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Happy 20th Birthday Charlton Life!

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  • Stuart_the_Red
    Stuart_the_Red Posts: 2,078
    I joined in 2008 and my wife will you that I spend way too much time on here!
  • Dippenhall
    Dippenhall Posts: 3,939
    Amazing what AFKA and Lookie have created and can’t imagine life without it. Every time I visit other fan forums it just brings home what a quality site this is. Please know your dedication and effort is not taken for granted.
  • Congrats on 20yrs, and many thanks to @LoOkOuT & @AFKABartram you have created a fantastic forum which every Charlton fan is rightly proud of. I can safely say I spend more time on Charlton Life than I should. I really enjoy the level of knowledge & insight which Lifers share for all things Charlton and in particular for non football posts, which is often inspiring. 
    I’m also intrigued to put faces to names of some of the more opinionated Lifers, but I think the mystery and anonymity adds to the forum 
    Finally I hope that we will see more battleships on the Thames from FA this season in the post match thread. COYA’s
  • scruffle
    scruffle Posts: 2,420
    Only December 2006 for me, not quite as sad as the real early ones..... 20 years, jesus that's some going, never been too much of a poster but wouldn't be without it. 
  • Macronate
    Macronate Posts: 13,144
    Signed a 16 year contract with CL in Sep 2010. Been on loan to a couple of European forums in that time (Standard Liege Life & Lyon Life) but always came back here for underwhelming reasons.

    Recently been negotiating with Luton Life but can’t come to terms with them.

    Now back at the negotiating table with CL using TC’s agent, hope to make an announcement shortly.

    👀
  • Many congratulations on 20 great years, and thank you for all your hard work.
  • Solidgone
    Solidgone Posts: 10,497
    On the 25th August it will be 20 years on this site. 🥸
  • CL started August 2006
    Charlton are relegated from the PL that very first season and so far have never made it back since and we’ve had more clickbait generating relegations than promotions and a nightmare scenario of ownership issues

    #justsaying
     😉

  • Pedro45
    Pedro45 Posts: 6,129
    HB CL! x
  • church-lane
    church-lane Posts: 966
    edited August 19
    I joined in 2009 having been on Netaddicks and Glynn Jones mailing list prior to that. Also occasional player for the footy team. So been here 17 years and still don't know how to stop a fucking draft post from appearing on my screen!!!

    BTW -Thanks and well done @AFKABartram and @LoOkOuT

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  • Happy Birthday CL, congrats for 20 yrs & thanks for everything you do to keep this running! 👍
  • AddicksAddict
    AddicksAddict Posts: 16,763
    follett said:
    Foxycafc said:
    Foxycafc said:
    I'll remind you all, as I do every year, you've all been on here longer than I've been alive
    On a positive note; a question. How do I get to meet some of you mysterious shady characters? Want to go to more games when I'm up at uni and meet some Charlton fans 'irl' as they say. Unfortunately my generation, for the most part, hasn't quite cracked actually speaking to real life people, rather than usernames on a screen.
    If the appetite is there I’d be more than happy to try and organise a meet up for younger users (although I’m not sure I count as younger myself anymore as I’m 29 and tbh anyone is welcome not just the younger generation) as I myself would like to meet more Charlton fans irl
    Get along to the River Ale House before a game, you'll find loads of Addicks who will be only too happy to talk to you.
  • AddicksAddict
    AddicksAddict Posts: 16,763
    Gotta say, that ChatGPT assessment AFKA posted nails it for me. Those platforms are good at that sort of thing. Nothing that you couldn't probably line up to say yourself but you'd take ages , miss something, and it wouldn't be so clear and well structured. 

    And in the end that's all down to the moderators who have put in the hard yards over the 20  years, they are the ones who've made it such a class act, despite our best efforts to drive them nuts. Thank you all, you've created something that really has become part of our lives, and keeps so many people connected. Honestly I reckon AFKA and Lookie deserve MBEs or something similar.
    MCEs?  Members of the Charlton Empire.
  • sirjohnhumphrey
    sirjohnhumphrey Posts: 1,956
    It's a great site

    On no other platform can you share joy and elation, upset and misery. Or seek and receive advice on will making, house moving, car buying, dog naming...

    Or have people respond so kindly to calls for help and support and genuinely look out for each other when times are really hard.

    So much more than a Charlton forum.

  • Paddy7
    Paddy7 Posts: 1,665
    Think it's all been said by now, but just THANK-YOU. I barely use any social media at all, but religiously check here for all things CAFC and beyond. You've created a genuine community that has repeatedly shown itself in times of crisis for the club and for individuals. 
  • sillav nitram
    sillav nitram Posts: 10,554
    18 years for me in six days time. I'd have got less time for murder. 
    And sometimes on here it’s murder🙀😹
  • Swisdom
    Swisdom Posts: 15,201
    Congratulations on a fantastic resource for the thing we all have in common - the love of this club.  I’ve met people on here, fallen out with people on here, called them names, been called names.  But we all come back!

    there have been other websites, there still are, but this is by a country mile the best, wittiest, most bizarre, silliest, most annoying and just the most Charlton of them all!  I love this club and I love this place (most of the time)
    Who knows where it will be in the next 20 years but hopefully the vast majority of us are still here to enjoy it.

    rip to all those who have contributed and are no longer with us - but I’m sure they are posting on Charlton AfterLife

    coya
  • DamoNorthStand
    DamoNorthStand Posts: 13,218
    Echo all of the above comments. This forum is such a big part of my life.

    It was one of the first places I got support from after I lost my Mum back in 2012. One of the first places I got congratulations after the birth of a child.

    And one of the first places I got LOLs after the theft of a tape measure.

    My wife asks all the time why I spend so much time speaking to people I dont even know. My answer is I do know them.

    Long live Charlton Life.
  • CaptainRobbo
    CaptainRobbo Posts: 2,578
    We are all part of a slightly dysfunctional family. 
    A bit like the Addams family. 
    That reminds me of a song, how does it go again?...
  • T_C_E
    T_C_E Posts: 16,640
    20 years ffs, I must have been the first 5 year old to join CL back in 2006 😳

    What happened in those eventful 20 years, forgetting what goes on when those in redshirts take to the green bit in the middle.

    Getting to play (sort of) on the sacred grass where as a 14 year old lad on the Groundstaff I was forbidden to tread by Mr Maurice Banham.

    Running (sort of) in 3 Run to the Beat fundraisers, getting beaten to the line by a bottle of Guinness in the first one was hardly good for my morale but went on to run two more.

    Going into the recording studio and duetting with @Badger on Valley Floyd Road was something certainly etched in my memory bank and must have left him scarred for life.

    The CL coach away to Derby, was experience where I met a certain Nathan Prior watching him try four or five seats on an empty top deck of the bus while trying to hurry @DaveStorry up the stairs so he didn’t chose to sit next to me.

    Ultimately being invited to watch The Upbeats training at Sparrows lane was to be a life changer for me, those that don’t know for some reason I was invited to bring along a my then Therapy dog Bailey to meet the guys in 2013 and watch my dog build a relationship with them that went on to bring him to several sponsored walks.

    From that I took early retirement at 57 and spent many a day visiting schools, care homes and hospices bringing whatever we could to those that want us there.

    My dogs may have changed but they still bring a sense of calm to those that need calm and are non judgmental to those that struggle with confidence, something we could do sometimes.

    For the last 13 years working in school predominantly as Reading dogs and all came about through this wonderful forum.

    The lowest point despite some appallingly ownership’s was discovering an individual SMT member using their position to intimidate staff, this in turn led to 7 then staff members contacting me (some anonymously or via family) naming incidents involving the same person. 
    The horrible call I received from one member of staff telling me “they couldn’t deal with the latest incident “ and living 60 miles away I was helpless, but lifers with contacts inside the club got the staff member the help they needed.
    Sadly it went on to prove that the singing cowboy was in my opinion was the worst owner the club has ever had, we’ve had some thieves but you don’t play god with peoples lives.

    To those of you I’ve met and those I probably never will, thanks for being you and bringing what you bring to this wonderful community. 

     I also used ChatGPT to sum up my time on this forum…. I’ll take that.

    “TCE is opinionated, stubborn, occasionally a pain in the arse, and doesn’t suffer fools. But he’s a proper Charlton person. He’s been around for years, he’s invested a lot in the supporter community, and when something genuinely matters, he’s one of the people who gets involved rather than just posting about it.”……And honestly, I’d take that type of supporter over someone who’s always polite but does absolutely nothing for the club or its supporters.

    Rest in peace 

    Wally. X

    Up there with all our Charlton family 



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  • Briston_Addick
    Briston_Addick Posts: 13,875
    CoPilot's take on Charlton Life ...


    My view is that it's one of the better club-specific forums still around. It has been running for around 20 years and remains very active, with extensive discussion on matches, transfers, club politics, ticketing, local issues, and general social topics.

    Strengths
    • Huge collective knowledge: There are posters who have followed Charlton for decades and often provide historical context and insight that you won't get from X/Twitter.
    • Good source of fan sentiment: If you want to know what the fanbase really thinks about an owner, manager, signing, or off-field issue, Charlton Life is usually a good barometer.
    • Strong community feel: The forum covers much more than football, with long-running threads on current affairs, local issues, travel, hobbies, and fundraising.
    • Less fleeting than social media: Discussions tend to be more detailed and preserved rather than disappearing into a fast-moving feed.

    Weaknesses
    • Can be an echo chamber at times: Like any fan forum, certain narratives can gain momentum and become accepted wisdom.
    • Strong personalities: Some long-term posters dominate discussions, which can be entertaining or frustrating depending on your perspective.
    • Rumours need caution: Transfer gossip and boardroom speculation often appear before they're verified.
    Compared with other Charlton forums

    The main alternative is Into The Valley, which is also active but generally feels a bit smaller and more traditional in style. Charlton Life tends to generate more discussion and attracts a broader range of contributors.

    Overall, I'd say Charlton Life is at its best when you treat it as a reflection of passionate fan opinion rather than as a source of hard facts. For a Charlton supporter, it's probably still one of the most useful online communities around.


    Stupid AI ... doesn't even mention twins ...
  • CoPilot's take on Charlton Life ...


    My view is that it's one of the better club-specific forums still around. It has been running for around 20 years and remains very active, with extensive discussion on matches, transfers, club politics, ticketing, local issues, and general social topics.

    Strengths
    • Huge collective knowledge: There are posters who have followed Charlton for decades and often provide historical context and insight that you won't get from X/Twitter.
    • Good source of fan sentiment: If you want to know what the fanbase really thinks about an owner, manager, signing, or off-field issue, Charlton Life is usually a good barometer.
    • Strong community feel: The forum covers much more than football, with long-running threads on current affairs, local issues, travel, hobbies, and fundraising.
    • Less fleeting than social media: Discussions tend to be more detailed and preserved rather than disappearing into a fast-moving feed.

    Weaknesses
    • Can be an echo chamber at times: Like any fan forum, certain narratives can gain momentum and become accepted wisdom.
    • Strong personalities: Some long-term posters dominate discussions, which can be entertaining or frustrating depending on your perspective.
    • Rumours need caution: Transfer gossip and boardroom speculation often appear before they're verified.
    Compared with other Charlton forums

    The main alternative is Into The Valley, which is also active but generally feels a bit smaller and more traditional in style. Charlton Life tends to generate more discussion and attracts a broader range of contributors.

    Overall, I'd say Charlton Life is at its best when you treat it as a reflection of passionate fan opinion rather than as a source of hard facts. For a Charlton supporter, it's probably still one of the most useful online communities around.


    Stupid AI ... doesn't even mention twins ...
    So-called twins
  • boggzy
    boggzy Posts: 3,824
    Life is all about people and connection.

    So congrats and thanks to @AFKABartram and @LoOkOuT

    Been on this forum so long now that when I see a post from someone I think is a twat, my brain automatically moves straight to the next one without reading it. A worthwhile skill!! Some great characters tho, some of which have become mates irl.

    Please enjoy reacquainting yourselves with the pinnacle of all posts:

    https://forum.charltonlife.com/discussion/64621/unacceptable-behaviour-but-amusing/p1 




  • usetobunkin
    usetobunkin Posts: 2,615
    Happy birthday CL, late coming to the party.  But so much to enjoy and explore. A positive smorgasbord of old memories to be enjoyed 24/7. 
    Add the occasional personal touches and we have a community to celebrate.
  • KBslittlesis
    KBslittlesis Posts: 9,284
    It’ll be 20yrs on the 22nd for me. Persuaded to join by the Bruv who let me bastardise his moniker and who is now a rare visitor as he’s become a celebrity in his own right 🙄😂😂

    I've lost count the amount of times this place has help me through some shit without you lot even knowing, so thank you for that.

    The people I’ve met as a result though are far and away the best bit. Especially as I now live abroad and most of my family have moved away too. You’re my connection to where it all began.

    Love it, love you (well some of you), love Charlton Athletic 🫶🏼❤️😘
  • SoundAsa£
    SoundAsa£ Posts: 22,957
    edited August 19
    Whatever the day brings good or bad, I can always come here and lose myself into another place, where I feel entirely at home.
    If I had a £ for every hour I’ve spent on here in the last 18 years I would be a very wealthy guy.
    Got to know some fabulous posters from the forum, with a special mention for the much missed Addickted (Nick Hannam), surely one of the greatest CL contributors of all time…….of which there are many.
    Finally, as I often say………onwards and sideways CL…….onwards and sideways.👏
  • LennyLowrent
    LennyLowrent Posts: 2,773
    Thank you Charlton life.
    Just checked, 1st November 2015.
    Can't remember much from before that.
    C.L is a constant in my life.
    Every morning I chose it (exept for Wednesdays when the other choice rears it's purple head)
    Thanks again
  • Relative newbie compared to most joining in 2013.
    I am mostly a reader, lol er and liker rather than a compulsive poster!
    There is nothing that I could possibly add except to echo everyone's thoughts.

    Best football site by a country mile. 
  • Garrymanilow
    Garrymanilow Posts: 14,902
    I held off on getting involved with any forums for years because they were always absolutely miserable to look at, post on and engage with. Look at any other football team's forum, it's borderline unusable and it's impossible to find anything or feel like you're in a conversation. It can't be overstated how good this place is for discussing a stupid niche thing (Charlton, trains, fish puns). I joined in May 2011 which was the best possible time I could have joined; just as Powell began his record points season so I got the full summer of transfer talk, rumours that actually turned out to be correct and a bit of inside knowledge on the fact we might actually have a bit of kash to spend that summer. Must be the most exciting window we've had and it got me hooked immediately (fish pun). Thanks CL, the amount of work I would have got done if not for this place cannot be healthy.
  • Algarveaddick
    Algarveaddick Posts: 21,808
    Good god! I've been here since day one in that case! 

    I just love it. Thanks Lookie, Dan and all the rest. You should be mighty proud of what you have created.