Fantastic news Bob, as others have said enjoy your first evening home in a long time with Jan, best wishes to both of you and I hope her recovery continues at a speedy pace.
Fantastic news Bob that puts everything else in perspective. Not for the first time has your family have been through it in the last few years either.
Can empathise because my wife lost her Mum on 5th October last year, then her Dad on 13th June (in hospital and without being able to say goodbye) and her twin brother has been fighting cancer for the last six months which will, following numerous bouts of chemotherapy, culminate in a potentially life saving operation to remove a tumour next week. All we can do is hope that the op is successful and that the whole family can move on from there.
Fantastic news Bob that puts everything else in perspective. Not for the first time has your family have been through it in the last few years either.
Can empathise because my wife lost her Mum on 5th October last year, then her Dad on 13th June (in hospital and without being able to say goodbye) and her twin brother has been fighting cancer for the last six months which will, following numerous bouts of chemotherapy, culminate in a potentially life saving operation to remove a tumour next week. All we can do is hope that the op is successful and that the whole family can move on from there.
Very best wishes to your brother-in-law, and all of you - especially your dear wife who has had so much sadness over the past year.
One day, one glorious day, we will rid humanity of this bastard disease.
Great news that, as you say @Bobmonro one day we shall get rid of this terrible C word disease, I know far too many cases, family & friends who have it, treatments though and management of it are getting better thanks to some brilliant medical scientists & researchers.
Wonderful news Bob, so glad to hear that your wife is home with you. It must have been a very difficult 3 weeks for both of you. My best wishes for your wife's continuing recovery.
Great news Bob. And excellent timing from Thomas that means you don't need to keep checking on here for updates so often Hope all continues to progress well.
If you're aged between 16-30 and in good health (which is to say, not listed as a medical exemption - e.g. I'm not exactly "healthy" but am healthy enough to donate), please do sign up. This applies particularly to the main demographic of this site - which is men. If you are not white then it's all the more crucial: currently, just 20% of all minority ethnic people in need receive a good match for a stem cell transplant.
I happened to have donated my stem cells a few years ago to someone who needed them and was one of the 90% who donate peripheral blood stem cells. It is a very easy process all told - get G-CSF injections in the week before (maybe you'll get flu-like symptoms or headaches - I got mild aches); sit in a bed for like 6 hours and read a book/watch some telly while hooked up to the PBSC machine; and that's basically it.
I cannot stress how incredibly easy and minimally inconvenient it was to do this. Even if it's a bone marrow donation, that's not exactly pleasant, but it is a cakewalk compared to the things those with a blood disorder need to survive.
Please, please sign up - or if you can't, then please donate to Anthony Nolan or similar.
Fantastic news Bob, I hope she recovers swiftly from the treatment and you are both able to get back to enjoying life together without that constant felling, even if only at the back of your mind of the Damocles hanging over your heads. I wish you both and the rest of the family many happy times ahead.
@PaddyP17 amazing post and what a great act of altruistic kindness, which may well have had such a huge positive impact on a family. It may not have seemed like much to you to do it, but the effect could well be huge.
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Can empathise because my wife lost her Mum on 5th October last year, then her Dad on 13th June (in hospital and without being able to say goodbye) and her twin brother has been fighting cancer for the last six months which will, following numerous bouts of chemotherapy, culminate in a potentially life saving operation to remove a tumour next week. All we can do is hope that the op is successful and that the whole family can move on from there.
Now you must become Bob the nurse for a while!
Really chuffed for you, you deserve it Bob.
I'd like to take this opportunity to urge everyone who can to register as a donor: https://www.anthonynolan.org/donor-application/begin
If you're aged between 16-30 and in good health (which is to say, not listed as a medical exemption - e.g. I'm not exactly "healthy" but am healthy enough to donate), please do sign up. This applies particularly to the main demographic of this site - which is men. If you are not white then it's all the more crucial: currently, just 20% of all minority ethnic people in need receive a good match for a stem cell transplant.
I happened to have donated my stem cells a few years ago to someone who needed them and was one of the 90% who donate peripheral blood stem cells. It is a very easy process all told - get G-CSF injections in the week before (maybe you'll get flu-like symptoms or headaches - I got mild aches); sit in a bed for like 6 hours and read a book/watch some telly while hooked up to the PBSC machine; and that's basically it.
I cannot stress how incredibly easy and minimally inconvenient it was to do this. Even if it's a bone marrow donation, that's not exactly pleasant, but it is a cakewalk compared to the things those with a blood disorder need to survive.
Please, please sign up - or if you can't, then please donate to Anthony Nolan or similar.
@PaddyP17 amazing post and what a great act of altruistic kindness, which may well have had such a huge positive impact on a family. It may not have seemed like much to you to do it, but the effect could well be huge.