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Ched Evans makes a public statement

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  • kentaddick
    kentaddick Posts: 18,729
    IAgree said:

    I am astounded by the mental contortions some people have gone through to minimise, blame shift and excuse this mans dispicable behaviour. Sex offenders will do that all of thier own volition and the lack of remorse shown by this man is classic behaviour illustrating this.

    He has been been found guilty of Rape by all members of a jury and had his appeal rejected out of hand.

    The only reason we are even having this debate is because he is trying to manipulate public opinion to allow the more morally bankrupt elements of our beautiful game (hear represented by Sheffield United) to make money with a rapist.

    Some of you are unwittingly cheerleading this. Why?

    Spot on. And you wonder why a lot of women are scared to come forward when they've been raped. *Some* attitudes shown on this thread are down right prehistoric. We still have a long way to go in terms of attitude in this country.
  • Salad
    Salad Posts: 10,189
    cafcfan said:

    If you do a google search for "filming rape", you'll find there's a surprising number.

    there's no way I'm doing that!

  • There is indeed still a long road to travel but we have improved and as a country we have a generally more enlightened approach than say in the 60's. I would like to think that males like Jimmy Savile would not get away with their foul crimes in our society today. Much remains to be done as recent events in Rotherham have shown and I would also like to see male rape highlighted a lot more than it is. But as a woman I have been very heartened by the responses of many CL'ers.
  • se9addick
    se9addick Posts: 32,035

    There is indeed still a long road to travel but we have improved and as a country we have a generally more enlightened approach than say in the 60's. I would like to think that males like Jimmy Savile would not get away with their foul crimes in our society today. Much remains to be done as recent events in Rotherham have shown and I would also like to see male rape highlighted a lot more than it is. But as a woman I have been very heartened by the responses of many CL'ers.

    The conviction rate is still shockingly low - I'm not sure anyone has a workable idea as to how to reflect the prevalence of the offence with a sensible conviction rate.
  • Jdredsox
    Jdredsox Posts: 534
    se9addick said:

    There is indeed still a long road to travel but we have improved and as a country we have a generally more enlightened approach than say in the 60's. I would like to think that males like Jimmy Savile would not get away with their foul crimes in our society today. Much remains to be done as recent events in Rotherham have shown and I would also like to see male rape highlighted a lot more than it is. But as a woman I have been very heartened by the responses of many CL'ers.

    The conviction rate is still shockingly low - I'm not sure anyone has a workable idea as to how to reflect the prevalence of the offence with a sensible conviction rate.
    I'm pretty sure that rape crisis said only 15% of rapes are reported. Of that number only x amount will result in a conviction. Unfortunately I'd expect the conviction rate in comparison to the number of offences committed to be <10%, which is wrong. However, a number of attitudes demonstrated elsewhere, and in a minority here, have shown why this is the case.

    The rest of this is not directed at the poster I have quoted but at those who have tried to defend this rapist.

    I was so angry last night when I read comments elsewhere such as "he was stitched up" "she's only did it once she realised his reputation" etc. here we have seen statements claiming his crime was not that severe, it was a lesser rape or such rubbish. How is that even a consideration??? Rape is rape, someone forces themselves upon someone else, there isn't consent. That is rape.

    Violent or not doesn't come into that. If there is violence then this should be an additional charge, the less violent rape is no less of a rape crime.

    These prehistoric, male chauvinistic views are sickening. They are unacceptable. She wasn't asking for it, no one EVER is. She could wear and do what she likes, that doesn't mean she was asking for it. She didn't change her mind in the morning as someone alluded to. She went back with one person and there was reasonable doubt he may have had consent. Reasonable doubt, that doesn't mean he didn't rape her as well as some of the rapists supporters claim, just that there wasn't the evidence to prove he hadn't received consent.

    The rapist turned up later, blagged a key and went into the room. She was barely conscious, she can't remember that night, she couldn't give consent but the rapist did the deed anyway. Even his friend was concerned about the state she was in.

    These disgusting views need to be taken out of society, maybe you need education, maybe you just need to discover some semblance of humanity. I couldn't care less, the fact that you have tried to defend his actions in anyway show your complete lack of compassion and belittle your intelligence. You should be better than that.
  • I do find some of the comments on here in defence of a convicted rapist weird

    To even suggest she deserved it or she knew what would happen if she went back to the room

    The filming of it by his pals at the window tells you he intended on having sex with her before he done it

    The fact he blagged the key to get in and ran down the fire exit route after tells you he knew he done wrong

    Ched evans is a w**k stain on society, he ain't a man he is barely human he deserves no respect no pity and certainly no decent life after this

    I hope her family get revenge where the system let them down and there's another thread talking of how his genitals were found 20 miles from his body, bobbit style but without the ability to re attach
  • cafcfan
    cafcfan Posts: 11,198
    The relatively low conviction rate is of course a concern. I suppose in many rape cases, when there isn't supplementary evidence like witnesses, evidence of force being used, bruising, use of a knife, say, you are left with maybe DNA evidence that sexual activities took place and then it's down to a question of who the jury believes: the victim's allegations or a defendant's assertions to the contrary.
    As we all know, for conviction, the jury must be sure beyond all reasonable doubt that an offence has taken place. However the CPS see it differently. They have two tests: the first is evidential sufficiency; the second public interest. (In rape cases the second test is a no-brainer.) Prosecuting counsel will advise on whether, in her/his opinion, there is more than a 50% chance of a successful prosecution. In rape cases, in particular, it may be that this gap between "more likely than not that the prosecution will succeed" and the jury's requirement to be of a view that there is near 100% certainty that a crime was committed is just too wide and that's why there are so many failed prosecutions. I'm not sure there is an answer to that dichotomy. It's clear, that there would be public outrage if the CPS raised the threshold for prosecution of rape cases in isolation.

    If anyone is interested here are the CPS guidelines: cps.gov.uk/publications/prosecution/rape.html
  • PL54
    PL54 Posts: 10,757
    I have always wondered how they know 85% of rapes (or anything) don't get reported. How do they know if they don't get reported ?
  • Goonerhater
    Goonerhater Posts: 12,677
    somehow i just dont see myself "googling filming rape" ----thanks for the suggestion though FFS
  • Fiiish
    Fiiish Posts: 7,998
    PL54 said:

    I have always wondered how they know 85% of rapes (or anything) don't get reported. How do they know if they don't get reported ?

    I imagine there is some statisical scraping on those who have admitted that they are a victim in confidentiality (e.g. to a charity or helpline (Samaritans for example) or a friend). The data-gatherer would probably approach charities (who probably themselves keep stats of the numbers of people approaching them but then deciding not to go to the police, as well as canvassing focus groups over whether they know someone who has been a victim but did not go to the police. Some people may even admit to a data-gatherer that they are a victim.

    One thing though, it is pretty impossible to determine how many attacks are not included because the victim themselves is currently unaware that they were attacked due to being unconscious or not in a fit state of mind at the time of attack.

    This thread was originally regarding whether Evans should be allowed to return to his former role, but it has descended into the far less savoury discussion of whether Evans is really that bad or whether certain attacks shouldn't be classed as attacks because of either the victim's behaviour and actions or the intention of the attacker.
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  • Dippenhall
    Dippenhall Posts: 3,919
    For those not familiar with normal behaviour of professional footballers staying at hotels, they probably wouldn't understand why Evans' mates see this as a little jape that went wrong. There is no lack of groupies to oblige, hanging around in the hotel lobbies when footballers play away, and most of the time would assume it must be consensual. My nephew was a pro footballer and met up with him at the Chelsea Harbour Hotel once before a game, and any red blooded male would only dream of having those opportunities (consensually).

    Doubt if Evans was used to having to ask for consent and probably assumed it was just his turn, another night, another hotel, another drunk slag. Many footballers must be thinking there but for the grace of God....

    The "normality" of this behaviour in the footballing world might explain the lack of condemnation and the focus purely on the legalistic rights of an offender to work. If Evans was stopped from playing for his lack of moral standards, where would it end, wouldn't have many players registered with the leagues. Like it or not, I think it's the legal rights that should be applied, or we just sanction hypocrisy.
  • IAgree
    IAgree Posts: 1,839
    WayneK said:

    Why did the woman go to the hotel room in the first place? For a chat and a cup of tea?

    So a woman checking into a hotel room means that she is somehow inviting rape?

    Stop trying to blame the victim. The person responsible was Ched Evans.
  • IAgree
    IAgree Posts: 1,839
    Fiiish said:

    How many other intending rapists get their mates to film it , I mean I'm sure they want us much evidence as possible to be available

    Missing the point, since the defendants didn't realise what they were doing was actually rape.
    Why are you defending a rapist and his accomplices?
  • Rape is not hypocrisy, it is an act of violence against another person in which sex is q weapon. To explain it away as a feature of footballers decadent lives is totally unacceptable. There is no way that I am going to alter my stance on this issue because of a foul amoral footballer. It is they who need to realise that it is their behaviour that is unacceptable in a decent society not the other way round!!
  • se9addick
    se9addick Posts: 32,035
    IAgree said:

    Fiiish said:

    How many other intending rapists get their mates to film it , I mean I'm sure they want us much evidence as possible to be available

    Missing the point, since the defendants didn't realise what they were doing was actually rape.
    Why are you defending a rapist and his accomplices?
    I don't think he was - I thought he was highlighting the ignorance and recklessness if Evans et al ?
  • IAgree
    IAgree Posts: 1,839
    se9addick said:

    IAgree said:

    Fiiish said:

    How many other intending rapists get their mates to film it , I mean I'm sure they want us much evidence as possible to be available

    Missing the point, since the defendants didn't realise what they were doing was actually rape.
    Why are you defending a rapist and his accomplices?
    I don't think he was - I thought he was highlighting the ignorance and recklessness if Evans et al ?
    Apologies if I got that one wrong.
  • cafcfan
    cafcfan Posts: 11,198
    edited October 2014

    For those not familiar with normal behaviour of professional footballers staying at hotels, they probably wouldn't understand why Evans' mates see this as a little jape that went wrong. There is no lack of groupies to oblige, hanging around in the hotel lobbies when footballers play away, and most of the time would assume it must be consensual. My nephew was a pro footballer and met up with him at the Chelsea Harbour Hotel once before a game, and any red blooded male would only dream of having those opportunities (consensually).

    Doubt if Evans was used to having to ask for consent and probably assumed it was just his turn, another night, another hotel, another drunk slag. Many footballers must be thinking there but for the grace of God....

    The "normality" of this behaviour in the footballing world might explain the lack of condemnation and the focus purely on the legalistic rights of an offender to work. If Evans was stopped from playing for his lack of moral standards, where would it end, wouldn't have many players registered with the leagues. Like it or not, I think it's the legal rights that should be applied, or we just sanction hypocrisy.

    I'm not saying it doesn't happen because occasional news stories over the years paint that picture but your disturbing description is not something I recognise.

    I often stay in hotels for away matches and sometimes, by chance, I end up staying in the same hotel as Charlton's players. My observation is that they are generally on a tight leash, don't drink, and are much quieter and better behaved than I have been while attending various courses, seminars, etc. They are polite, friendly and approachable. They are also under the watchful eye of the manager and coaches and sometimes a director or two. They are also away straight back home after the match having checked out of the hotel at lunchtime. The only time I have seen a sports team cause issues in a hotel was many years ago in Cardiff when the New Zealand All Blacks got a bit lively - let's face it no one was going to tell them to shut it were they? (Although I did recently have an issue with Plymouth Albion RFC who were in Rotherham on the same day as us - in that the bastards ate all the bacon at breakfast).
  • Fiiish
    Fiiish Posts: 7,998
    IAgree said:

    se9addick said:

    IAgree said:

    Fiiish said:

    How many other intending rapists get their mates to film it , I mean I'm sure they want us much evidence as possible to be available

    Missing the point, since the defendants didn't realise what they were doing was actually rape.
    Why are you defending a rapist and his accomplices?
    I don't think he was - I thought he was highlighting the ignorance and recklessness if Evans et al ?
    Apologies if I got that one wrong.
    Apology accepted in good faith, se9addick got it spot on.
  • Dippenhall
    Dippenhall Posts: 3,919
    One story going round involved a player who later joined Charlton, but he was young and single and nothing illegal. Accept it may just depend on the club culture.
  • . I would like to think that males like Jimmy Savile would not get away with their foul crimes in our society today. .

    I'd like to think that too, but sadly I don't.
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  • JohnnyH2
    JohnnyH2 Posts: 5,342
    Really good feature on This Week with Charlie Webster and Alan Johnson both saying he has no place in the game. would think you can still catch this on Iplayer.

  • JiMMy 85
    JiMMy 85 Posts: 10,193
    Back in training at United. PFA asked for United to let him train there!
  • IAgree
    IAgree Posts: 1,839
    A disgrace.
  • Covered End
    Covered End Posts: 51,995
    JiMMy 85 said:

    Back in training at United. PFA asked for United to let him train there!

    Thanks Colin :-)
  • AFKABartram
    AFKABartram Posts: 57,825
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