I now have a pristine copy of the book from my library. I've only read about half of it but what leapt out at me that he is someone who is on the low to middle line of the sociopath scale. Sociopaths may exhibit the following features and SJ does seem a bit greedy with his tick list. ...................................
Glibness and Superficial Charm
Manipulative and Conning They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims.
Grandiose Sense of Self Feels entitled to certain things as "their right."
Pathological Lying Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests.
Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way.
Shallow Emotions When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises.
Incapacity for Love
Need for Stimulation Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common.
Callousness/Lack of Empathy Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others' feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them.
Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others.
Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet "gets by" by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc.
Irresponsibility/Unreliability Not concerned about wrecking others' lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed.
Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts.
Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others effectively.
Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily
Slightly more respect for him after reading this book, providing that what he wrote is true.
Have to say I enjoyed the book. Whatever you think of Jordan, it's a good read and very insightful into the way football clubs are run. It's certainly direct and pulls no punches, naming and shaming managers, players, agents and the football authorities. I guess we all dream of owning our club, well to be fair to the bloke he had a go and it cost him everything!
I hate to say it but its a great read. Really enjoyed it, great insite to how football clubs are run....or not run. Proper funny the whole Dowie business and a funny bit with Steve Bruce.
Former Crystal Palace owner Simon Jordan has revealed he enquired about buying Portsmouth before the administrators agreed a deal with the Pompey Supporters’ Trust. Jordan, now based in Marbella in Spain, had talks on behalf of a consortium encouraged by the potential of the financially stricken club because of their loyal fan base. But Jordan opted out after discussions with lead administrator Trevor Birch because he didn’t believe his investment group could compete with the draw of fans being in charge of their own team. Jordan showing interest in acquiring another Football League club is surprising considering that he admits to losing £50million of his fortune at Selhurst Park. Be Careful What You Wish For, Jordan’s acclaimed book about his Palace years — which he wrote himself — was shortlisted for the 2012 William Hill Sports Book of the Year.
Comments
Really like the way he runs that club , also has the guts to admit when he's wrong and brought Darren Ferguson back
http://www.peterborough.vitalfootball.co.uk/article.asp?a=282505
Next stop, bargain bin!
I didnt know he was a busby babe.
Former Crystal Palace owner Simon Jordan has revealed he enquired about buying Portsmouth before the administrators agreed a deal with the Pompey Supporters’ Trust.
Jordan, now based in Marbella in Spain, had talks on behalf of a consortium encouraged by the potential of the financially stricken club because of their loyal fan base.
But Jordan opted out after discussions with lead administrator Trevor Birch because he didn’t believe his investment group could compete with the draw of fans being in charge of their own team.
Jordan showing interest in acquiring another Football League club is surprising considering that he admits to losing £50million of his fortune at Selhurst Park.
Be Careful What You Wish For, Jordan’s acclaimed book about his Palace years — which he wrote himself — was shortlisted for the 2012 William Hill Sports Book of the Year.
Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/football/article-2238925/Simon-Jordan-pondered-Portsmouth-buy--Charles-Sale.html#ixzz2DPwCwqIO
Follow us: @MailOnline on Twitter | DailyMail on Facebook