Right this may sound a bit gay but im 16 so am I aloud to be? Well I really like this girl and would do anything for her, and shes my ex but we didnt last to long as it was her friends or me etc as I never went out with her and her mates and it finished after 3 odd days but I love her kinda I think. But now shes got with this boy who asked her out and then went on holiday for like 1 month and I've been getting kinder close to her and she wernt sure why she was with him but now decided to give him a chance, but I was wondering has anyone got any ideas to try and win her over? I mean i've been getting to know her friends and seeing her and went cinema a couple days ago with her and then met her mates and it was all cool so you know. Any Real Tips are thankful. Thanks
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Seriously though, your young and I believe that "everything happens for a reason". So if she wants you buddy then i'm sure it will all work out for the best.
But seriously, move on,let her see how great you are and get her to come begging!!
But then what do I know.
Play the field, it's way more fun.
oh and the flowers and treats thing works a treat. no matter how much of a wally other blokes will say you look like, those that are saying that haven't the balls to do it themselves.
oh and the flowers and treats thing works a treat. no matter how much of a wally other blokes will say you look like, those that are saying that haven't the balls to do it themselves.[/quote]
That has really lifted me up mate and thats what I plan to do, not give up as she is the one I want and tbh @Stu I don't really want all that just for fun stuff I would rather be in a relationship with some one I care about more than anything!
Do both, problem solved.
Be nice, show her you care but don't bombard her or put her under lots of pressure as you'll drive her away.
Do sweet things, suggest nice things to do, cinema, picnics, cheap cute things. Don't spend all your money, but spend it carefully on the things she likes, type of flowers, type of chocolates, ask the best friend to help you out with favourite colours, foods, flowers, films etc!
Good luck. Best thing is to be yourself, be positive and assertive - not weak and weedy, don't let her take advantage of your fondness for her either, that's not attractive.
Also remember there should be more in your life than one girl, your friends too, so still see them, keep plans with them and invite her out with them too.
Be nice, show her you care but don't bombard her or put her under lots of pressure as you'll drive her away.
Do sweet things, suggest nice things to do, cinema, picnics, cheap cute things. Don't spend all your money, but spend it carefully on the things she likes, type of flowers, type of chocolates, ask the best friend to help you out with favourite colours, foods, flowers, films etc!
Good luck. Best thing is to be yourself, be positive and assertive - not weak and weedy, don't let her take advantage of your fondness for her either, that's not attractive.
Also remember there should be more in your life than one girl, your friends too, so still see them, keep plans with them and invite her out with them too.[/quote]
Wow thanks, I was expecting to get taken the piss out of for doing something like this thread but thanks to everyone who is helping ,this means alot to me as I just want to be with the girl! Keep em coming as in star wars they would say I am a Padiwan as I still have stuff to learn!
You WILL get digs off your mates for buying her flowers/chocs etc etc, ignore them, they are just jealous.
I still get pelters for it now and I'm a touch older than you, but it's worth it to see my girl happy.
But yeah, the most important thing is to not come across like an obsessed stalker (saying you love her after a 3 day 'relationship' does sem a little odd.
You also might want to be careful about the other guy, if some guy was buying my girl gifts and stuff he'd soon find himself with a broken face, so might wanna make sure you know exactly whats going on there.
Don't do it!! You'll get mugged off, go out and be a rascal she is not as fussed about you by the sounds of it. You went out with her for 3 days???? Did you do anything???? Mate, move on. Besides, if you do really like this girl you are gonna need some practice if you know what I mean. Just don't be a fool and cover your tool then if (and it's a big if) she decides she wants some of your loving you will be more world-wise for doing what I just told you.
[quote][cite]Posted By: Stu of HU16[/cite][quote][cite]Posted By: cafc-4-life[/cite]Wow thanks, I was expecting to get taken the piss out of for doing something like this thread but thanks to everyone who is helping ,this means alot to me as I just want to be with the girl! Keep em coming as in star wars they would say I am a Padiwan as I still have stuff to learn![/quote]
well its more than a 3day its been on and off from her being fussy at times and that and just yeah...
You WILL get digs off your mates for buying her flowers/chocs etc etc, ignore them, they are just jealous.
I still get pelters for it now and I'm a touch older than you, but it's worth it to see my girl happy.
But yeah, the most important thing is to not come across like an obsessed stalker (saying you love her after a 3 day 'relationship' does sem a little odd.
You also might want to be careful about the other guy, if some guy was buying my girl gifts and stuff he'd soon find himself with a broken face, so might wanna make sure you know exactly whats going on there.[/quote]
Dont sit in your room moping about it listening to depressing music (although that is fun) do some other things that you enjoy with other people as well. Not only does it keep your mind off her it gives you something interesting to chat with her about when u are together.
Good luck.
Always a tricky one. I dont think you should get to attached there are loads of girls out there that are single and up for anything so dont put all your eggs in one basket. It must be difficult feeling that way about someone never been that attached to anyone even close family kinda always done things on my own or with help of mates and luckly have a good base of mates.
But would suggest if she dont want it she aint worth it i know it must be hard to see it that way but if she isint on it then just move on mate your better than that i know you are cos your a Charlton fan :)
Think you should all go into writing Eastenders episodes
Kiss a better looking girl (not her best friend).
Then, just sit back and wait. Also just be her friend and make it seem like that's fine...
She might very well be the one on your pathway. ;o)
Seriously, though ...... take Suzi's advice and a little patience. What she's telling you, is from a woman's perspective so it's sound. And you really musn't try too hard, or you surrender your power - women don't find needy men attractive.
Everyone of us has been 16 once, so we do understand - and we've also found out since that life has many twists and turns. Never limit yourself. It's a big world out there and there is much opportunity for you to experience.
You never know what's round the corner.
Works every time!