Missing student nurse found - strange story?

First of all, brilliant that she has been found safe and (apparently) well.
Must admit I was aware of the story in the peripheral but had not really looked into it too much aside from knowing she was missing, but actually reading the story on BBC news it seems like something more than meets the eye here (or is it just me?)
Girl approaching the end of her studies to become a nurse, one day says to her mum she's off to the gym, disappears for two days, and is then located sleeping on a friends doorstep - approached by police but she claims she is fine and leaves the scene, then "disappears" for a further 7 weeks until being located today miles away in Hampshire seemingly absolutely fine, safe and well.
What makes it strange to me, is the fact that even despite her face being on many news outlets and broadcasts for weeks, 5 people being arrested for her murder/kidnapping - she never came forward even in a discrete way to say she was alive and fine and just didn't wish to be contacted or whatever.
A huge amount of police time put into the case and obviously still lots of facts to be established, but it all just seems rather odd all around.
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Presumably the people charged with murder will have the charges dropped then. When they get round to it. So in about 6 months then!2
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remember Agatha Christie !0
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charlton4ever said:remember Agatha Christie !0
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Manic_mania said:https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-62649615
First of all, brilliant that she has been found safe and (apparently) well.
Must admit I was aware of the story in the peripheral but had not really looked into it too much aside from knowing she was missing, but actually reading the story on BBC news it seems like something more than meets the eye here (or is it just me?)
Girl approaching the end of her studies to become a nurse, one day says to her mum she's off to the gym, disappears for two days, and is then located sleeping on a friends doorstep - approached by police but she claims she is fine and leaves the scene, then "disappears" for a further 7 weeks until being located today miles away in Hampshire seemingly absolutely fine, safe and well.
What makes it strange to me, is the fact that even despite her face being on many news outlets and broadcasts for weeks, 5 people being arrested for her murder/kidnapping - she never came forward even in a discrete way to say she was alive and fine and just didn't wish to be contacted or whatever.
A huge amount of police time put into the case and obviously still lots of facts to be established, but it all just seems rather odd all around.
Lots of people on SM over the last few weeks saying that if she was white /blonde then more would have been made if it blah blah blah....but she's been alive all this time & not given 2 fucks about contacting anyone to let them know she's ok(assuming she was supposed to be going into work all this time).
However, giving her the benefit of the doubt for a moment I'd assume that she is suffering from some MH issues or has amnesia....otherwise she has wasted a lot of peoples time.6 -
I suspect she has a problem. Maybe stress from her course. Maybe she had a breakdown - it happened to my Mum, didn’t know who she was for two months then just woke up one day in the garden and was fine. I doubt she’s been intentionally wasting the police’s time.11
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It must be a terrible worry for friends and family, but I suspect this sort of thing might be more common than people think.
https://metro.co.uk/2015/12/29/stephen-fry-reveals-he-stopped-himself-committing-suicide-by-vanishing-from-the-public-eye-5588964/
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Off_it said:Presumably the people charged with murder will have the charges dropped then. When they get round to it. So in about 6 months then!0
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AddicksAddict said:I suspect she has a problem. Maybe stress from her course. Maybe she had a breakdown - it happened to my Mum, didn’t know who she was for two months then just woke up one day in the garden and was fine. I doubt she’s been intentionally wasting the police’s time.
Also how the hell did she end up in Hampshire from Grays Essex??
As I said its all rather odd. I'm sure things will be revealed in due course.1 -
"The force added Ms Davies's family had spoken to her and she appeared to be fit and well cared for.
Officers will speak to Ms Davies more fully in due course about her welfare."
""She looks in good health, she's in a place of safety, and not currently in the vulnerable state that we were led to believe she was in at the start of her disappearance.""
Police delicately mentioning her welfare and vulnerable state would indicate that she's not fully in control of her actions over the past month or so. Perhaps the stress of her career was a little too much and caused a breakdown/MH issue.
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Great that she has been found. Hope she finds equilibrium.
What a relief to her family and to an extent all of us.11 -
golfaddick said:Manic_mania said:https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-62649615
First of all, brilliant that she has been found safe and (apparently) well.
Must admit I was aware of the story in the peripheral but had not really looked into it too much aside from knowing she was missing, but actually reading the story on BBC news it seems like something more than meets the eye here (or is it just me?)
Girl approaching the end of her studies to become a nurse, one day says to her mum she's off to the gym, disappears for two days, and is then located sleeping on a friends doorstep - approached by police but she claims she is fine and leaves the scene, then "disappears" for a further 7 weeks until being located today miles away in Hampshire seemingly absolutely fine, safe and well.
What makes it strange to me, is the fact that even despite her face being on many news outlets and broadcasts for weeks, 5 people being arrested for her murder/kidnapping - she never came forward even in a discrete way to say she was alive and fine and just didn't wish to be contacted or whatever.
A huge amount of police time put into the case and obviously still lots of facts to be established, but it all just seems rather odd all around.
Lots of people on SM over the last few weeks saying that if she was white /blonde then more would have been made if it blah blah blah....but she's been alive all this time & not given 2 fucks about contacting anyone to let them know she's ok(assuming she was supposed to be going into work all this time).
However, giving her the benefit of the doubt for a moment I'd assume that she is suffering from some MH issues or has amnesia....otherwise she has wasted a lot of peoples time.
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AddicksAddict said:I suspect she has a problem. Maybe stress from her course. Maybe she had a breakdown - it happened to my Mum, didn’t know who she was for two months then just woke up one day in the garden and was fine. I doubt she’s been intentionally wasting the police’s time.0
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SELR_addicks said:
"The force added Ms Davies's family had spoken to her and she appeared to be fit and well cared for.
Officers will speak to Ms Davies more fully in due course about her welfare."
""She looks in good health, she's in a place of safety, and not currently in the vulnerable state that we were led to believe she was in at the start of her disappearance.""
Police delicately mentioning her welfare and vulnerable state would indicate that she's not fully in control of her actions over the past month or so. Perhaps the stress of her career was a little too much and caused a breakdown/MH issue.
-well cared for by whom? Saying that makes it appear she wasn't sleeping rough as one might think - If she was taken in by a kind stranger perhaps, why wasn't it reported considering people were being arrested and questioned for her murder? Her picture was in the news nationwide.
-who led the police to believe she was in a vulnerable state when she disappeared - according to the mum she was just heading off to the gym like usual? Note the wording again, "like we were led to believe" not "like we would have thought/expected" if the police that encountered her 2 days into the disappearance suspected she was vulnerable and potentially in danger in any way, would they have let her just leave like that?
The whole thing just don't sit quite right with me.
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Manic_mania said:SELR_addicks said:
"The force added Ms Davies's family had spoken to her and she appeared to be fit and well cared for.
Officers will speak to Ms Davies more fully in due course about her welfare."
""She looks in good health, she's in a place of safety, and not currently in the vulnerable state that we were led to believe she was in at the start of her disappearance.""
Police delicately mentioning her welfare and vulnerable state would indicate that she's not fully in control of her actions over the past month or so. Perhaps the stress of her career was a little too much and caused a breakdown/MH issue.
-well cared for by whom? Saying that makes it appear she wasn't sleeping rough as one might think - If she was taken in by a kind stranger perhaps, why wasn't it reported considering people were being arrested and questioned for her murder? Her picture was in the news nationwide.
-who led the police to believe she was in a vulnerable state when she disappeared - according to the mum she was just heading off to the gym like usual? Note the wording again, "like we were led to believe" not "like we would have thought/expected" if the police that encountered her 2 days into the disappearance suspected she was vulnerable and potentially in danger in any way, would they have let her just leave like that?
The whole thing just don't sit quite right with me.
She, and her family, are entitled to privacy so I very much doubt you will find the answers to the questions you are seeking.7 -
Redhenry said:Wrong thread0
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SELR_addicks said:Manic_mania said:SELR_addicks said:
"The force added Ms Davies's family had spoken to her and she appeared to be fit and well cared for.
Officers will speak to Ms Davies more fully in due course about her welfare."
""She looks in good health, she's in a place of safety, and not currently in the vulnerable state that we were led to believe she was in at the start of her disappearance.""
Police delicately mentioning her welfare and vulnerable state would indicate that she's not fully in control of her actions over the past month or so. Perhaps the stress of her career was a little too much and caused a breakdown/MH issue.
-well cared for by whom? Saying that makes it appear she wasn't sleeping rough as one might think - If she was taken in by a kind stranger perhaps, why wasn't it reported considering people were being arrested and questioned for her murder? Her picture was in the news nationwide.
-who led the police to believe she was in a vulnerable state when she disappeared - according to the mum she was just heading off to the gym like usual? Note the wording again, "like we were led to believe" not "like we would have thought/expected" if the police that encountered her 2 days into the disappearance suspected she was vulnerable and potentially in danger in any way, would they have let her just leave like that?
The whole thing just don't sit quite right with me.
She, and her family, are entitled to privacy so I very much doubt you will find the answers to the questions you are seeking.4 -
Manic_mania said:https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-62649615
First of all, brilliant that she has been found safe and (apparently) well.
Must admit I was aware of the story in the peripheral but had not really looked into it too much aside from knowing she was missing, but actually reading the story on BBC news it seems like something more than meets the eye here (or is it just me?)
Girl approaching the end of her studies to become a nurse, one day says to her mum she's off to the gym, disappears for two days, and is then located sleeping on a friends doorstep - approached by police but she claims she is fine and leaves the scene, then "disappears" for a further 7 weeks until being located today miles away in Hampshire seemingly absolutely fine, safe and well.
What makes it strange to me, is the fact that even despite her face being on many news outlets and broadcasts for weeks, 5 people being arrested for her murder/kidnapping - she never came forward even in a discrete way to say she was alive and fine and just didn't wish to be contacted or whatever.
A huge amount of police time put into the case and obviously still lots of facts to be established, but it all just seems rather odd all around.
Where is she? We don't know. What harm has come to her? We don't know. Is she dead? We don't know. But we're arresting you for murder.1 -
Chris_from_Sidcup said:Manic_mania said:https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-62649615
First of all, brilliant that she has been found safe and (apparently) well.
Must admit I was aware of the story in the peripheral but had not really looked into it too much aside from knowing she was missing, but actually reading the story on BBC news it seems like something more than meets the eye here (or is it just me?)
Girl approaching the end of her studies to become a nurse, one day says to her mum she's off to the gym, disappears for two days, and is then located sleeping on a friends doorstep - approached by police but she claims she is fine and leaves the scene, then "disappears" for a further 7 weeks until being located today miles away in Hampshire seemingly absolutely fine, safe and well.
What makes it strange to me, is the fact that even despite her face being on many news outlets and broadcasts for weeks, 5 people being arrested for her murder/kidnapping - she never came forward even in a discrete way to say she was alive and fine and just didn't wish to be contacted or whatever.
A huge amount of police time put into the case and obviously still lots of facts to be established, but it all just seems rather odd all around.
Where is she? We don't know. What harm has come to her? We don't know. Is she dead? We don't know. But we're arresting you for murder.
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Chris_from_Sidcup said:Manic_mania said:https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-62649615
First of all, brilliant that she has been found safe and (apparently) well.
Must admit I was aware of the story in the peripheral but had not really looked into it too much aside from knowing she was missing, but actually reading the story on BBC news it seems like something more than meets the eye here (or is it just me?)
Girl approaching the end of her studies to become a nurse, one day says to her mum she's off to the gym, disappears for two days, and is then located sleeping on a friends doorstep - approached by police but she claims she is fine and leaves the scene, then "disappears" for a further 7 weeks until being located today miles away in Hampshire seemingly absolutely fine, safe and well.
What makes it strange to me, is the fact that even despite her face being on many news outlets and broadcasts for weeks, 5 people being arrested for her murder/kidnapping - she never came forward even in a discrete way to say she was alive and fine and just didn't wish to be contacted or whatever.
A huge amount of police time put into the case and obviously still lots of facts to be established, but it all just seems rather odd all around.
Where is she? We don't know. What harm has come to her? We don't know. Is she dead? We don't know. But we're arresting you for murder.0 -
golfaddick said:Chris_from_Sidcup said:Manic_mania said:https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-62649615
First of all, brilliant that she has been found safe and (apparently) well.
Must admit I was aware of the story in the peripheral but had not really looked into it too much aside from knowing she was missing, but actually reading the story on BBC news it seems like something more than meets the eye here (or is it just me?)
Girl approaching the end of her studies to become a nurse, one day says to her mum she's off to the gym, disappears for two days, and is then located sleeping on a friends doorstep - approached by police but she claims she is fine and leaves the scene, then "disappears" for a further 7 weeks until being located today miles away in Hampshire seemingly absolutely fine, safe and well.
What makes it strange to me, is the fact that even despite her face being on many news outlets and broadcasts for weeks, 5 people being arrested for her murder/kidnapping - she never came forward even in a discrete way to say she was alive and fine and just didn't wish to be contacted or whatever.
A huge amount of police time put into the case and obviously still lots of facts to be established, but it all just seems rather odd all around.
Where is she? We don't know. What harm has come to her? We don't know. Is she dead? We don't know. But we're arresting you for murder.0 -
Chris_from_Sidcup said:Manic_mania said:https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-62649615
First of all, brilliant that she has been found safe and (apparently) well.
Must admit I was aware of the story in the peripheral but had not really looked into it too much aside from knowing she was missing, but actually reading the story on BBC news it seems like something more than meets the eye here (or is it just me?)
Girl approaching the end of her studies to become a nurse, one day says to her mum she's off to the gym, disappears for two days, and is then located sleeping on a friends doorstep - approached by police but she claims she is fine and leaves the scene, then "disappears" for a further 7 weeks until being located today miles away in Hampshire seemingly absolutely fine, safe and well.
What makes it strange to me, is the fact that even despite her face being on many news outlets and broadcasts for weeks, 5 people being arrested for her murder/kidnapping - she never came forward even in a discrete way to say she was alive and fine and just didn't wish to be contacted or whatever.
A huge amount of police time put into the case and obviously still lots of facts to be established, but it all just seems rather odd all around.
Where is she? We don't know. What harm has come to her? We don't know. Is she dead? We don't know. But we're arresting you for murder.
Glad she's safe and well and hope the person(s) arrested on suspicion of her murder (is this a fact?), don't have any long lasting mental effects from their ordeal. Thats assuming they're completely innocent of any other wrongdoing linked to her disappearance.0 -
Gribbo said:Chris_from_Sidcup said:Manic_mania said:https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-62649615
First of all, brilliant that she has been found safe and (apparently) well.
Must admit I was aware of the story in the peripheral but had not really looked into it too much aside from knowing she was missing, but actually reading the story on BBC news it seems like something more than meets the eye here (or is it just me?)
Girl approaching the end of her studies to become a nurse, one day says to her mum she's off to the gym, disappears for two days, and is then located sleeping on a friends doorstep - approached by police but she claims she is fine and leaves the scene, then "disappears" for a further 7 weeks until being located today miles away in Hampshire seemingly absolutely fine, safe and well.
What makes it strange to me, is the fact that even despite her face being on many news outlets and broadcasts for weeks, 5 people being arrested for her murder/kidnapping - she never came forward even in a discrete way to say she was alive and fine and just didn't wish to be contacted or whatever.
A huge amount of police time put into the case and obviously still lots of facts to be established, but it all just seems rather odd all around.
Where is she? We don't know. What harm has come to her? We don't know. Is she dead? We don't know. But we're arresting you for murder.
Glad she's safe and well and hope the person(s) arrested on suspicion of her murder (is this a fact?), don't have any long lasting mental effects from their ordeal. Thats assuming they're completely innocent of any other wrongdoing linked to her disappearance.
edit "Five people were arrested and bailed in connection with her disappearance - two on suspicion of murder and three on suspicion of kidnap - but the Met later said there was no evidence that she had come to harm."0 -
Manic_mania said:Gribbo said:Chris_from_Sidcup said:Manic_mania said:https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-62649615
First of all, brilliant that she has been found safe and (apparently) well.
Must admit I was aware of the story in the peripheral but had not really looked into it too much aside from knowing she was missing, but actually reading the story on BBC news it seems like something more than meets the eye here (or is it just me?)
Girl approaching the end of her studies to become a nurse, one day says to her mum she's off to the gym, disappears for two days, and is then located sleeping on a friends doorstep - approached by police but she claims she is fine and leaves the scene, then "disappears" for a further 7 weeks until being located today miles away in Hampshire seemingly absolutely fine, safe and well.
What makes it strange to me, is the fact that even despite her face being on many news outlets and broadcasts for weeks, 5 people being arrested for her murder/kidnapping - she never came forward even in a discrete way to say she was alive and fine and just didn't wish to be contacted or whatever.
A huge amount of police time put into the case and obviously still lots of facts to be established, but it all just seems rather odd all around.
Where is she? We don't know. What harm has come to her? We don't know. Is she dead? We don't know. But we're arresting you for murder.
Glad she's safe and well and hope the person(s) arrested on suspicion of her murder (is this a fact?), don't have any long lasting mental effects from their ordeal. Thats assuming they're completely innocent of any other wrongdoing linked to her disappearance.
edit "Five people were arrested and bailed in connection with her disappearance - two on suspicion of murder and three on suspicion of kidnap - but the Met later said there was no evidence that she had come to harm."0 -
I think the arrests are one of the odd things about this case: the police accepting that if someone doesn't want help there's nothing they can do is par for the course as far as I can see. One of my partner's relatives is like this - refuses any help - so unless he commits a crime the police can't or won't do anything. He needs help but doesn't want it. There are no alternatives to the police for most mental health issues either, which is part of the problem. I'm not a big fan of the police but they're in a difficult position of being the people who have to pick up the pieces when there are no other services out there dealing with mental health.
Glad the woman has been found.0 -
Doesn’t pass the sniff test does it. I imagine in the next week the truth will come out.0
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rananegra said:I think the arrests are one of the odd things about this case: the police accepting that if someone doesn't want help there's nothing they can do is par for the course as far as I can see. One of my partner's relatives is like this - refuses any help - so unless he commits a crime the police can't or won't do anything. He needs help but doesn't want it. There are no alternatives to the police for most mental health issues either, which is part of the problem. I'm not a big fan of the police but they're in a difficult position of being the people who have to pick up the pieces when there are no other services out there dealing with mental health.
Glad the woman has been found.1 -
golfaddick said:Chris_from_Sidcup said:Manic_mania said:https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-62649615
First of all, brilliant that she has been found safe and (apparently) well.
Must admit I was aware of the story in the peripheral but had not really looked into it too much aside from knowing she was missing, but actually reading the story on BBC news it seems like something more than meets the eye here (or is it just me?)
Girl approaching the end of her studies to become a nurse, one day says to her mum she's off to the gym, disappears for two days, and is then located sleeping on a friends doorstep - approached by police but she claims she is fine and leaves the scene, then "disappears" for a further 7 weeks until being located today miles away in Hampshire seemingly absolutely fine, safe and well.
What makes it strange to me, is the fact that even despite her face being on many news outlets and broadcasts for weeks, 5 people being arrested for her murder/kidnapping - she never came forward even in a discrete way to say she was alive and fine and just didn't wish to be contacted or whatever.
A huge amount of police time put into the case and obviously still lots of facts to be established, but it all just seems rather odd all around.
Where is she? We don't know. What harm has come to her? We don't know. Is she dead? We don't know. But we're arresting you for murder.1 -
Manic_mania said:https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-62649615
First of all, brilliant that she has been found safe and (apparently) well.
Must admit I was aware of the story in the peripheral but had not really looked into it too much aside from knowing she was missing, but actually reading the story on BBC news it seems like something more than meets the eye here (or is it just me?)
Girl approaching the end of her studies to become a nurse, one day says to her mum she's off to the gym, disappears for two days, and is then located sleeping on a friends doorstep - approached by police but she claims she is fine and leaves the scene, then "disappears" for a further 7 weeks until being located today miles away in Hampshire seemingly absolutely fine, safe and well.
What makes it strange to me, is the fact that even despite her face being on many news outlets and broadcasts for weeks, 5 people being arrested for her murder/kidnapping - she never came forward even in a discrete way to say she was alive and fine and just didn't wish to be contacted or whatever.
A huge amount of police time put into the case and obviously still lots of facts to be established, but it all just seems rather odd all around.1