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RIP Redmidland, Malcolm, Malc, Wally - p11

T_C_E
T_C_E Posts: 16,421
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news.
He’s been missing from our daily WhatsApp chat for a day or two, not unusual we often do it to each other when we need some time out.
I texted him yesterday with no reply and again not unusual, so I WhatsApp his wife Angie, just a simple
 “Thinking of you both, stay strong love Ray and Lynne xx” 
Nothing else I could say would make Wally better or help Angie stop worrying, in the last half hour I received this message from Angie, I’m not changing a word it’s exactly how I received it.
I hope to travel up at the earliest opportunity to see them and although technically I’m on jury service until Friday I will travel irrespective if it becomes more urgent. 
As the message says Wally is not well enough to receive calls, but by all means send messages to me and I’ll make sure he hears them asap.

Ray


“ Just got back from hospital.  Cancer spreading quite aggressively now. 
We've done the DNR today. 
We don't know how little time he has but it's just a case of management.  
Can you let Colin know and charlton folk. He doesn't mind hearing from you n Colin but he doesn't want to be bombarded this week.
 It's shook him up x”
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Comments

  • northstandsteve
    northstandsteve Posts: 14,329
    Awful news Ray, thoughts are with him and all his family 😢
  • lordromford
    lordromford Posts: 7,801
    Oh, that’s really sad.
    Sending love and good thoughts.
    Let them know how much everyone thinks of him.
  • eastterrace6168
    eastterrace6168 Posts: 22,599
    edited June 4
    Charlton Life family are there with you and for you, thoughts and love to all...
  • ElfsborgAddick
    ElfsborgAddick Posts: 29,088
    edited June 4
    That's very sad.

    I do not know Malcolm but what an inspiration he is in his fierce struggles with his health.

  • Rob7Lee
    Rob7Lee Posts: 9,596
    Ah man, so sorry to hear this, Ray.

    Thoughts with everyone. xx 
  • charlton_hero
    charlton_hero Posts: 4,668
    Very sorry to hear this. Sending my love to Malcolm and his family.
  • oohaahmortimer
    oohaahmortimer Posts: 34,170
    poor family and friends , love to all x
  • LouisMend
    LouisMend Posts: 5,450
    Sorry to hear this, Ray. Thoughts with Malcolm and his family 
  • GreenWithEnvy
    GreenWithEnvy Posts: 1,844
    What a tough place for all concerned to be. My prayers are with Red and his family. Always a fantastic contributor on this forum.
  • eaststandmike
    eaststandmike Posts: 14,956
    Thanks for the update Ray, so sad to hear this, considering the fight Red was putting up he deserves better.

    Get yourself up there when you can and give him a big hug from all of us. 

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  • TellyTubby
    TellyTubby Posts: 3,550
    He has had a sudden downturn. I spent my formative years with him and his family.

    Thinking of you Malc.
  • cfgs
    cfgs Posts: 11,484
    Oh crap never met Red, but have enjoyed his posts over the years.  Like everyone here I wish him and his loved ones all the best.
  • _MrDick
    _MrDick Posts: 13,108
    😢
  • Henry Irving
    Henry Irving Posts: 85,236
    Awful news

    Give him my best wishes
  • DamoNorthStand
    DamoNorthStand Posts: 10,942
    One of the first people that comes to mind when I think of Charlton Life. Thinking of Red and all his friends and family xx
  • Covered End
    Covered End Posts: 52,015
    So sorry to read this Ray.
    My thoughts are with Malc, Angie and everyone connected.
  • CharltonKerry
    CharltonKerry Posts: 2,960
    Terrible news, thoughts and preys to Malc and his family and friends.
  • HardyAddick
    HardyAddick Posts: 1,638
    So sorry for you all
  • aliwibble
    aliwibble Posts: 26,302
    Oh damn. Sending as much good wishes as humanly possible.
  • ShootersHillGuru
    ShootersHillGuru Posts: 50,629
    Aw shit. Very saddening.

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  • CHG
    CHG Posts: 4,529
    Terrible news to read. Please send on my best wishes. Thoughts go out to you all 
  • Rob
    Rob Posts: 11,804
    That is very sad. Don’t know Malc but I do know him through here. Sad times for everyone close to Malc. Stay strong. Cherish the memories. :( 
  • Greenhithe
    Greenhithe Posts: 781
    Rubbish. Bad news. Don’t know him but he’s one of us and his updates were sad but at times uplifting. 

    Hope he can be as comfortable as possible. 
  • ross1
    ross1 Posts: 51,004
    Sorry to hear, never met him but like a lot of CharltonLife contributors, felt like we are all friends, always enjoyed reading his comments on here
  • Brown59
    Brown59 Posts: 236
    So sorry to hear this news.  My prayers are with you. 
  • thecat
    thecat Posts: 353
    Very sad news, best wishes to Red, his family and friends. Thinking of you all.
  • Valley11
    Valley11 Posts: 12,001
    Very sad news. Sending my best to Malcolm and family. 
  • jose
    jose Posts: 630
    Very sad news.
    Thoughts are with Red/Malc, and all those closest to him, and the wider Charlton family.
  • carly burn
    carly burn Posts: 19,472
    Thinking of Red and his family at this very difficult time.
  • bigstemarra
    bigstemarra Posts: 5,098
    Thoughts and prayers with RM, friends and family.