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Charlton photographer with cerebral palsy verbally abused

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  • usetobunkin
    usetobunkin Posts: 2,190
    Do hope the Police, nail these scumbags. Most buses have CCTV, let’s hope some images get published so the Charlton family can help in the search.
  • seth plum
    seth plum Posts: 53,448
    Appalling.
    I would hope not to be a passive bystander in that situation, and I would hope many of us here would feel the same.
  • DOUCHER
    DOUCHER Posts: 7,911
    tom is a ledge, no doubt about that - seems like a real character, fuck em Tom, they are nothing but a gang of sad cases - u on the other hand - sky's the limit 
  • LoOkOuT
    LoOkOuT Posts: 10,863
    Oi @Ollywozere! I quote: "...On Charlton Life of all places!" You're on thin ice mate.

    Tom, I'm sorry that this happened to you. You're a brilliant photographer and a credit to the club.
  • jakecafc
    jakecafc Posts: 2,070
    Why do we still get scumbags like this in 2021. 
    Well done to the Charlton fan who stepped in and helped him. 
  • SantaClaus
    SantaClaus Posts: 7,667
    I think I remember Tom being right in the middle of the Doncaster pitch invasion and briefly chatting to him on the train back down to Ashford. He seemed like a really nice guy.
  • boggzy
    boggzy Posts: 3,596
    Would be great if this group of scum was found (and ideally sterilised).
  • cafctom
    cafctom Posts: 11,373
    Have met Tom a few times on away days. Lovely lad, and extremely talented. Very passionate about what he does, and as a club we should be very proud to have him working for us.

    Those who committed this are absolute cowards, and one day they will get their comeuppance in life.
  • LargeAddick
    LargeAddick Posts: 32,610
    Saw this on the local news earlier. Absolute pond life. Hope they get caught and dealt with. No one should have to suffer abuse going about their daily life. Hope you are ok Tom.
  • oohaahmortimer
    oohaahmortimer Posts: 34,173
    Words fail me , seriously who brought this pondlife up .
    Keep up the good work Tom , we’re all with you 

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  • Valley11
    Valley11 Posts: 12,004
    hoof_it_up_to_benty said:


    Good film on Tom
    What an inspirational human. 

    Forget the bus wankers, Tom. You’re living your best life mate. 
  • Baldybonce
    Baldybonce Posts: 9,653
    Buses are very well covered by CCTV so it shouldn't be long before images are released and those responsible are caught.
    As a regular bus user i know 99% of folks are helpful to anyone who needs it but i have seen lately more aggressive behaviour by teenagers to anyone perceived as different.
  • Henry Irving
    Henry Irving Posts: 85,251
    Sad little people who think attacking someone with a disability makes them "better".

    In reality the opposite is true.

    Tom is better than they will ever be.
  • stop_shouting
    stop_shouting Posts: 3,680
    Blimey no words. Tom doesn’t have the simplest journey to get to Charlton either. Just hope this experience doesnt put him off and they nail the scum who abused him: 
  • hoof_it_up_to_benty
    hoof_it_up_to_benty Posts: 22,467
    stop_shouting said:
    Blimey no words. Tom doesn’t have the simplest journey to get to Charlton either. Just hope this experience doesnt put him off and they nail the scum who abused him: 

    I have tried navigating public transport with my daughters in their wheelchairs and I know how hard it is. What Tom does in terms of travel and his great attitude is nothing short of remarkable - this is real determination.

    Charlton are lucky to have him as a fan and photographer- he will inspire a lot of disabled youngsters. 
  • stop_shouting
    stop_shouting Posts: 3,680
    hoof_it_up_to_benty said:
    stop_shouting said:
    Blimey no words. Tom doesn’t have the simplest journey to get to Charlton either. Just hope this experience doesnt put him off and they nail the scum who abused him: 

    I have tried navigating public transport with my daughters in their wheelchairs and I know how hard it is. What Tom does in terms of travel and his great attitude is nothing short of remarkable - this is real determination.

    Charlton are lucky to have him as a fan and photographer- he will inspire a lot of disabled youngsters. 
    Hear hear mate 👍
  • ricky_otto
    ricky_otto Posts: 22,600
    AndyG said:
    Absolutely disgusting that this could happen. Also a sign of the times that nobody on the bus stepped in ( not casting blame as you never know what these pricks are going to pull out of their pockets ) the sad thing is that if they are traced all that will happen more than likely is they will get a warning. Tom this must have been awful mate but dont let these morons knock your confidence be proud and carry on
    This is the shitty society we live in. Pure scum that verbally abused him and nobody felt able to step in for fear of having a knife stuck in them. 
  • Mendonca In Asdas
    Mendonca In Asdas Posts: 22,656
    I just don’t know what to say, I’m sorry you had to go through this Tom.
  • Gribbo
    Gribbo Posts: 8,500
    You'd think that, with everything you see about anti-bullying these days, this kind of nonsense would be a thing of the past. But there's no way that me, or anyone I know / knew, would've took part in this kind of thing 20 - 30 years ago. Obviously not saying it didn't happen at all back the, just more surprised tht it does now


  • seth plum
    seth plum Posts: 53,448
    edited December 2021
    One thing that I find uplifting is that when Tom is the photographer at U18 and U23 matches, if you look at the video clips when a player scores (which this season is many and frequently) they very often run over to the corner or place where Tom is. They probably want him to get a good picture of their joy, but also want to include him because they are celebrating with a genuine fan.
    Even as I approach seventy I like to think I would stand up to such nastiness that took place on that bus if I witnessed it, and I believe if enough of us did so these scum would be more wary of trying things on.

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  • ricky_otto
    ricky_otto Posts: 22,600
    seth plum said:
    One thing that I find uplifting is that when Tom is the photographer at U18 and U23 matches, if you look at the video clips when a player scores (which this season is many and frequently) they very often run over to the corner or place where Tom is. They probably want him to get a good picture of their joy, but also want to include him because they are celebrating with a genuine fan.
    Even as I approach seventy I like to think I would stand up to such nastiness if I witnessed it, and I believe if enough of us did so these scum would be more wary of trying things on.
    I’m not so sure Seth. These sort of people are vermin and have no respect for anything or anyone. They wouldn’t dare do it on their own, but as part of a group they just don’t give a shit. 
    It’s a sad state of affairs that people can’t speak up or act without fear of having of being knifed. 
  • seth plum
    seth plum Posts: 53,448
    ricky_otto said:
    seth plum said:
    One thing that I find uplifting is that when Tom is the photographer at U18 and U23 matches, if you look at the video clips when a player scores (which this season is many and frequently) they very often run over to the corner or place where Tom is. They probably want him to get a good picture of their joy, but also want to include him because they are celebrating with a genuine fan.
    Even as I approach seventy I like to think I would stand up to such nastiness if I witnessed it, and I believe if enough of us did so these scum would be more wary of trying things on.
    I’m not so sure Seth. These sort of people are vermin and have no respect for anything or anyone. They wouldn’t dare do it on their own, but as part of a group they just don’t give a shit. 
    It’s a sad state of affairs that people can’t speak up or act without fear of having of being knifed. 
    You’re quite right that interfering would be risky, but what is the alternative?
    Well yes the alternative is to uneasily look away because of fear, but then you’re forever left with the feeling ‘I should’ve done something’.
    I suppose if you can film them it might help, shout at them might, using your umbrella might.
    It would take gumption.
  • Gribbo
    Gribbo Posts: 8,500
    ricky_otto said:
    seth plum said:
    One thing that I find uplifting is that when Tom is the photographer at U18 and U23 matches, if you look at the video clips when a player scores (which this season is many and frequently) they very often run over to the corner or place where Tom is. They probably want him to get a good picture of their joy, but also want to include him because they are celebrating with a genuine fan.
    Even as I approach seventy I like to think I would stand up to such nastiness if I witnessed it, and I believe if enough of us did so these scum would be more wary of trying things on.
    I’m not so sure Seth. These sort of people are vermin and have no respect for anything or anyone. They wouldn’t dare do it on their own, but as part of a group they just don’t give a shit. 
    It’s a sad state of affairs that people can’t speak up or act without fear of having of being knifed. 
    A bloke I used to work with was killed confronting two 14 year olds who were bullying his daughter, over East London last summer
  • ValleyGary
    ValleyGary Posts: 37,988
    The OB don’t even like approaching these rats now let alone a few OAPS on a bus.
  • Arsenetatters
    Arsenetatters Posts: 5,979
    I can't begin to imagine what they get out of this sort of bullying. What kind of twisted minds would think that this was OK? To get off the bus and follow him must push the offence way past bullying. They all need sending to a young offenders place for a good while. Then they'd see how hard they were. Especially the girls. For some reason this makes me feel even more sick.
  • KBslittlesis
    KBslittlesis Posts: 8,619
    I’m more angry that no one on the bus did anything!

    Tom, you are an exceptional man ♥️
  • Shag
    Shag Posts: 4,555
    Tom if you’re reading this you’re a million times a better person than these absolute waste of oxygen scum. Wish the OB would publish the cctv so these lot can be dealt with. Keep up the good work Tom, DO NOT let this get you down 
  • GlassHalfFull
    GlassHalfFull Posts: 2,351

    Consider the group dynamic. Six males but only two females, so each guy has to go further in order to try and impress. That then encourages the girls to egg them on. So the nastiness builds. Despicable. 

    Tom's dedication to his photography and to his club are breath-taking. Just the journey alone is daunting enough, but Tom seems undeterred. Yet another Addicks champion. These pages regularly bring to light remarkable stories of stars amongst us who face awe-inspiring challenges with unwavering determination. Heroes all.

  • AndyG
    AndyG Posts: 5,914
    usetobunkin said:
    Do hope the Police, nail these scumbags. Most buses have CCTV, let’s hope some images get published so the Charlton family can help in the search.
    And what do you supose will happen if they do find them?
    Not alot is my guess. 
    People like this have no moral code, no fear of what happens if they do this shit, if they did they wouldnt feel safe enough to behave like this in public.

    The best thing that could happen to them is if traced by the police. Walk them out to the centre circle at the valley before a game and let them hear what people that do have the above attributes think of them. 

    An interview behind closed doors and then given a polite warning from the OB only builds their reputation with the other scum that they try to impress
  • NorthheathAddick
    NorthheathAddick Posts: 4,026
    edited December 2021
    Hope there’s scummy shitbags are caught & named & ashamed,won’t think twice of doing it again,call them out for what they are…

    well done on speaking out Tom,don’t let these vile scum get you down mate 

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