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Friday Ethics - fidelity..
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If it's a one off thing, possibly drunken (shag) does it count?
If you never shag but chat on phone or internet a lot, does it count?
(a conversation from our office just now - very slow Friday)
If you never shag but chat on phone or internet a lot, does it count?
(a conversation from our office just now - very slow Friday)
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1) Of course it does
2) Still cheating of sorts0 -
more later when I come back from the boozer0
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So Barn you been shagging around
Fidelity aint an ethic, it's a right of passage. I would say if you need to get it elsewhere you ain't doing the biatch right, and she ain't putting it out for you.
Get yourself some Jemma, you can ask Kev to borrow some0 -
there can be no right or wrong answers in my book because everbody is in different situations, and the only person who knows what is appropriate or not, is you.
sometimes there are factors involved in a relationship that lead people to stray, that others simply don't know about.0 -
if the person see no gulit in it, then they shouldn't worry.
If you're discret about it, then why not?0 -
The 11th Commandment kicks-in here...don't get caught.0
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The morals of some of the people on this board are ....well questionable to say the least..!0
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Whatchasaying!0
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[cite]Posted By: razil[/cite]If it's a one off thing, possibly drunken (shag) does it count?
If you never shag but chat on phone or internet a lot, does it count?
The best leveller is to think how you would feel if it was your partner who did to you.0 -
Cheats & Liars the lot of you...!0
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[cite]Posted By: Ketman[/cite]Cheats & Liars the lot of you...!
Outrageous slur...0 -
[cite]Posted By: Ketman[/cite]The morals of some of the people on this board are ....well questionable to say the least..!
i don't think its a case of that, its just a grey area.
there are two questions really...
1. how would you feel if you found you're partner had done it
2. would you be able to deal with worst scenario, partner finding out and kicking you out.
if you don't think you can handle either of those, don't cheat !0 -
if ur with someone who ur meant to be with 100% then u won't cheat, simple as.
if you cheat, then u aint happy, and if you get caught / found out, its prob for the best, as the relationship was over the min you jumped in with someone else anyway.0 -
[cite]Posted By: AFKA Bartram if you don't think you can handle either of those, don't cheat !
The other thing to bear in mind is if one gets emotionally involved, it will probably kill your first relationship.0 -
you live once...
ENJOY IT while you can
simple as.......0 -
I'm with Ketman on this. There's not really any grey area, shagging someone else is cheating.
There may be many different reasons why people do it but at the end of the day, it's still cheating!0 -
[cite]Posted By: carlingaddick[/cite]you live once...
ENJOY IT while you can
simple as.......
Aye to that!0 -
eattings cheating!0
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Riscardo always tells me that eatin is cheatin, and now you're telling me that cheatin is err cheatin !!0
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spooky !!0
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"you live once...
ENJOY IT while you can
simple as......."
Yes but the peron or persons you are shitting on only lives once and has the right to enjoy it while they can. Or are you in the "I'm alright Jack brigade"?
*1905 marches triumphantly to the morale high ground*0 -
ok fair point 1905..
maybe i was abit hasty in my post...0 -
[cite]Posted By: Rothko[/cite][cite]Posted By: carlingaddick[/cite]you live once...
ENJOY IT while you can
simple as.......
Aye to that!
tart0 -
[cite]Posted By: 1905[/cite]"you live once...
ENJOY IT while you can
simple as......."
Yes but the peron or persons you are shitting on only lives once and has the right to enjoy it while they can. Or are you in the "I'm alright Jack brigade"?
*1905 marches triumphantly to the morale high ground*
*round of applause*0 -
[cite]Posted By: suzisausage[/cite][cite]Posted By: Rothko[/cite][cite]Posted By: carlingaddick[/cite]you live once...
ENJOY IT while you can
simple as.......
Aye to that!
tart
:O)0 -
On ward Christian soldiers marching as to war...................
Pass me my spoon and biscuit tin!0 -
just seems that if a bloke cheats then the world should hang em but if its a bird then its ok & just get on with it..
its all b0ll0x0 -
Doesn't count as cheating if it's abroad or on a Friday (apparently) ;-)0
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dont think so carling, I think you'll find any woman caught cheating if married with kiddies is vilified from pillar to post.
any man who sleeps around - gets a slap on the back, any woman sleeps around - branded a slag.
I think you can tell by some answers all those who have been cheated on - end up very bitter.
Do unto others as you would have others do unto you0 -
I've done it, and I've had it done to me, and I've never felt to bad about it when it's been done to me when I've found out.
Discertness of the cheating is the key0
