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Being called a racist on Saturday.
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I had an incident in covid id forgotten my mask and guy took offence said he could ask me because he was a security business owner who had more authority then the police.
I asked for his SIA ref he said he did not actually work in the co op. I pointed out he had no authority then never mind more then the police.
He then called me unemployed i pointed out i was not.
he then said i was homosexual (his words) i said i was not but asked if he had a problem with gay people.
he went quiet and i said whats going to happen is you will leave the shop and shout something back.
He then shouted back I was racist. Shop staff were in fits of laughter.
I pass him on the street he says look im security whilst holding up a high visibility jacket. I stop and he says don't come close. I of course moved closer.
He then states don't touch his car. I state why would I.
He then calls me fat, I state he was right i could do with losing a few stone.
I walk away and he calls me racist again.
Some people love an argument not me of course8 -
Always take stuff posted on the internet with a pinch of salt.
But I'm sure the club (or the company) have a log somewhere of where people are posted around the stadium, so even if you don't know his name or ID number, you'd assume they'd be able to find out who it was.
Might be worth sending an email with it all written out, maybe getting your daughter to write a little at the bottom confirming what she heard and send it to the club.
Written emails are usually better than phone calls because of the paper trail.4 -
Covered End said:Are you saying the steward was standing on one side of the stairs and you chose to stand level with him, blocking/partially blocking the stairs?
He asked you not to block/partially block the stairs, but you refused, because you wanted to stay there to wait for your daughter, whilst watching the game?
I'm not saying you did because what you are saying is not clear, but that's the way it reads to me.0 -
Leuth said:WhenIwasLittleBoy said:Leuth said:cafcdave123 said:Leuth said:Kinda want the other side to this story
Do you find it hard to believe that someone was wrongly accused of racism or are you suggesting WIWLB did do something racist?
comes across quite shitty imo
For the record i will swear on my kids life that the events are 100 per cent true, and i would welcome a sit down with the club, steward, his employee to get the facts put in place. The stigma that someone can call you racist when you haven't done nothing doesn't sit right with me, and the proof was in your initial response.
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Leuth said:WhenIwasLittleBoy said:Leuth said:cafcdave123 said:Leuth said:Kinda want the other side to this story
Do you find it hard to believe that someone was wrongly accused of racism or are you suggesting WIWLB did do something racist?
comes across quite shitty imo
For the record i will swear on my kids life that the events are 100 per cent true, and i would welcome a sit down with the club, steward, his employee to get the facts put in place. The stigma that someone can call you racist when you haven't done nothing doesn't sit right with me, and the proof was in your initial response.22 -
cafcdave123 said:Leuth said:Kinda want the other side to this story
Do you find it hard to believe that someone was wrongly accused of racism or are you suggesting WIWLB did do something racist?
comes across quite shitty imo
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How is that bait? I'm trying to be as fair as possible to all parties here. People aren't just assholes who accuse others of racism for a laugh. There's always some sort of genuine pain. It does sound like WIWLB wasn't being racist, but accidentally triggered some sort of memory or bad association for the poor steward. It's an unfortunate situation11
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Any possibility that the steward misheard what you originally said when explaining why you were on the stairs ? It’s the only rational explanation I can think of although it still doesn’t give reason to why the steward thought you was going to twat him.1
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DoctorCharlton said:What's WIWLB?6
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Am I the only one who read WIWLB as “when it’s on the official site”5
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BR7_addick said:Am I the only one who read WIWLB as “when it’s on the official site”3
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Leuth said:WhenIwasLittleBoy said:Leuth said:cafcdave123 said:Leuth said:Kinda want the other side to this story
Do you find it hard to believe that someone was wrongly accused of racism or are you suggesting WIWLB did do something racist?
comes across quite shitty imo
For the record i will swear on my kids life that the events are 100 per cent true, and i would welcome a sit down with the club, steward, his employee to get the facts put in place. The stigma that someone can call you racist when you haven't done nothing doesn't sit right with me, and the proof was in your initial response.
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Rothko said:limeygent said:Being called a racist these days often means you've won the argument.6
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stonemuse said:Leuth said:WhenIwasLittleBoy said:Leuth said:cafcdave123 said:Leuth said:Kinda want the other side to this story
Do you find it hard to believe that someone was wrongly accused of racism or are you suggesting WIWLB did do something racist?
comes across quite shitty imo
For the record i will swear on my kids life that the events are 100 per cent true, and i would welcome a sit down with the club, steward, his employee to get the facts put in place. The stigma that someone can call you racist when you haven't done nothing doesn't sit right with me, and the proof was in your initial response.0 -
JaShea99 said:cafcdave123 said:Leuth said:Kinda want the other side to this story
Do you find it hard to believe that someone was wrongly accused of racism or are you suggesting WIWLB did do something racist?
comes across quite shitty imo5 -
Leuth said:stonemuse said:Leuth said:WhenIwasLittleBoy said:Leuth said:cafcdave123 said:Leuth said:Kinda want the other side to this story
Do you find it hard to believe that someone was wrongly accused of racism or are you suggesting WIWLB did do something racist?
comes across quite shitty imo
For the record i will swear on my kids life that the events are 100 per cent true, and i would welcome a sit down with the club, steward, his employee to get the facts put in place. The stigma that someone can call you racist when you haven't done nothing doesn't sit right with me, and the proof was in your initial response.7 -
_MrDick said:BR7_addick said:Am I the only one who read WIWLB as “when it’s on the official site”1
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cafcdave123 said:JaShea99 said:cafcdave123 said:Leuth said:Kinda want the other side to this story
Do you find it hard to believe that someone was wrongly accused of racism or are you suggesting WIWLB did do something racist?
comes across quite shitty imo0 -
limeygent said:Rothko said:limeygent said:Being called a racist these days often means you've won the argument.0
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Gribbo said:Leuth said:WhenIwasLittleBoy said:Leuth said:cafcdave123 said:Leuth said:Kinda want the other side to this story
Do you find it hard to believe that someone was wrongly accused of racism or are you suggesting WIWLB did do something racist?
comes across quite shitty imo
For the record i will swear on my kids life that the events are 100 per cent true, and i would welcome a sit down with the club, steward, his employee to get the facts put in place. The stigma that someone can call you racist when you haven't done nothing doesn't sit right with me, and the proof was in your initial response.1 -
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Leuth said:WhenIwasLittleBoy said:Leuth said:cafcdave123 said:Leuth said:Kinda want the other side to this story
Do you find it hard to believe that someone was wrongly accused of racism or are you suggesting WIWLB did do something racist?
comes across quite shitty imo
For the record i will swear on my kids life that the events are 100 per cent true, and i would welcome a sit down with the club, steward, his employee to get the facts put in place. The stigma that someone can call you racist when you haven't done nothing doesn't sit right with me, and the proof was in your initial response.17 -
DoctorCharlton said:What's WIWLB?17
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Well, even if he's new to stewarding and relatively young, he may have still had some bad experiences in a public-facing role. It may be that he's unsuited to stewarding due to an unstable temperament, but none of us are really going to have any idea of what was really going on in his head, which is why I'd want to hear his side of it. N.B. I really don't think you were being consciously racist and I'm not here to condemn you. We're all human beings who deserve empathy, even Huskaris0
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Leuth said:Well, even if he's new to stewarding and relatively young, he may have still had some bad experiences in a public-facing role. It may be that he's unsuited to stewarding due to an unstable temperament, but none of us are really going to have any idea of what was really going on in his head, which is why I'd want to hear his side of it. N.B. I really don't think you were being consciously racist and I'm not here to condemn you. We're all human beings who deserve empathy, even Huskaris
I never knew you cared so much
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Leuth said:Well, even if he's new to stewarding and relatively young, he may have still had some bad experiences in a public-facing role. It may be that he's unsuited to stewarding due to an unstable temperament, but none of us are really going to have any idea of what was really going on in his head, which is why I'd want to hear his side of it. N.B. I really don't think you were being consciously racist and I'm not here to condemn you. We're all human beings who deserve empathy, even Huskaris
shitty for shittys sake14 -
Leuth said:cafcdave123 said:JaShea99 said:cafcdave123 said:Leuth said:Kinda want the other side to this story
Do you find it hard to believe that someone was wrongly accused of racism or are you suggesting WIWLB did do something racist?
comes across quite shitty imo
Good luck with getting it sorted WIWLB. For the record, I know it's not what you'll wan't to hear, but I'd advise lurking outside the ladies in future rather than arranging to meet on the stairs.2 -
Stig said:Leuth said:cafcdave123 said:JaShea99 said:cafcdave123 said:Leuth said:Kinda want the other side to this story
Do you find it hard to believe that someone was wrongly accused of racism or are you suggesting WIWLB did do something racist?
comes across quite shitty imo
Good luck with getting it sorted WIWLB. For the record, I know it's not what you'll wan't to hear, but I'd advise lurking outside the ladies in future rather than arranging to meet on the stairs.11 -
Stig said:Leuth said:cafcdave123 said:JaShea99 said:cafcdave123 said:Leuth said:Kinda want the other side to this story
Do you find it hard to believe that someone was wrongly accused of racism or are you suggesting WIWLB did do something racist?
comes across quite shitty imo
Good luck with getting it sorted WIWLB. For the record, I know it's not what you'll wan't to hear, but I'd advise lurking outside the ladies in future rather than arranging to meet on the stairs.
Edit: Huskaris too quick.7