Fidelity aint an ethic, it's a right of passage. I would say if you need to get it elsewhere you ain't doing the biatch right, and she ain't putting it out for you.
Get yourself some Jemma, you can ask Kev to borrow some
there can be no right or wrong answers in my book because everbody is in different situations, and the only person who knows what is appropriate or not, is you.
sometimes there are factors involved in a relationship that lead people to stray, that others simply don't know about.
[cite]Posted By: razil[/cite]If it's a one off thing, possibly drunken (shag) does it count?
If you never shag but chat on phone or internet a lot, does it count?
The best leveller is to think how you would feel if it was your partner who did to you.
[cite]Posted By: Ketman[/cite]The morals of some of the people on this board are ....well questionable to say the least..!
i don't think its a case of that, its just a grey area.
there are two questions really...
1. how would you feel if you found you're partner had done it
2. would you be able to deal with worst scenario, partner finding out and kicking you out.
if you don't think you can handle either of those, don't cheat !
if ur with someone who ur meant to be with 100% then u won't cheat, simple as.
if you cheat, then u aint happy, and if you get caught / found out, its prob for the best, as the relationship was over the min you jumped in with someone else anyway.
Yes but the peron or persons you are shitting on only lives once and has the right to enjoy it while they can. Or are you in the "I'm alright Jack brigade"?
*1905 marches triumphantly to the morale high ground*
[cite]Posted By: 1905[/cite]"you live once...
ENJOY IT while you can
simple as......."
Yes but the peron or persons you are shitting on only lives once and has the right to enjoy it while they can. Or are you in the "I'm alright Jack brigade"?
*1905 marches triumphantly to the morale high ground*
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2) Still cheating of sorts
Fidelity aint an ethic, it's a right of passage. I would say if you need to get it elsewhere you ain't doing the biatch right, and she ain't putting it out for you.
Get yourself some Jemma, you can ask Kev to borrow some
sometimes there are factors involved in a relationship that lead people to stray, that others simply don't know about.
If you're discret about it, then why not?
The best leveller is to think how you would feel if it was your partner who did to you.
Outrageous slur...
i don't think its a case of that, its just a grey area.
there are two questions really...
1. how would you feel if you found you're partner had done it
2. would you be able to deal with worst scenario, partner finding out and kicking you out.
if you don't think you can handle either of those, don't cheat !
if you cheat, then u aint happy, and if you get caught / found out, its prob for the best, as the relationship was over the min you jumped in with someone else anyway.
The other thing to bear in mind is if one gets emotionally involved, it will probably kill your first relationship.
ENJOY IT while you can
simple as.......
There may be many different reasons why people do it but at the end of the day, it's still cheating!
Aye to that!
ENJOY IT while you can
simple as......."
Yes but the peron or persons you are shitting on only lives once and has the right to enjoy it while they can. Or are you in the "I'm alright Jack brigade"?
*1905 marches triumphantly to the morale high ground*
maybe i was abit hasty in my post...
tart
*round of applause*
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Pass me my spoon and biscuit tin!
its all b0ll0x
any man who sleeps around - gets a slap on the back, any woman sleeps around - branded a slag.
I think you can tell by some answers all those who have been cheated on - end up very bitter.
Do unto others as you would have others do unto you
Discertness of the cheating is the key