'm biased. 

    A lot of the practices you describe there are technically unlawful:
    Yes I know, owners will turn a blind eye to the law, especially if cash tips are allowed. I think it is much better to have any tip given taken by card with the main bill rather than cash - I know a lot of establishments do that.

    When my husband worked in hospitality they were taxed on tips paid by card, but not if tipped by cash. All tips were pooled so that kitchen staff also benefitted.
    That’s why ladyromford tips in cash. I don’t know if she’s making a mistake, but that’s her reasoning.
  • bobmunro
    bobmunro Posts: 22,133
    edited September 20
    bobmunro said:
    Chunes said:
    I worked as a chef for a number of years and you made far less than the bar and waiting staff, despite being on the same base wage, because you didn't make tips. 

    Well, the FoH staff were supposed to give you 15% of their tips, but they rarely reported the real amounts that they were making. 

    At the last restaurant I worked at, we knew the waiting staff were killing it because we worked in an open kitchen and the customers were sat in front of us. We saw what they left the waiters. Every month our 'cut' of that killing was around £7-15. The Executive Chef went mental a few times, but ultimately nobody could stop it from happening. 

    I just have a problem with these weird rules about who gets the tip and who doesn't. Baristas don't, but bar staff do? Chefs don't, but waiters do? Personally I'd think the people sweating in the kitchen deserve the tip more than the people carrying the food or pouring the drinks. But maybe I'm biased. 

    A lot of the practices you describe there are technically unlawful:
    Yes I know, owners will turn a blind eye to the law, especially if cash tips are allowed. I think it is much better to have any tip given taken by card with the main bill rather than cash - I know a lot of establishments do that.

    When my husband worked in hospitality they were taxed on tips paid by card, but not if tipped by cash. All tips were pooled so that kitchen staff also benefitted.
    That’s why ladyromford tips in cash. I don’t know if she’s making a mistake, but that’s her reasoning.

    bobmunro said:
    Chunes said:
    I worked as a chef for a number of years and you made far less than the bar and waiting staff, despite being on the same base wage, because you didn't make tips. 

    Well, the FoH staff were supposed to give you 15% of their tips, but they rarely reported the real amounts that they were making. 

    At the last restaurant I worked at, we knew the waiting staff were killing it because we worked in an open kitchen and the customers were sat in front of us. We saw what they left the waiters. Every month our 'cut' of that killing was around £7-15. The Executive Chef went mental a few times, but ultimately nobody could stop it from happening. 

    I just have a problem with these weird rules about who gets the tip and who doesn't. Baristas don't, but bar staff do? Chefs don't, but waiters do? Personally I'd think the people sweating in the kitchen deserve the tip more than the people carrying the food or pouring the drinks. But maybe I'm biased. 

    A lot of the practices you describe there are technically unlawful:
    Yes I know, owners will turn a blind eye to the law, especially if cash tips are allowed. I think it is much better to have any tip given taken by card with the main bill rather than cash - I know a lot of establishments do that.

    When my husband worked in hospitality they were taxed on tips paid by card, but not if tipped by cash. All tips were pooled so that kitchen staff also benefitted.
    All tips are subject to tax, cash or otherwise, and by law must be declared.


  • PrincessFiona
    PrincessFiona Posts: 6,112
    edited September 20
    sam3110 said:
    sam3110 said:
    Chunes said:
    The reason you tip in America is because the staff are paid $3 an hour and they live on gratuity. 

    In England they are paid a living wage and a tip should only be given for good service. 
    Most bartenders are paid minimum wage actually, which is below London Living Wage, and rely on tips and service charge to bump up the hourly rate.

    Unless you're serving yourself from a machine, you're still receiving a service, whether you've come to a bar or been served at a table. 

    Go to a restaurant or a proper cocktail bar and not paying the service when it's been perfectly fine is just being a tight bastard 
    what professions should you tip then? And it is dependent on the service surely. Isn't averyone paid to do their job?
    Anyone in the hospitality sector IMO, as that's generally people waiting on you, as opposed to a general service. 

    A bartender or a chef making you food and drinks and it being delivered to you for you to enjoy, with people at your beck and call, is vastly different to someone scanning a t-shirt through a till. 
    but isn't a bartender sering you a pint, which they are paid to do comparable to a shop assistant who scans your item and wraps it is tissue paper and puts in a wee bag?

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  • R0TW
    R0TW Posts: 2,068
    Just to add, every tip I gave was cash/dollars.
  • Baldybonce
    Baldybonce Posts: 9,839
    sam3110 said:
    sam3110 said:
    sam3110 said:
    Chunes said:
    The reason you tip in America is because the staff are paid $3 an hour and they live on gratuity. 

    In England they are paid a living wage and a tip should only be given for good service. 
    Most bartenders are paid minimum wage actually, which is below London Living Wage, and rely on tips and service charge to bump up the hourly rate.

    Unless you're serving yourself from a machine, you're still receiving a service, whether you've come to a bar or been served at a table. 

    Go to a restaurant or a proper cocktail bar and not paying the service when it's been perfectly fine is just being a tight bastard 
    what professions should you tip then? And it is dependent on the service surely. Isn't averyone paid to do their job?
    Anyone in the hospitality sector IMO, as that's generally people waiting on you, as opposed to a general service. 

    A bartender or a chef making you food and drinks and it being delivered to you for you to enjoy, with people at your beck and call, is vastly different to someone scanning a t-shirt through a till. 
    Why can’t the cost of that service just be on the menu to begin with. 
    Because then every restaurant would be charging even higher prices and the ones at the very top of the food chain in many restaurant groups will use that extra money to pad their own coffers and not filter it down to the people who actually serve you.

    It's a subject pretty close to my heart so I'm going to bail from the conversation from now on, but it's a shame to see people on here so hell bent against service charges and tipping in general, for anyone that hasn't worked in service role before, trust me, it's the difference for a lot of people on just scraping by and being able to save up and get on with life.

    I work in a decent restaurant where the pay is pretty good and the food is the higher end of the price scale, and of my 10 strong bar team 8 have degrees and 4 have masters, but work in hospitality because jobs in their sectors are notoriously hard to come by and every role has several hundred applicants, the stereotype of untrained, unskilled people working in these establishments is simply not true anymore. 
    My tip to those staff would have been to do subjects or learn a trade that leads to a decent paid job.
  • Leroy Ambrose
    Leroy Ambrose Posts: 14,862
    sam3110 said:
    sam3110 said:
    sam3110 said:
    Chunes said:
    The reason you tip in America is because the staff are paid $3 an hour and they live on gratuity. 

    In England they are paid a living wage and a tip should only be given for good service. 
    Most bartenders are paid minimum wage actually, which is below London Living Wage, and rely on tips and service charge to bump up the hourly rate.

    Unless you're serving yourself from a machine, you're still receiving a service, whether you've come to a bar or been served at a table. 

    Go to a restaurant or a proper cocktail bar and not paying the service when it's been perfectly fine is just being a tight bastard 
    what professions should you tip then? And it is dependent on the service surely. Isn't averyone paid to do their job?
    Anyone in the hospitality sector IMO, as that's generally people waiting on you, as opposed to a general service. 

    A bartender or a chef making you food and drinks and it being delivered to you for you to enjoy, with people at your beck and call, is vastly different to someone scanning a t-shirt through a till. 
    Why can’t the cost of that service just be on the menu to begin with. 
    Because then every restaurant would be charging even higher prices and the ones at the very top of the food chain in many restaurant groups will use that extra money to pad their own coffers and not filter it down to the people who actually serve you.

    It's a subject pretty close to my heart so I'm going to bail from the conversation from now on, but it's a shame to see people on here so hell bent against service charges and tipping in general, for anyone that hasn't worked in service role before, trust me, it's the difference for a lot of people on just scraping by and being able to save up and get on with life.

    I work in a decent restaurant where the pay is pretty good and the food is the higher end of the price scale, and of my 10 strong bar team 8 have degrees and 4 have masters, but work in hospitality because jobs in their sectors are notoriously hard to come by and every role has several hundred applicants, the stereotype of untrained, unskilled people working in these establishments is simply not true anymore. 
    My tip to those staff would have been to do subjects or learn a trade that leads to a decent paid job.
    If only they'd gone to university and got a degree in the interest of getting a good career, eh?

    Oh - wait... 
  • MrOneLung
    MrOneLung Posts: 28,213
    R0TW said:
    Off_it said:
    Gillis said:
    sam3110 said:
    sam3110 said:
    Chunes said:
    The reason you tip in America is because the staff are paid $3 an hour and they live on gratuity. 

    In England they are paid a living wage and a tip should only be given for good service. 
    Most bartenders are paid minimum wage actually, which is below London Living Wage, and rely on tips and service charge to bump up the hourly rate.

    Unless you're serving yourself from a machine, you're still receiving a service, whether you've come to a bar or been served at a table. 

    Go to a restaurant or a proper cocktail bar and not paying the service when it's been perfectly fine is just being a tight bastard 
    what professions should you tip then? And it is dependent on the service surely. Isn't averyone paid to do their job?
    Anyone in the hospitality sector IMO, as that's generally people waiting on you, as opposed to a general service. 

    A bartender or a chef making you food and drinks and it being delivered to you for you to enjoy, with people at your beck and call, is vastly different to someone scanning a t-shirt through a till. 
    Would you tip at McDonald's?
    Or Pret?
    What about bengys for those of an 90s sandwich era
    Benjy’s was so good. Sausage sandwich for £1.50 
  • Alwaysneil
    Alwaysneil Posts: 14,822
    bobmunro said:
    bobmunro said:
    Chunes said:
    I worked as a chef for a number of years and you made far less than the bar and waiting staff, despite being on the same base wage, because you didn't make tips. 

    Well, the FoH staff were supposed to give you 15% of their tips, but they rarely reported the real amounts that they were making. 

    At the last restaurant I worked at, we knew the waiting staff were killing it because we worked in an open kitchen and the customers were sat in front of us. We saw what they left the waiters. Every month our 'cut' of that killing was around £7-15. The Executive Chef went mental a few times, but ultimately nobody could stop it from happening. 

    I just have a problem with these weird rules about who gets the tip and who doesn't. Baristas don't, but bar staff do? Chefs don't, but waiters do? Personally I'd think the people sweating in the kitchen deserve the tip more than the people carrying the food or pouring the drinks. But maybe I'm biased. 

    A lot of the practices you describe there are technically unlawful:
    Yes I know, owners will turn a blind eye to the law, especially if cash tips are allowed. I think it is much better to have any tip given taken by card with the main bill rather than cash - I know a lot of establishments do that.

    When my husband worked in hospitality they were taxed on tips paid by card, but not if tipped by cash. All tips were pooled so that kitchen staff also benefitted.
    That’s why ladyromford tips in cash. I don’t know if she’s making a mistake, but that’s her reasoning.

    bobmunro said:
    Chunes said:
    I worked as a chef for a number of years and you made far less than the bar and waiting staff, despite being on the same base wage, because you didn't make tips. 

    Well, the FoH staff were supposed to give you 15% of their tips, but they rarely reported the real amounts that they were making. 

    At the last restaurant I worked at, we knew the waiting staff were killing it because we worked in an open kitchen and the customers were sat in front of us. We saw what they left the waiters. Every month our 'cut' of that killing was around £7-15. The Executive Chef went mental a few times, but ultimately nobody could stop it from happening. 

    I just have a problem with these weird rules about who gets the tip and who doesn't. Baristas don't, but bar staff do? Chefs don't, but waiters do? Personally I'd think the people sweating in the kitchen deserve the tip more than the people carrying the food or pouring the drinks. But maybe I'm biased. 

    A lot of the practices you describe there are technically unlawful:
    Yes I know, owners will turn a blind eye to the law, especially if cash tips are allowed. I think it is much better to have any tip given taken by card with the main bill rather than cash - I know a lot of establishments do that.

    When my husband worked in hospitality they were taxed on tips paid by card, but not if tipped by cash. All tips were pooled so that kitchen staff also benefitted.
    All tips are subject to tax, cash or otherwise, and by law must be declared.


    By law but not, in fact, in practice. Hardly at all. 
  • PragueAddick
    PragueAddick Posts: 22,715
    In a cafe in Amsterdam Noord today, asked to order and pay the bill by QR code because sitting outside. So the service charge
    % question came up with the payment - before I had even spoken to any human🤣 Well it was a special kind of place, circular economy, converted old boats and barges into “hotel” rooms, so i gave them 10% for my salad and  home- made lemonade.

    The drink finally  came after I had finished my salad.
  • bobmunro
    bobmunro Posts: 22,133
    bobmunro said:
    bobmunro said:
    Chunes said:
    I worked as a chef for a number of years and you made far less than the bar and waiting staff, despite being on the same base wage, because you didn't make tips. 

    Well, the FoH staff were supposed to give you 15% of their tips, but they rarely reported the real amounts that they were making. 

    At the last restaurant I worked at, we knew the waiting staff were killing it because we worked in an open kitchen and the customers were sat in front of us. We saw what they left the waiters. Every month our 'cut' of that killing was around £7-15. The Executive Chef went mental a few times, but ultimately nobody could stop it from happening. 

    I just have a problem with these weird rules about who gets the tip and who doesn't. Baristas don't, but bar staff do? Chefs don't, but waiters do? Personally I'd think the people sweating in the kitchen deserve the tip more than the people carrying the food or pouring the drinks. But maybe I'm biased. 

    A lot of the practices you describe there are technically unlawful:
    Yes I know, owners will turn a blind eye to the law, especially if cash tips are allowed. I think it is much better to have any tip given taken by card with the main bill rather than cash - I know a lot of establishments do that.

    When my husband worked in hospitality they were taxed on tips paid by card, but not if tipped by cash. All tips were pooled so that kitchen staff also benefitted.
    That’s why ladyromford tips in cash. I don’t know if she’s making a mistake, but that’s her reasoning.

    bobmunro said:
    Chunes said:
    I worked as a chef for a number of years and you made far less than the bar and waiting staff, despite being on the same base wage, because you didn't make tips. 

    Well, the FoH staff were supposed to give you 15% of their tips, but they rarely reported the real amounts that they were making. 

    At the last restaurant I worked at, we knew the waiting staff were killing it because we worked in an open kitchen and the customers were sat in front of us. We saw what they left the waiters. Every month our 'cut' of that killing was around £7-15. The Executive Chef went mental a few times, but ultimately nobody could stop it from happening. 

    I just have a problem with these weird rules about who gets the tip and who doesn't. Baristas don't, but bar staff do? Chefs don't, but waiters do? Personally I'd think the people sweating in the kitchen deserve the tip more than the people carrying the food or pouring the drinks. But maybe I'm biased. 

    A lot of the practices you describe there are technically unlawful:
    Yes I know, owners will turn a blind eye to the law, especially if cash tips are allowed. I think it is much better to have any tip given taken by card with the main bill rather than cash - I know a lot of establishments do that.

    When my husband worked in hospitality they were taxed on tips paid by card, but not if tipped by cash. All tips were pooled so that kitchen staff also benefitted.
    All tips are subject to tax, cash or otherwise, and by law must be declared.


    By law but not, in fact, in practice. Hardly at all. 

    Agreed - the law is ignored by the vast majority. My point was that cash tips are not tax free, people choose to evade the tax by not declaring them.
  • sam3110
    sam3110 Posts: 24,968
    bobmunro said:
    bobmunro said:
    bobmunro said:
    Chunes said:
    I worked as a chef for a number of years and you made far less than the bar and waiting staff, despite being on the same base wage, because you didn't make tips. 

    Well, the FoH staff were supposed to give you 15% of their tips, but they rarely reported the real amounts that they were making. 

    At the last restaurant I worked at, we knew the waiting staff were killing it because we worked in an open kitchen and the customers were sat in front of us. We saw what they left the waiters. Every month our 'cut' of that killing was around £7-15. The Executive Chef went mental a few times, but ultimately nobody could stop it from happening. 

    I just have a problem with these weird rules about who gets the tip and who doesn't. Baristas don't, but bar staff do? Chefs don't, but waiters do? Personally I'd think the people sweating in the kitchen deserve the tip more than the people carrying the food or pouring the drinks. But maybe I'm biased. 

    A lot of the practices you describe there are technically unlawful:
    Yes I know, owners will turn a blind eye to the law, especially if cash tips are allowed. I think it is much better to have any tip given taken by card with the main bill rather than cash - I know a lot of establishments do that.

    When my husband worked in hospitality they were taxed on tips paid by card, but not if tipped by cash. All tips were pooled so that kitchen staff also benefitted.
    That’s why ladyromford tips in cash. I don’t know if she’s making a mistake, but that’s her reasoning.

    bobmunro said:
    Chunes said:
    I worked as a chef for a number of years and you made far less than the bar and waiting staff, despite being on the same base wage, because you didn't make tips. 

    Well, the FoH staff were supposed to give you 15% of their tips, but they rarely reported the real amounts that they were making. 

    At the last restaurant I worked at, we knew the waiting staff were killing it because we worked in an open kitchen and the customers were sat in front of us. We saw what they left the waiters. Every month our 'cut' of that killing was around £7-15. The Executive Chef went mental a few times, but ultimately nobody could stop it from happening. 

    I just have a problem with these weird rules about who gets the tip and who doesn't. Baristas don't, but bar staff do? Chefs don't, but waiters do? Personally I'd think the people sweating in the kitchen deserve the tip more than the people carrying the food or pouring the drinks. But maybe I'm biased. 

    A lot of the practices you describe there are technically unlawful:
    Yes I know, owners will turn a blind eye to the law, especially if cash tips are allowed. I think it is much better to have any tip given taken by card with the main bill rather than cash - I know a lot of establishments do that.

    When my husband worked in hospitality they were taxed on tips paid by card, but not if tipped by cash. All tips were pooled so that kitchen staff also benefitted.
    All tips are subject to tax, cash or otherwise, and by law must be declared.


    By law but not, in fact, in practice. Hardly at all. 

    Agreed - the law is ignored by the vast majority. My point was that cash tips are not tax free, people choose to evade the tax by not declaring them.
    Turn your cash tips into petty cash, buy stuff for the bar with it then invoice the company for it and get it paid directly into your account, simple 😉
  • R0TW
    R0TW Posts: 2,068
    Put it in your pocket. Simpler
  • Alwaysneil
    Alwaysneil Posts: 14,822
    sam3110 said:
    bobmunro said:
    bobmunro said:
    bobmunro said:
    Chunes said:
    I worked as a chef for a number of years and you made far less than the bar and waiting staff, despite being on the same base wage, because you didn't make tips. 

    Well, the FoH staff were supposed to give you 15% of their tips, but they rarely reported the real amounts that they were making. 

    At the last restaurant I worked at, we knew the waiting staff were killing it because we worked in an open kitchen and the customers were sat in front of us. We saw what they left the waiters. Every month our 'cut' of that killing was around £7-15. The Executive Chef went mental a few times, but ultimately nobody could stop it from happening. 

    I just have a problem with these weird rules about who gets the tip and who doesn't. Baristas don't, but bar staff do? Chefs don't, but waiters do? Personally I'd think the people sweating in the kitchen deserve the tip more than the people carrying the food or pouring the drinks. But maybe I'm biased. 

    A lot of the practices you describe there are technically unlawful:
    Yes I know, owners will turn a blind eye to the law, especially if cash tips are allowed. I think it is much better to have any tip given taken by card with the main bill rather than cash - I know a lot of establishments do that.

    When my husband worked in hospitality they were taxed on tips paid by card, but not if tipped by cash. All tips were pooled so that kitchen staff also benefitted.
    That’s why ladyromford tips in cash. I don’t know if she’s making a mistake, but that’s her reasoning.

    bobmunro said:
    Chunes said:
    I worked as a chef for a number of years and you made far less than the bar and waiting staff, despite being on the same base wage, because you didn't make tips. 

    Well, the FoH staff were supposed to give you 15% of their tips, but they rarely reported the real amounts that they were making. 

    At the last restaurant I worked at, we knew the waiting staff were killing it because we worked in an open kitchen and the customers were sat in front of us. We saw what they left the waiters. Every month our 'cut' of that killing was around £7-15. The Executive Chef went mental a few times, but ultimately nobody could stop it from happening. 

    I just have a problem with these weird rules about who gets the tip and who doesn't. Baristas don't, but bar staff do? Chefs don't, but waiters do? Personally I'd think the people sweating in the kitchen deserve the tip more than the people carrying the food or pouring the drinks. But maybe I'm biased. 

    A lot of the practices you describe there are technically unlawful:
    Yes I know, owners will turn a blind eye to the law, especially if cash tips are allowed. I think it is much better to have any tip given taken by card with the main bill rather than cash - I know a lot of establishments do that.

    When my husband worked in hospitality they were taxed on tips paid by card, but not if tipped by cash. All tips were pooled so that kitchen staff also benefitted.
    All tips are subject to tax, cash or otherwise, and by law must be declared.


    By law but not, in fact, in practice. Hardly at all. 

    Agreed - the law is ignored by the vast majority. My point was that cash tips are not tax free, people choose to evade the tax by not declaring them.
    Turn your cash tips into petty cash, buy stuff for the bar with it then invoice the company for it and get it paid directly into your account, simple 😉
    Seems unnecessarily petty.