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Another thought, another prayer

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  • Fantastic news Bob, as others have said enjoy your first evening home in a long time with Jan, best wishes to both of you and I hope her recovery continues at a speedy pace.


  • Fantastic news Bob that puts everything else in perspective. Not for the first time has your family have been through it in the last few years either.

    Can empathise because my wife lost her Mum on 5th October last year, then her Dad on 13th June (in hospital and without being able to say goodbye) and her twin brother has been fighting cancer for the last six months which will, following numerous bouts of chemotherapy, culminate in a potentially life saving operation to remove a tumour next week. All we can do is hope that the op is successful and that the whole family can move on from there.
  • First time I've opened this thread...it must have been a tough year so far, but great news in the update today, all the best to you both..
  • Good news. I hope things keep looking up.
  • Great news
  • That’s great to hear. 👍
  • bobmunro
    bobmunro Posts: 20,844
    Fantastic news Bob that puts everything else in perspective. Not for the first time has your family have been through it in the last few years either.

    Can empathise because my wife lost her Mum on 5th October last year, then her Dad on 13th June (in hospital and without being able to say goodbye) and her twin brother has been fighting cancer for the last six months which will, following numerous bouts of chemotherapy, culminate in a potentially life saving operation to remove a tumour next week. All we can do is hope that the op is successful and that the whole family can move on from there.

    Very best wishes to your brother-in-law, and all of you - especially your dear wife who has had so much sadness over the past year.
    One day, one glorious day, we will rid humanity of this bastard disease.
  • bobmunro
    bobmunro Posts: 20,844
    Thank you all.
    Jan is taking a peaceful nap on the sofa and I keep going into the lounge just to look at her - my soul mate.
  • seth plum
    seth plum Posts: 53,448
    Good news.
    Now you must become Bob the nurse for a while!
  • All the best to you; you and your wife are in our thoughts.
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  • robinofottershaw
    robinofottershaw Posts: 1,921
    edited September 2020
    Great news. Best wishes to your family.
  • Great news that, as you say @Bobmonro one day we shall get rid of this terrible C word  disease, I know far too many cases, family & friends who have it, treatments though and management of it are getting better thanks to some brilliant medical scientists & researchers. 
  • T_C_E
    T_C_E Posts: 16,420
    Great news, so pleased for you all. 
  • Redmidland
    Redmidland Posts: 44,700
    Fantastic news!
  • eaststandmike
    eaststandmike Posts: 14,956
    edited September 2020
    bobmunro said:
    Thank you all.
    Jan is taking a peaceful nap on the sofa and I keep going into the lounge just to look at her - my soul mate.
    All the best to you both mate. 
  • Excellent news Bob and best wishes for continued happiness to both of you.
  • Dippenhall
    Dippenhall Posts: 3,919
    Very happy for you and your family.
  • Bods64
    Bods64 Posts: 473
    Wishing you both all the very best. Hoping and praying that Jan continues to improve.
  • Boom
    Boom Posts: 1,680
    Nice one! 
  • Really excellent news, Bob! 
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  • LenGlover
    LenGlover Posts: 31,651
    Delighted to hear that Bob.
  • ME14addick
    ME14addick Posts: 9,762
    Wonderful news Bob, so glad to hear that your wife is home with you. It must have been a very difficult 3 weeks for both of you. My best wishes for your wife's continuing recovery.
  • Great news and an immense relief for you all I'm sure.

    Really chuffed for you, you deserve it Bob.
  • MrOneLung
    MrOneLung Posts: 26,855
     can only echo all the other comments. 

    Great news 
  • aliwibble
    aliwibble Posts: 26,291
    Great news Bob. And excellent timing from Thomas that means you don't need to keep checking on here for updates so often :)  Hope all continues to progress well.
  • soapy_jones
    soapy_jones Posts: 21,353
    Some good news is always welcome and i am very glad to hear it.
  • PaddyP17
    PaddyP17 Posts: 13,037
    Fantastic news Bob. All the very best to Jan, and your family.

    I'd like to take this opportunity to urge everyone who can to register as a donor: https://www.anthonynolan.org/donor-application/begin

    If you're aged between 16-30 and in good health (which is to say, not listed as a medical exemption - e.g. I'm not exactly "healthy" but am healthy enough to donate), please do sign up. This applies particularly to the main demographic of this site - which is men. If you are not white then it's all the more crucial: currently, just 20% of all minority ethnic people in need receive a good match for a stem cell transplant.

    I happened to have donated my stem cells a few years ago to someone who needed them and was one of the 90% who donate peripheral blood stem cells. It is a very easy process all told - get G-CSF injections in the week before (maybe you'll get flu-like symptoms or headaches - I got mild aches); sit in a bed for like 6 hours and read a book/watch some telly while hooked up to the PBSC machine; and that's basically it. 

    I cannot stress how incredibly easy and minimally inconvenient it was to do this. Even if it's a bone marrow donation, that's not exactly pleasant, but it is a cakewalk compared to the things those with a blood disorder need to survive.

    Please, please sign up - or if you can't, then please donate to Anthony Nolan or similar. 
  • Great news Bob :).
  • Gary Poole
    Gary Poole Posts: 1,874
    Fantastic news Bob, I hope she recovers swiftly from the treatment and you are both able to get back to enjoying life together without that constant felling, even if only at the back of your mind of the Damocles hanging over your heads. I wish you both and the rest of the family many happy times ahead.

    @PaddyP17 amazing post and what a great act of altruistic kindness, which may well have had such a huge positive impact on a family. It may not have seemed like much to you to do it, but the effect could well be huge. 
  • Great news Bob. 

    Only just seen this thread so was not aware of this prior. 

    I’ve never met you before but got a massive smile on this news.