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Has Bowyer lost it?
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DOUCHER said:Redrobo said:DOUCHER said:Redrobo said:MuttleyCAFC said:Redrobo said:Exiled_Addick said:One man's straight talking is another man's bullying. No idea what has gone on or what has been said to who, but we know Bowyer doesn't really sugar coat things, he speaks his mind, even in interviews, and he;s not really too bothered if it ruffles a few feathers. He's quite old school in that respect - entirely possible he's been giving what he probably feels are a few home s truths to players and some of them maybe don't appreciate the way the message is being delivered. Possibly a bit of a generational divide there too - it's a generalization, but people over a certain age always tend to think people under a certain age are a bit soft.I don't believe Bowyer is a bully or is out to deliberately upset or belittle anyone, but entirely possible that he's too blunt for some people and that his manner has upset some.The players putting this out into the public arena need to have a good look at themselves. I think it is a despicable thing to do. Williams seems to be liked by everyone and deserves so much better from his old team mates. Makes him sound weak and I don’t think he is.
I have to say that if I had learnt something like this from a player I would not be putting it out there.
Ironic that Bowyer is being accused of bullying, and is now being bullied.
What it is important to say is that sometimes people snap and it isn't their intention to feed information.
I think J Block and myself have not given the detail of what we know (from different players and different sources) or which player is responsible. But obviously, if you know something you believe is wrong it is hard to support the people/person you think are in the wrong. Especially when it isn't a massive leap to predict and then see the damage it is doing.How did he make him cry? Why did he make him cry? Did he mean to make him cry? Why has it taken over a month to come out? Why are the circumstances not out here?
We are expected to believe that these poor victimised players are so desperate that they are at snapping point and need to unload themselves to a couple of fans. They are members of the players Union FFS.They should stand up for themselves or take matters up via the management line - like everyone else in work has to do. That is the right way to do things. Not creeping behind peoples backs and making unsubstantiated allegations. Their behaviour is worse.The last claim was that Bowyer does not discuss tactics with players. Believing that is delusional. Pure fantasy.
There is so much to criticise on team selection, formations and results, but these underhand snide comments are below contempt.1 -
lancashire lad said:We all have pseudonyms on here, we don't know who each person is or the people that have given them information about the team.
It is all innuendo, no real names just unsubstantiated rumour. I don't know what LB said or didn't say, I don't know who said any of it as they don't use their real names. All this leaves a bad taste and denigrates this site.
If you know something then have the balls to be honest and say who you are, who told you or shut up!0 -
lancashire lad said:We all have pseudonyms on here, we don't know who each person is or the people that have given them information about the team.
It is all innuendo, no real names just unsubstantiated rumour. I don't know what LB said or didn't say, I don't know who said any of it as they don't use their real names. All this leaves a bad taste and denigrates this site.
If you know something then have the balls to be honest and say who you are, who told you or shut up!1 -
DOUCHER said:Redrobo said:DOUCHER said:Redrobo said:MuttleyCAFC said:Redrobo said:Exiled_Addick said:One man's straight talking is another man's bullying. No idea what has gone on or what has been said to who, but we know Bowyer doesn't really sugar coat things, he speaks his mind, even in interviews, and he;s not really too bothered if it ruffles a few feathers. He's quite old school in that respect - entirely possible he's been giving what he probably feels are a few home s truths to players and some of them maybe don't appreciate the way the message is being delivered. Possibly a bit of a generational divide there too - it's a generalization, but people over a certain age always tend to think people under a certain age are a bit soft.I don't believe Bowyer is a bully or is out to deliberately upset or belittle anyone, but entirely possible that he's too blunt for some people and that his manner has upset some.The players putting this out into the public arena need to have a good look at themselves. I think it is a despicable thing to do. Williams seems to be liked by everyone and deserves so much better from his old team mates. Makes him sound weak and I don’t think he is.
I have to say that if I had learnt something like this from a player I would not be putting it out there.
Ironic that Bowyer is being accused of bullying, and is now being bullied.
What it is important to say is that sometimes people snap and it isn't their intention to feed information.
I think J Block and myself have not given the detail of what we know (from different players and different sources) or which player is responsible. But obviously, if you know something you believe is wrong it is hard to support the people/person you think are in the wrong. Especially when it isn't a massive leap to predict and then see the damage it is doing.How did he make him cry? Why did he make him cry? Did he mean to make him cry? Why has it taken over a month to come out? Why are the circumstances not out here?
We are expected to believe that these poor victimised players are so desperate that they are at snapping point and need to unload themselves to a couple of fans. They are members of the players Union FFS.They should stand up for themselves or take matters up via the management line - like everyone else in work has to do. That is the right way to do things. Not creeping behind peoples backs and making unsubstantiated allegations. Their behaviour is worse.The last claim was that Bowyer does not discuss tactics with players. Believing that is delusional. Pure fantasy.
There is so much to criticise on team selection, formations and results, but these underhand snide comments are below contempt.0 -
Covered End said:lancashire lad said:We all have pseudonyms on here, we don't know who each person is or the people that have given them information about the team.
It is all innuendo, no real names just unsubstantiated rumour. I don't know what LB said or didn't say, I don't know who said any of it as they don't use their real names. All this leaves a bad taste and denigrates this site.
If you know something then have the balls to be honest and say who you are, who told you or shut up!0 -
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se9addick said:What would someone have to say to you to actually make you cry?
We're moving to Croyden
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I'm fuming. To do that to a lovely fella like JW. Fcuking bully.5
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ShootersHillGuru said:se9addick said:What would someone have to say to you to actually make you cry?4
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This thread encapsulates how totally depressing it is being a Charlton fan at the moment.
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stoneroses19 said:DOUCHER said:Redrobo said:DOUCHER said:Redrobo said:MuttleyCAFC said:Redrobo said:Exiled_Addick said:One man's straight talking is another man's bullying. No idea what has gone on or what has been said to who, but we know Bowyer doesn't really sugar coat things, he speaks his mind, even in interviews, and he;s not really too bothered if it ruffles a few feathers. He's quite old school in that respect - entirely possible he's been giving what he probably feels are a few home s truths to players and some of them maybe don't appreciate the way the message is being delivered. Possibly a bit of a generational divide there too - it's a generalization, but people over a certain age always tend to think people under a certain age are a bit soft.I don't believe Bowyer is a bully or is out to deliberately upset or belittle anyone, but entirely possible that he's too blunt for some people and that his manner has upset some.The players putting this out into the public arena need to have a good look at themselves. I think it is a despicable thing to do. Williams seems to be liked by everyone and deserves so much better from his old team mates. Makes him sound weak and I don’t think he is.
I have to say that if I had learnt something like this from a player I would not be putting it out there.
Ironic that Bowyer is being accused of bullying, and is now being bullied.
What it is important to say is that sometimes people snap and it isn't their intention to feed information.
I think J Block and myself have not given the detail of what we know (from different players and different sources) or which player is responsible. But obviously, if you know something you believe is wrong it is hard to support the people/person you think are in the wrong. Especially when it isn't a massive leap to predict and then see the damage it is doing.How did he make him cry? Why did he make him cry? Did he mean to make him cry? Why has it taken over a month to come out? Why are the circumstances not out here?
We are expected to believe that these poor victimised players are so desperate that they are at snapping point and need to unload themselves to a couple of fans. They are members of the players Union FFS.They should stand up for themselves or take matters up via the management line - like everyone else in work has to do. That is the right way to do things. Not creeping behind peoples backs and making unsubstantiated allegations. Their behaviour is worse.The last claim was that Bowyer does not discuss tactics with players. Believing that is delusional. Pure fantasy.
There is so much to criticise on team selection, formations and results, but these underhand snide comments are below contempt.
I'm happy to comment on team selections and tactics because I do know (watching the games).
All I would say is we've heard for years of managers throwing tea cups.
Fergie throwing and hitting Beckham in the face with a boot etc etc etc.
Fergie's hairdryer.
I heard Mouhrino saying to the Spurs players you've all got to be c%nts on the pitch.
So whatever Bowyer did or didn't say let's not pretend for one moment that he is somehow unique.
I would assume shouting at the players was and possibly still is the norm.
I have to agree with others that I've never heard of a footballer crying before (they may have, but I've never heard it).
I can barely imagine for example playing Millwall away last season and Bowyer laying into the players at half time, telling them to get stuck in, because we're too soft and all the players burst into tears.7 -
Six-a-bag-of-nuts said:This thread encapsulates how totally depressing it is being a Charlton fan at the moment.2
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Think you need to know the full story and context before fuming. And none of us probably will ever know it.
I witnessed a colleague break down in tears whilst receiving criticism from our manager many moons ago. We only found out much later that they were going through a messy divorce at the time which was playing havoc with the emotions.
Just one example of a multitude of scenarios that could be at play here.18 -
Id be interested to see if things have soured since Roddy appeared on the scene....oddly and I can't explain this feeling, but I took an instant dislike to him in an interview. Could this be an issue between Bowyer and Roddy that's unsettling the squad?
I know who Id prefer out of the two and his surname doesn't begin with R4 -
DOUCHER said:Six-a-bag-of-nuts said:This thread encapsulates how totally depressing it is being a Charlton fan at the moment.0
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The_Organiser said:Think you need to know the full story and context before fuming. And none of us probably will ever know it.
I witnessed a colleague break down in tears whilst receiving criticism from our manager many moons ago. We only found out much later that they were going through a messy divorce at the time which was playing havoc with the emotions.
Just one example of a multitude of scenarios that could be at play here.
Serious issues or exaggerated tittle tattle?
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Covered End said:stoneroses19 said:DOUCHER said:Redrobo said:DOUCHER said:Redrobo said:MuttleyCAFC said:Redrobo said:Exiled_Addick said:One man's straight talking is another man's bullying. No idea what has gone on or what has been said to who, but we know Bowyer doesn't really sugar coat things, he speaks his mind, even in interviews, and he;s not really too bothered if it ruffles a few feathers. He's quite old school in that respect - entirely possible he's been giving what he probably feels are a few home s truths to players and some of them maybe don't appreciate the way the message is being delivered. Possibly a bit of a generational divide there too - it's a generalization, but people over a certain age always tend to think people under a certain age are a bit soft.I don't believe Bowyer is a bully or is out to deliberately upset or belittle anyone, but entirely possible that he's too blunt for some people and that his manner has upset some.The players putting this out into the public arena need to have a good look at themselves. I think it is a despicable thing to do. Williams seems to be liked by everyone and deserves so much better from his old team mates. Makes him sound weak and I don’t think he is.
I have to say that if I had learnt something like this from a player I would not be putting it out there.
Ironic that Bowyer is being accused of bullying, and is now being bullied.
What it is important to say is that sometimes people snap and it isn't their intention to feed information.
I think J Block and myself have not given the detail of what we know (from different players and different sources) or which player is responsible. But obviously, if you know something you believe is wrong it is hard to support the people/person you think are in the wrong. Especially when it isn't a massive leap to predict and then see the damage it is doing.How did he make him cry? Why did he make him cry? Did he mean to make him cry? Why has it taken over a month to come out? Why are the circumstances not out here?
We are expected to believe that these poor victimised players are so desperate that they are at snapping point and need to unload themselves to a couple of fans. They are members of the players Union FFS.They should stand up for themselves or take matters up via the management line - like everyone else in work has to do. That is the right way to do things. Not creeping behind peoples backs and making unsubstantiated allegations. Their behaviour is worse.The last claim was that Bowyer does not discuss tactics with players. Believing that is delusional. Pure fantasy.
There is so much to criticise on team selection, formations and results, but these underhand snide comments are below contempt.
I'm happy to comment on team selections and tactics because I do know (watching the games).
All I would say is we've heard for years of managers throwing team cups.
Fergie throwing and hitting Beckham in the face with a boot etc etc etc.
Fergie's hairdryer.
I heard Mouhrino saying to the Spurs players you've all got to be c%nts on the pitch.
So whatever Bowyer did or didn't say let's not pretend for one moment that he is somehow unique.
I would assume shouting at the players was and possibly still is the norm.
I have to agree with others that I've never heard of a footballer crying before (they may have, but I've never heard it).
I can barely imagine for example playing Millwall away last season and Bowyer laying into the players at half time, telling them to get stuck in, because we're too soft and all the players burst into tears.
Lawrence Dallaglio, Paul Gascoigne, Marco Tardelli and, almost, Stuart Pearce all cried on the pitch, for different reason. It doesn't make them soft. Does it?
There is a big difference between crying, in an emotional situation, and running to HR because your "feelings" have been hurt. There is no shame in the former.
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If a number of senior pros felt the need to step in and took exception to what was said then it might suggest that what was said went above and beyond the usual bollocking players sometime get, but all speculation without the context on my part4
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ct_addick said:I'm fuming. To do that to a lovely fella like JW. Fcuking bully.
if he was that im sure we would have known about it over the last few years and heard plenty of other stories from the past but we havent!
we all make mistakes dont we and maybe on this occasion bowyer did over step the line through anger/disappointment, pressure on him who knows
added to the fact we dont know JW and whats going on in his life it could hve been a number of things that added up to that moment with bowyer
to label bowyer names because of an isolated incident like this after all he has done for us is abit strong i personally think
as others have said managers up and down the leagues shout and scream at players and call them out in the media even in the prem just look at mourinho
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Maybe it was Ged Roddy who shouted at JW and it’s just a case of mistaken identity 🤷♂️4
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If the rumours are true about Bowyer and Williams then it shows that Bowyer is a bit of a nasty piece of work, obviously a big IF still at this point.
He was banging the drum to us saying that Williams was a mentality based player, got to show he's loved etc, some way of showing it if he is making him upset.
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CharltontillidieCOYR said:ct_addick said:I'm fuming. To do that to a lovely fella like JW. Fcuking bully.
if he was that im sure we would have known about it over the last few years and heard plenty of other stories from the past but we havent!
we all make mistakes dont we and maybe on this occasion bowyer did over step the line through anger/disappointment, pressure on him who knows
added to the fact we dont know JW and whats going on in his life it could hve been a number of things that added up to that moment with bowyer
to label bowyer names because of an isolated incident like this after all he has done for us is abit strong i personally think
as others have said managers up and down the leagues shout and scream at players and call them out in the media even in the prem just look at mourinho
Launching into one of the smallest and (by all accounts) nicest players around and after working with him for a while he would probably know that Williams wouldn't say or do anything back.
Would Bowyer have said/done the same to Pearce, Aneke or Inniss? I doubt it.3 -
CharltontillidieCOYR said:ct_addick said:I'm fuming. To do that to a lovely fella like JW. Fcuking bully.
if he was that im sure we would have known about it over the last few years and heard plenty of other stories from the past but we havent!
we all make mistakes dont we and maybe on this occasion bowyer did over step the line through anger/disappointment, pressure on him who knows
added to the fact we dont know JW and whats going on in his life it could hve been a number of things that added up to that moment with bowyer
to label bowyer names because of an isolated incident like this after all he has done for us is abit strong i personally think
as others have said managers up and down the leagues shout and scream at players and call them out in the media even in the prem just look at mourinho
I don't know if this particular incident is true or not but LB is certainly no angel. Of course he should get the chance to learn from past mistakes but forgiving is not forgetting.
(FOR CLARITY: I am not even implying or suggesting that Bowyer has or would physically attacked JW. Simply stating that high standards and a short temper are not unknown quantities.)3 -
eastterrace6168 said:BR7_addick said:J BLOCK said:MuttleyCAFC said:peterreeves said:MuttleyCAFC said:se9addick said:MuttleyCAFC said:But I only wanted him out when he started being ultra negative and digging out players. I was very positive towards him before that.
I've always found your postings to be very balanced so I'm a bit gobsmacked at some of the comments made towards you but this is what supporting Charlton is like... A big family who don't always agree with each other but the love of the club doesn't change!
The Blackpool 0-3 I went from bowyer out to what the fuck is going on he’s lost the plot.
but the Burton game was def the WTF moment for me, i'm afraid by
the time we got to Blackpool I had resigned myself to the inevitable
defeat, unlike me, i like to be positive but WTFF.1 -
Nicholas said:Bowyer ruined the season and our chances of promotion at Shrewsbury away. First his negative tactics cost us 3 points against a very poor team and secondly calling out Williams publicly on the tackle and subbing him shortly after bringing him on. I'm sure the way he was treated pissed a lot of the players off as well as costing us 2 more points. Then onto the next game Williams is on the bench against Wimbledon, comes on does the business scores 1 and sets up another only to be dropped again the following game against Swindon not even coming when we were crying out for an attacking midfielder to come on and help kill the game off costing us another 2 points. Ever since that period in the season the players have never looked the same again and who can blame. With the constant outbursts and calling out even more players since January it's no wonder they dont give a shit anymore.
You can even say Bowyers demise began even a few days before the Swindon game when he blamed the 2000 fans at the MK match for not being more vocal when the game was shit and we had nothing to shout about. Since the new year its just been a desperate situation where its obvious the players dont want to play for him, so his constantly make 5 changes a game, desperate subs and blaming anyone and everyone publicly but himself to save face. Bloke needs to go before he does anymore damage to the club.2 -
So if I'm correct the current state of play on behind the scenes dressing room harmony is that:
@Covered_End_Lad - has mentioned an incident where Bowyer reduced Williams to tears and other senior pros had to step in.
@MuttleyCAFC - has mentioned that Bowyer is apparently wierd/unsupportive around the younger players.
@J-Block - was told by a player in the dressing room the Bowyer has lost the plot.
If these things are true. The two questions I have are:
Why was the dressing room apparently so great during our promotion year. What's happened to change that ethos.
If things are as bad behind the scenes as people are making out, why would it change under a new set of players, and indeed would good players would even want to come to us?
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Nicholas said:Bowyer ruined the season and our chances of promotion at Shrewsbury away. First his negative tactics cost us 3 points against a very poor team and secondly calling out Williams publicly on the tackle and subbing him shortly after bringing him on. I'm sure the way he was treated pissed a lot of the players off as well as costing us 2 more points. Then onto the next game Williams is on the bench against Wimbledon, comes on does the business scores 1 and sets up another only to be dropped again the following game against Swindon not even coming when we were crying out for an attacking midfielder to come on and help kill the game off costing us another 2 points. Ever since that period in the season the players have never looked the same again and who can blame. With the constant outbursts and calling out even more players since January it's no wonder they dont give a shit anymore.
You can even say Bowyers demise began even a few days before the Swindon game when he blamed the 2000 fans at the MK match for not being more vocal when the game was shit and we had nothing to shout about. Since the new year its just been a desperate situation where its obvious the players dont want to play for him, so his constantly make 5 changes a game, desperate subs and blaming anyone and everyone publicly but himself to save face. Bloke needs to go before he does anymore damage to the club.4 -
RodneyCharltonTrotta said:Exiled_Addick said:One man's straight talking is another man's bullying. No idea what has gone on or what has been said to who, but we know Bowyer doesn't really sugar coat things, he speaks his mind, even in interviews, and he;s not really too bothered if it ruffles a few feathers. He's quite old school in that respect - entirely possible he's been giving what he probably feels are a few home s truths to players and some of them maybe don't appreciate the way the message is being delivered. Possibly a bit of a generational divide there too - it's a generalization, but people over a certain age always tend to think people under a certain age are a bit soft.I don't believe Bowyer is a bully or is out to deliberately upset or belittle anyone, but entirely possible that he's too blunt for some people and that his manner has upset some.
Agreed.
A generational clash and different expectations of what is acceptable.
He's from the John Sitton era.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XVj45yN72uU
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FishCostaFortune said:So if I'm correct the current state of play on behind the scenes dressing room harmony is that:
@Covered_End_Lad - has mentioned an incident where Bowyer reduced Williams to tears and other senior pros had to step in.
@MuttleyCAFC - has mentioned that Bowyer is apparently wierd/unsupportive around the younger players.
@J-Block - was told by a player in the dressing room the Bowyer has lost the plot.
If these things are true. The two questions I have are:
Why was the dressing room apparently so great during our promotion year. What's happened to change that ethos.
If things are as bad behind the scenes as people are making out, why would it change under a new set of players, and indeed would good players would even want to come to us?He (Bowyer) is still very young on his managerial journey, and this is the next stage of it. Managing under more of an expectation and with poorer players. Perhaps this side of him was always there, we just didn’t ever see it because we of a) how well we were doing 2 years ago and b) the fact that last season we were in a relegation scrap and seemed to do okay in a backs against the wall situation.
As he is only 3 years into management, I think it’s important to remember he’s still learning, however I think the lessons he learning now are the ones that will ultimately be the undoing of him here and he may not get to truly show he’s learnt from them until he moves to another club.
It all seems a bit untenable for him to stay now, which is a shame6
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