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Advice needed re. Maternity leave/work

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  • Love all the people on here giving opinions, you want to try running a business , with all the laws, covering a position for two years it’s a hell of a ask.As bob Munro says after two years they don’t have to give her , her old job back.
    They never covered a position, they filled it. 
  • Talal said:
    Love all the people on here giving opinions, you want to try running a business , with all the laws, covering a position for two years it’s a hell of a ask.As bob Munro says after two years they don’t have to give her , her old job back.
    They never covered a position, they filled it. 
    Exactly. Seems like they made a mistake making the other person permanent. And got spooked (sorry, I know it is Halloween!) because she took took them to court about a different issue and won.

    However, your missus should not suffer because of their mistake, however unusual it is that she has been away for for 2 lots of maternity leave.

    Fortunately, it sounds like you have a great advisor to help.
  • Love all the people on here giving opinions, you want to try running a business , with all the laws, covering a position for two years it’s a hell of a ask.As bob Munro says after two years they don’t have to give her , her old job back.
    So someone deserves to be sacked or made redundant because they had children? 

    I agree it’s tough running a business and having to take all the laws into account. But they are there to stop employers do whatever they want. If your a genuine employer than those laws don’t worry you. 
    Not saying that but after two years , you by law don’t have to be given your old job back.
  • Love all the people on here giving opinions, you want to try running a business , with all the laws, covering a position for two years it’s a hell of a ask.As bob Munro says after two years they don’t have to give her , her old job back.
    So someone deserves to be sacked or made redundant because they had children? 

    I agree it’s tough running a business and having to take all the laws into account. But they are there to stop employers do whatever they want. If your a genuine employer than those laws don’t worry you. 
    Not saying that but after two years , you by law don’t have to be given your old job back.
    You do if the position still exists and has been given to someone else, which is exactly the case here. 
  • Love all the people on here giving opinions, you want to try running a business , with all the laws, covering a position for two years it’s a hell of a ask.As bob Munro says after two years they don’t have to give her , her old job back.
    So someone deserves to be sacked or made redundant because they had children? 

    I agree it’s tough running a business and having to take all the laws into account. But they are there to stop employers do whatever they want. If your a genuine employer than those laws don’t worry you. 
    Not saying that but after two years , you by law don’t have to be given your old job back.
    Why? Doesn't the very strong maternity leave process top that?
  • Was just looking at some HR pages which made me think of this - any update?
  • Was just looking at some HR pages which made me think of this - any update?
    Mrs T has been back working there for a week as joint deputy while HR decide what to do. However she's decided she no longer wants to work for the company and doesn't want our children going there so has asked for voluntary redundancy. 

    It's somewhat disappointing that they will "get away with it" in a way but at least at some cost. They will obviously have to pay out for her 12 years of employment and will lose out on fees for our two, plus her sister is planning on leaving and taking her daughter out.

    Ironically the manager told her that since she's been back it's nice to have someone that can be left to it and relied upon. Their loss. 
  • I can see what you mean by somewhat disappointing, but good if it works for you all. Their loss. not sure what redundancy she will get but hope it all works out for you.
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  • Talal said:
    Was just looking at some HR pages which made me think of this - any update?
    Mrs T has been back working there for a week as joint deputy while HR decide what to do. However she's decided she no longer wants to work for the company and doesn't want our children going there so has asked for voluntary redundancy. 

    It's somewhat disappointing that they will "get away with it" in a way but at least at some cost. They will obviously have to pay out for her 12 years of employment and will lose out on fees for our two, plus her sister is planning on leaving and taking her daughter out.

    Ironically the manager told her that since she's been back it's nice to have someone that can be left to it and relied upon. Their loss. 
    Don't close any doors on what might happen next.
    The employer's conduct seems to be arriving at an outcome where Mrs T loses her job - what the employer was after all along - this smells very strongly of constructive or even wrongful dismissal.  Get some specific employment law advice.  Terms like 'voluntary' redundancy don't deflect from the fact that the employer's conduct results in someone losing their job, through no fault of their own and apparently outwith the established legislation.  Any suggestion from the employer that severance pay is dependent on Mrs T undertaking not to take any further action will be your big red flag that the employer knows it's on thin ice.
    Go carefully and best of luck.

  • Talal said:
    Was just looking at some HR pages which made me think of this - any update?
    Mrs T has been back working there for a week as joint deputy while HR decide what to do. However she's decided she no longer wants to work for the company and doesn't want our children going there so has asked for voluntary redundancy. 

    It's somewhat disappointing that they will "get away with it" in a way but at least at some cost. They will obviously have to pay out for her 12 years of employment and will lose out on fees for our two, plus her sister is planning on leaving and taking her daughter out.

    Ironically the manager told her that since she's been back it's nice to have someone that can be left to it and relied upon. Their loss. 
    Don't close any doors on what might happen next.
    The employer's conduct seems to be arriving at an outcome where Mrs T loses her job - what the employer was after all along - this smells very strongly of constructive or even wrongful dismissal.  Get some specific employment law advice.  Terms like 'voluntary' redundancy don't deflect from the fact that the employer's conduct results in someone losing their job, through no fault of their own and apparently outwith the established legislation.  Any suggestion from the employer that severance pay is dependent on Mrs T undertaking not to take any further action will be your big red flag that the employer knows it's on thin ice.
    Go carefully and best of luck.

    Definitely. They shouldn't "get away with it".

    Good luck and keep us posted!
  • Definitely a good claim for construtive dismissal imho.
  • Good luck with this @talal very unnecessarily stressful.

    Surely the position should have been advertised as a fixed term for 12 months to cover maternity and then the contrac extended on the basis of a new maternity period.
  • Talal said:
    Was just looking at some HR pages which made me think of this - any update?
    Mrs T has been back working there for a week as joint deputy while HR decide what to do. However she's decided she no longer wants to work for the company and doesn't want our children going there so has asked for voluntary redundancy. 

    It's somewhat disappointing that they will "get away with it" in a way but at least at some cost. They will obviously have to pay out for her 12 years of employment and will lose out on fees for our two, plus her sister is planning on leaving and taking her daughter out.

    Ironically the manager told her that since she's been back it's nice to have someone that can be left to it and relied upon. Their loss. 
    Hope it all works out for the best for her, you and your children. 

    I was thinking that, instead of making a final decision, immediately, about what she wants to do, there's a good way she could spend some time away from work - while still getting some wages from them - while she makes a final decision.  She could probably manage to take up to about twelve months off work, while she thinks it through.  

    It would require you to do something first, but she could end up with being able to stay away from work from another twelve months, or more...
  • Chizz said:
    Talal said:
    Was just looking at some HR pages which made me think of this - any update?
    Mrs T has been back working there for a week as joint deputy while HR decide what to do. However she's decided she no longer wants to work for the company and doesn't want our children going there so has asked for voluntary redundancy. 

    It's somewhat disappointing that they will "get away with it" in a way but at least at some cost. They will obviously have to pay out for her 12 years of employment and will lose out on fees for our two, plus her sister is planning on leaving and taking her daughter out.

    Ironically the manager told her that since she's been back it's nice to have someone that can be left to it and relied upon. Their loss. 
    Hope it all works out for the best for her, you and your children. 

    I was thinking that, instead of making a final decision, immediately, about what she wants to do, there's a good way she could spend some time away from work - while still getting some wages from them - while she makes a final decision.  She could probably manage to take up to about twelve months off work, while she thinks it through.  

    It would require you to do something first, but she could end up with being able to stay away from work from another twelve months, or more...
    Don't, she wants number 3 already. Love my two to bits but they're enough for now! 
  • Thanks for the advice once more and to Bob, expect I'll be in touch soon! 

    Was in a bit of a rush earlier and somehow neglected to include a fairly important part... 

    Mrs T made her mind up to leave the company after day one of being back there... A few days later she was told, verbally, that HR have made a decision and that she still has to reapply. Their story now is that the other deputy was never a replacement but was intended to work alongside Mrs T as joint deputy. Very shortly before Mrs T was due to return it was decided by the company that the nursery does not need a second deputy. How coincidental. 
    Mrs T printed off the occupancy levels at the time a second deputy was supposedly added and it was in the 20's. In years prior when evidently only one deputy was necessary to do the job, occupancy levels were in the 40's. In other words no way did the nursery need a second deputy at that point.
    I mean it's laughable but that's what they're going with. 
  • Love that. I hope you and the family have some satisfactory closure on the episode.

    Nice one Bobby Boy.
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  • Just read this thread for the first time, glad Mrs T got the outcome she deserved!
  • Fantastic news and yes, bob is a legend.


  • Glad your wife got the result she wanted and kudos to @bobmunro for assisting a fellow lifer. That’s what this community is all about.
  • Oh fantastic, well done Bob 👋
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  • Great stuff Bob, lovely gesture. Congrats too to the Talal family 
  • Talal said:
    Just a quick update for anyone that might remember this, can't believe it's nearly 3 years since I started the thread!
    A settlement was recently reached at judicial mediation. Huge thanks to CL legend @bobmunro who helped every step of the way and represented Mrs T at prelims and the mediation. 

     It was my pleasure :)

    (leg end maybe, hardly legend!)

  • Good work Bob
  • Great to hear this, on all fronts. Way to step up, Bob!
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