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General Things That Annoy You thread - part 2

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  • JohnBoyUK
    JohnBoyUK Posts: 9,089
    JohnBoyUK said:
    Audio books.  Those celebrities who dont narrate their entire book.  They reel you in with the first couple of chapters then hand over to a ghost narrator and then they maybe come back for the last chapter.

    I'm looking at you Stuart Broad.  You may be a cricketing legend but thats as cheeky as fuck, you lazy too posh to read scoundrel :)

    Currently enjoying 'Andrew' Flintoff's new book and he has read every chapter.  Proper grafter is Freddie!
    Guy who can't be arsed to read a book complaining about a guy who can't be arsed to read it to him. ;)
    Fair play fair play.  However, in my defence, I just don't have the concentration levels to physically read a book.  I listen when I'm doing something else, like working, commuting, driving, gardening.  To physically sit there and read in silence, god I haven't enjoyed that since I was about 12-13 years old.  Audio books are a god send to me! :)
  • Stig
    Stig Posts: 29,226
    ‘Sir’ David Beckham. What’s the world coming to FFS
    Was always going to happen. I've no problem with it personally. TBH, I'd rather him than the string of football administrators who've been granted the honour. 

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_football_personalities_with_British_honours
  • JohnBoyUK
    JohnBoyUK Posts: 9,089
    About 2 hours ago, I thought to myself 'that' really bloody annoys me and I must post that on the thread when I log on later.

    2 hours later, I can't remember what 'that' bloody is for the life of me.  Even more annoying!


  • Shag
    Shag Posts: 4,568
    Yeh why give a knighthood to an ex-England captain, one of the most capped players ever, a global ambassador for the sport, icon, and a charity fund raiser for the last 20 years
    If I ever meet him I’ll be calling him Sir David 
  • cantersaddick
    cantersaddick Posts: 17,328
    JohnBoyUK said:
    JohnBoyUK said:
    Audio books.  Those celebrities who dont narrate their entire book.  They reel you in with the first couple of chapters then hand over to a ghost narrator and then they maybe come back for the last chapter.

    I'm looking at you Stuart Broad.  You may be a cricketing legend but thats as cheeky as fuck, you lazy too posh to read scoundrel :)

    Currently enjoying 'Andrew' Flintoff's new book and he has read every chapter.  Proper grafter is Freddie!
    Guy who can't be arsed to read a book complaining about a guy who can't be arsed to read it to him. ;)
    Fair play fair play.  However, in my defence, I just don't have the concentration levels to physically read a book.  I listen when I'm doing something else, like working, commuting, driving, gardening.  To physically sit there and read in silence, god I haven't enjoyed that since I was about 12-13 years old.  Audio books are a god send to me! :)
    I'm with you mate. Just saw an opportunity! 
  • ValleyGary
    ValleyGary Posts: 38,128
    edited November 4
    ‘Sir’ David Beckham. What’s the world coming to FFS
    Couldn’t disagree with you more. 
  • Arsenetatters
    Arsenetatters Posts: 6,035
    ‘Sir’ David Beckham. What’s the world coming to FFS
    Couldn’t disagree with you more. 
    To be honest it’s the whole honours thing for me. 
  • Arsenetatters
    Arsenetatters Posts: 6,035
    People on social media diagnosing themselves with adult ADHD and posting ‘hilarious’ examples of their behaviour. No, there’s nothing wrong with you.
  • Billy_Mix
    Billy_Mix Posts: 2,732
    People on social media diagnosing themselves with adult ADHD and posting ‘hilarious’ examples of their behaviour. No, there’s nothing wrong with you.
    Au contraire mon brave - there's plenty wrong with them but it has little to do with any neuro-divergence.
    They all misunderstand the 'attention deficit' bit.
  • Arsenetatters
    Arsenetatters Posts: 6,035
    Billy_Mix said:
    People on social media diagnosing themselves with adult ADHD and posting ‘hilarious’ examples of their behaviour. No, there’s nothing wrong with you.
    Au contraire mon brave - there's plenty wrong with them but it has little to do with any neuro-divergence.
    They all misunderstand the 'attention deficit' bit.
    It’s the misunderstanding that annoys me. It makes a serious mental health disorder into a joke. I worked as a psychologist before I went mad myself and lectured on mental health. I guess it’s difficult to understand what a disorder is like unless you’ve had it but ‘having an off day’ isn’t depression and bipolar isn’t going up and down a bit. Most people run if you say psychosis yet they don’t all carry axes. 

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  • The Red Robin
    The Red Robin Posts: 26,243
    fanboys of Cristiano Ronaldo and Lionel Messi that feel the need to constantly compare or slag the other off every time one of them is mentioned somewhere. It’s f*cking weird. 
  • fanboys of Cristiano Ronaldo and Lionel Messi that feel the need to constantly compare or slag the other off every time one of them is mentioned somewhere. It’s f*cking weird. 
    Especially when they're crap in comparison to Sonny Carey
  • People on social media diagnosing themselves with adult ADHD and posting ‘hilarious’ examples of their behaviour. No, there’s nothing wrong with you.
    It does seem to be fashionable and cool to get the diagnosis now.  

    The BBC has identified 15 local areas that have closed waiting lists and another 31 that have introduced tighter criteria, making it more difficult to access support.

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4gpl150ze4o
  • ‘Sir’ David Beckham. What’s the world coming to FFS
    Couldn’t disagree with you more. 
    To be honest it’s the whole honours thing for me. 
    Retired politicians and civil servants getting a knighthood or a gong for just doing their job and getting a gold plated pension in the process.......
  • People on social media diagnosing themselves with adult ADHD and posting ‘hilarious’ examples of their behaviour. No, there’s nothing wrong with you.
    It does seem to be fashionable and cool to get the diagnosis now.  

    The BBC has identified 15 local areas that have closed waiting lists and another 31 that have introduced tighter criteria, making it more difficult to access support.

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4gpl150ze4o
    And getting a motability car with it....
  • Being unable to work out why my PC isn't reading a device when I plug it in.

    Only to realise I've connected it to the wrong charger, which is connected to the mains, rather than the PC!!

    Bloody USB-C Cables
  • Weegie Addick
    Weegie Addick Posts: 16,626
    Wrexham! And refs pandering to Hollywood 
  • cantersaddick
    cantersaddick Posts: 17,328
    People on social media diagnosing themselves with adult ADHD and posting ‘hilarious’ examples of their behaviour. No, there’s nothing wrong with you.
    It does seem to be fashionable and cool to get the diagnosis now.  

    The BBC has identified 15 local areas that have closed waiting lists and another 31 that have introduced tighter criteria, making it more difficult to access support.

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4gpl150ze4o
    I'll agree that there is a bit of a problem with widespread tiktok self diagnosis. But there is a bit of a historic issue particularly in women aged 25+ where the diagnosis criteria when they were children had what are now accepted as glaring mistakes that excluded them. My wife has recently managed to get a diagnosis for ADHD. She was not considered for assessment whilst at school because she was academically gifted. However we now know that's not a good reason to exclude someone. This particularly affected girls as ADHD presents differently in them.

    The diagnosis has helped her in numerous ways, understanding some of the things she has struggled with her whole life and why she has struggled with them. Its enabled her to get therapy targeted at the issues and drugs to help (none of it paid for by the NHS or the state in any way before anyone makes that dig - despite her being in the second most severe category). Its made a massive difference to her life. 

    Whilst I started by saying there is an issue with Tiktok self diagnosis but I will say that social media did help her first realise she had that issue.

    There are a large number of people in her position, for ADHD and autism, particularly women. We've has a few friends get a diagnosis too. Raising awareness of the issue isn't a bad thing. But people should speak to a doctor, trouble is the 2 year wait for a diagnosis. 
  • cantersaddick
    cantersaddick Posts: 17,328
    People on social media diagnosing themselves with adult ADHD and posting ‘hilarious’ examples of their behaviour. No, there’s nothing wrong with you.
    It does seem to be fashionable and cool to get the diagnosis now.  

    The BBC has identified 15 local areas that have closed waiting lists and another 31 that have introduced tighter criteria, making it more difficult to access support.

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4gpl150ze4o
    And getting a motability car with it....
    Both crass and untrue. 

    You cannot get motability for ADHD alone. If you are receiving PIP and have other conditions then ADHD can be considered as a contributory factor for the higher mobility component if it severely affects your ability to get around.
  • Gribbo
    Gribbo Posts: 8,606
    A couple of the young lads who worked with me on site were claiming PIP for ADHD+ (one also had depression). They generally managed their day-to-day work fine, apart from the usual age-related slip-ups — turning up late, blowing the odd Monday out, and so on.

    One of them claimed he saved up his monthly PIP payments to get his tattoos done. 🤷‍♂️


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  • cantersaddick
    cantersaddick Posts: 17,328
    Gribbo said:
    A couple of the young lads who worked with me on site were claiming PIP for ADHD+ (one also had depression). They generally managed their day-to-day work fine, apart from the usual age-related slip-ups — turning up late, blowing the odd Monday out, and so on.

    One of them claimed he saved up his monthly PIP payments to get his tattoos done. 🤷‍♂️

    My 2 summers as a labourer were enough to teach me not to believe anything said by lads on site. Particularly when it comes to money. I'm sure someone as long in the tooth as you knows that 
  • IdleHans
    IdleHans Posts: 11,047
    Firework wankers. Enough already.
  • The Red Robin
    The Red Robin Posts: 26,243
    Having to drink tea or coffee out of a glass. It belongs in a ceramic. 
  • Gribbo
    Gribbo Posts: 8,606
    Gribbo said:
    A couple of the young lads who worked with me on site were claiming PIP for ADHD+ (one also had depression). They generally managed their day-to-day work fine, apart from the usual age-related slip-ups — turning up late, blowing the odd Monday out, and so on.

    One of them claimed he saved up his monthly PIP payments to get his tattoos done. 🤷‍♂️

    My 2 summers as a labourer were enough to teach me not to believe anything said by lads on site. Particularly when it comes to money. I'm sure someone as long in the tooth as you knows that 
    Facts mate - I've sat in the same living room in digs with him when he’s spoken to his mum about emails he’s received regarding his payments. This was followed by a discussion about how you apply for it, and how the other lad - who was also present and also receives PIP - joined in. They both seemed pretty knowledgeable about it all, which, for two blokes who barely look up from their phones, was quite unusual. Unless, of course, they both got together to research PIP in order to concoct a cunning story to tell me and one other?

    Just because you don’t like it mate, doesn’t mean it ain’t true.

    Nb. I’m not criticising them, just contributing to the convo on here.

  • AFKABartram
    AFKABartram Posts: 58,027
    Having to drink tea or coffee out of a glass. It belongs in a ceramic. 
    Haha, I said this at 7am this morning, drinking tea out of a glass in our hotel. It feels wrong! 
  • Gribbo
    Gribbo Posts: 8,606
    Having to drink tea or coffee out of a glass. It belongs in a ceramic. 
    Haha, I said this at 7am this morning, drinking tea out of a glass in our hotel. It feels wrong! 
    Try drinking a St Emilion Grand Cru out of a coffee mug
  • cantersaddick
    cantersaddick Posts: 17,328
    edited November 9
    Gribbo said:
    Gribbo said:
    A couple of the young lads who worked with me on site were claiming PIP for ADHD+ (one also had depression). They generally managed their day-to-day work fine, apart from the usual age-related slip-ups — turning up late, blowing the odd Monday out, and so on.

    One of them claimed he saved up his monthly PIP payments to get his tattoos done. 🤷‍♂️

    My 2 summers as a labourer were enough to teach me not to believe anything said by lads on site. Particularly when it comes to money. I'm sure someone as long in the tooth as you knows that 
    Facts mate - I've sat in the same living room in digs with him when he’s spoken to his mum about emails he’s received regarding his payments. This was followed by a discussion about how you apply for it, and how the other lad - who was also present and also receives PIP - joined in. They both seemed pretty knowledgeable about it all, which, for two blokes who barely look up from their phones, was quite unusual. Unless, of course, they both got together to research PIP in order to concoct a cunning story to tell me and one other?

    Just because you don’t like it mate, doesn’t mean it ain’t true.

    Nb. I’m not criticising them, just contributing to the convo on here.

    I'm not arguing they're getting PIP but I expect it's very likely they aren't telling you the full story in terms of the conditions and contributory factors they have that lead to that decision.

    Its a couple years out of date but I was somewhat of an expert in PIP, in fact through my job I was in court for more than one hearing of a judicial review into various detailed parts of the acceptance criteria. 

    And to go back to the original point they won't be getting motability for just ADHD. 
  • SporadicAddick
    SporadicAddick Posts: 6,955

  • cantersaddick
    cantersaddick Posts: 17,328
    edited November 10

    Ohh look stalkers back. 

    Play the ball not the man. Feel free to dispute the point I'm making on acceptance criteria if you know better. As usual you can't and you just go for personal digs. Really really odd behaviour from a supposed adult. 

    There are 2 things I have claimed to be an expert in and that's due to multiple qualifications up to postgraduate level and being fully immersed in them for multiple years of my career.

    Edit. Last bit removed to follow my own advice
  • Chizz
    Chizz Posts: 28,420
    Judging other people's mental health issues